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@Yingsanyue

Hi Crystal,I'm sorry you're going through some hard times, it will get better day by day but I know what it can feel like when its a fresh breakup. You've come to the right place to get a listener. I just wanted to send friendship strength and to let you know you're not alone. I hope you bounce right back and have your smile back soon. Don't let someone steal your smile!

Blessings, Day

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Hi Crystal,

It sounds like you're going through a lot, and I know it's overwhelming to have so many changes at once. It can be really scary as well. I hope you utilize the one on one listener chat but the forums are great to get a lot of support as well. I tend to be around most evenings - I'm headed to bed now but feel free to look me up tomorrow or another night.

Hang in there!

@YingsanyueHi

Hello im jessie open to talk anytime

@Yingsanyue

that can be too much to handle for a time ying, appreciate u r making positive efforts and i wish it all gets sorted out for u soon and feel free to reach out to me or another listener anytime u wish to talk it out . ❤️

Believe in yourself; U r strong and resilient; u have already made it through the darkest moments and unserstand ur strengths n weaknesses. Don’t waste energy on ppl who don’t appreciate u n I believe u r a wonderful person. I would want to believe family is only but a phone or conversation away and they r always there for u.

New experience or hobby is the best medicine, ranging from going to gym to trying a new workplace.

I myself had also gone thru a breakup years ago. Back then I didn’t cherish and support her which eventually pushed her away. She initiated the breakup - my emotions started from relief, to betrayal, to hatred n eventually guilt. I guess that is why people say guys are slower cos it is only now then I realise how perfect she was and till this day still find her the best lady I want to be with.

during my darkest moments, I also got into gym, then slacked because of covid. I also thought of having a mid year career change to be a pilot but didn’t got the courage. I tried a few hobbies and classes to keep my brain occupied in a cheerful manner, activities like learning Japanese, went for yoga experience class, and eventually went for my first solo trip to Korea. That said, I’m not sure if solo trip is suitable for me as I think I prefer to share these beautiful moments and experience with someone close

looking forward to hearing from u

@Yingsanyue - 

Hi Crystal,

It sounds like you're going through a difficult time, and I know it's overwhelming to have so many challenges at once. It can be really scary as well. I hope you use your resources during this hard time. Such as therapy and you can always request for a listener. You are not alone through this, it may be hard right not but it won’t be like forever. Sending you hugs, take care. 💕

-Bunny