MJ
I'm MJ and I am having a hard time finding someone to talk to. Almost every listiner has either pretty much ignored me or just stopped talking in the middle of the xhat. IvI' tried verified listiners and everything. I don't know how many more times i can be ignored.
@MJ420
If you are willing to chat in the forum here, to me, out in the open, I'm ok with that.
@DavidEss
I suppose i could do that
@MJ420
Go for it. I'll reply when I can.
@DavidEss
Well I'm 13 and i still wet myself day and night doesn't matter, I never know i need to go i just do. I've been to doctors and specialist's and a couple of psychiatrist. The docs say that there is no medical or psychial reason for me to wet myself. The psychiatrist said that deep down inside i want and need to be a little girl, so my mind let's me wet myself. My parents treat me like a child,they say that it's best for me. I have to wear pull ups when I do know i need to use the bathroom i have to ask to be taken. At home I'm not allowed to wear bottoms just my pull ups and my shirt can't come below the waist band of my pull ups.
I guess that it in a nutshell.
@MJ420
another thing is, I think I may have figured out why a lot of listeners can't work with you. It could be because they are not cleared to work with young teens. Unfortunately, I'm not cleared to work with yu in a private chat either, so let's just see how we go.
MJ, you need to make sure that you are not using your username anywhere but on this website. We're talking about really private and personal stuff, and I don't want it to come back on you becasue someone finds out who you are, right? - if yu need to, you can change your username on your profile to whatever you like.
@rumplesteeleskin
@DavidEss
This is the only place i use that username has i have no other accounts. I have had a number of listiners who are able to chat with teens and they pretty much all ignored me more or less.
@MJ420
Sounds like this girl at school disrespected you. Children can be very cruel. My guess is that most of the others were embarrassed for you rather than on her side, but even so. Do you have any support at the school?
As far as other listeners on this site, I'm hoping you have just had technology breakdowns. I hope at some point that you will trust enough to choose a listener and try again. Can you imagine that's possible?
Thanks for reassuring me about the unique nickname.
Hi! Intern waiting for his MD degree here. Its not a huge problem.
Try a genitourinary specialist and more importantly, a neurologist. Its probably a sphincter control defect caused by an improper innervation. Dont worry.
Bests; AcKh
P.S. im no listener but i can visit this forum if i know how @-ing works in this site
@AcetylKholine
Hi thanks for the advice. I have been to doctors and specialist's and psychiatrist and I've been probed scanned and poked and talked to everything you can imagine. I think I've seen every type of doctor out there.
@MJ420 is it hereditary?
@AcetylKholine
No no one in my family has had this problem. I've been to a neurologist. Has far as the other type you mentioned i have no clue. I've been to so many doctors i can't count. I'm not sure if you read everything but I would welcome your feedback.
@MJ420 because Ive seen this before a few years ago. We had a female case with very poor continence. We treated with her by injecting a specific dose of butox near her urethra. 4 years later, she is still OK. maybe talk with a plastic surgeon
@AcetylKholine
Ok I'll mention it to my parents
@MJ420 hi you can message me anytime MJ i cant promise that life wont ever call me away but i would let you know where im going if it ever does and explain and i only talk to 1 person at a time so youll have my full attention if you do message me
@jennysunrise8
Thanks so much that's awesome of you. I will.
Welcome
@Josalaljos04
How you doing?
@Josalaljos04
Welcome?
@Josalaljos04
Thanks for the welcome
im not on here very often (since im just reading ur post), but my heart goes out to you. Im sorry I dont have advice. Does setting a clock to wake you every 2 hrs to go to bathroom help any? or using a pad (made for urinary incontinenece) make it any easier at school? I just wanted you to know that your story broke my heart and I said a prayer for you. hang in there ! There has to be an answer to your problem out there !❤️
@closeriamtofin
Thanks for replying. And thanks for the prayers. No it doesn't help and right now i wear cloth training pants with plastic pants over them during the day.
I would love to talk to you more if you like. Have a great day.