Newbie
Hii everyone! 🌸💗
I'm still a newbie here, and honestly, I'm a little shy about introducing myself, but I thought I'd say hello instead of being a silent reader. 😭🫶🏻
I'm here to learn, meet new people, and hopefully make some lovely connections along the way. I may take a little time to open up, but I genuinely enjoy meaningful conversations and getting to know people beyond just their usernames. 🤍
I believe everyone has a story, a different perspective, and something we can learn from them. I'm excited to explore this community, learn from all of you, and slowly become more comfortable here.
So, I'd love to ask you all something! 🥹🌷 If you could give one piece of advice to someone who's new to 7Cups, what would it be? Or, if you're a newbie too, how has your experience been so far?
I'd love to hear from you! Here's to learning, connecting, and growing together. 💕✨
@Safeplaceforyall
Welcome 🤗 💚
As a listener I would say, just be you .
Be honest.
And from the start, don't try to do too much.
Set a limit because burn out is real.
Know you are doing your best and that's what matters.
Don't stay in chats that aren't respectful.
And don't take it personally if you are not a fit for a member, sometimes we all have different styles and that's what makes cups great, there's varied listeners 🥰

I'm also new here, and my experience wasn't what I expected. At first, I didn't feel understood or cared for enough, and I received some cold responses to my problems. What bothered me most was being left out in the middle of a conversation. But I didn't give up and messaged many other people, and I found some kind and friendly individuals. What I want to tell you is that everywhere there are not only good or bad people, and you might not find someone who understands you from the first
conversation, like I did🥹💗.
@0Judy0 yess same I experienced same . Even as a listener too some people act rude 😭 .. I'm happy you found someone nice 🫶🏻. Take care of yourself 💖
Thank you for your kind words. I wish you lasting peace and safety. Take care of yourself too🥹🫶.
welcome to the 7 cups, it's been a long time on 7cups for me as a listener, it was a really good journey, always tried to help people , I wasn't aware of most of the things when I joined 7cups, but by time I got used to it and it became a good place
I'm new on here to so much so I'm still navagating the menus lol. I've found this place is full of genuine people with real problems and you seem really respectful, I think it may do you wonders even if it's just reading and relating to people
@ScottishCraig I'm still figuring out things here too .And thank you, that's really kind of you.. I agree, sometimes reading about other people's experiences makes you feel a little less alone. Hopefully, we both find some good conversations here.. 🫶🏻
People are super friendly and helpful here, the listeners are people to with their own life's and problems,they are super helpful maybe one day reach out to them, and I always reply to people as honestly as I can and I'm always around so dont hesitate to give me a mail. Yeah the menus can be confusing haha but it gets you were you need to be. I hope your having a good morning day or night where ever you are 🙂
@ScottishCraig Aww, thank you, that's really sweet of you! 🥹🤍 I'll keep that in mind, and I hope you know you can reach out to me too. It's nice talking to someone so genuine. And haha, I'm slowly figuring out the menus, hopefully I'll stop getting lost soon 😂😭 I hope you're having a lovely day too! 💗
@Safeplaceforyall
Hi hi! I'm a newbie here as well!
I love it here, this community feels like a warm hug ˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶ very excited to connect with others! I think I'm still scared to actually make any threads, but I'm growing to feel safe enough to reply to some posts at least and not also be a silent reader :3
@HollySaysHello
Welcome 🤗 😊💚

@Amanda84
thank you <3 🫂
@HollySaysHello oh welcome 🫶🏻. It's so good you'll find really good people here 💛... It's ok to be nervous.. 💗
@Safeplaceforyall
that makes me happy to hear 😊 i feel scared because it's hard to get support given how harsh my trauma is. i'm learning to not be as scared though!
@Safeplaceforyall
To learning, connecting and growing together <3 Welcome to 7Cups!
I don't have a lot of experience on 7Cups, I kinda dip in from time to time before I'm out but my advice would be to be patient. Don't expect anything. Give yourself time to get to know others and for others on here to get to know you, and eventually you'll find people you can relate to
Hello Safeplaceforyall!
Welcome to 7Cups. 🌻
I hope you learn, grow and contribute to the community and to the world at large. Each day is a learning experience. Each day is different.
As a verified Listener, I can only say that it will be best if you approach your time on 7Cups in an open and proactive manner. Ofcourse there are rules, and you must give it a read to understand the do's and don'ts.
That being said, I am still growing. I have absolutely loved my time here. I hope you will enjoy spending time with the users too. Wishing you all the good luck.
Regards,
ApplePie8587. ✨
@Safeplaceforyall
I'm so glad you're here and amazing job making a post even when you're nervous! I hope you find the community to be as friendly and accepting as I know it can be!