People who divide humans into good and bad
How come no one in your life that you thought of as good failed you? If so, then you see them as all bad or what?
Such a strong immature coping mechanism going on here.
People should not be divided into good and bad
@helloCranberry5684
Hello!
This is an interesting perspective.
I see your viewpoint. I think in some respects I agree with you.
For instance, in school: Labeling a student as good or bad.
However, in others I think it’s necessary. For instance, murders.
Either way, Thanks for the interesting
conversation starter! 🌿🌺
This makes sense, Joy. Agreed 👍
You know people think that everything is black or white..well the truth is that there is always good in bad and bad in good...
It's also about the situation.. maybe a person is bad to you but good to another person... We all have different perspectives... What i try to do is always see the good in people and appreciate it and also try to understand what provoke their dark side.. no one is born bad or evil .. something happened to them along the way...
@helloCranberry5684
Hi, I have actually felt like it is a part of growing up to see that people are not either good or bad, and that most of life is grey.
Sometimes I wonder why we might give ourselves the power to label someone as completely bad or why we'd spend our energy that way.
I also tried to apply it to myself. I remember that there are good people who did a bad thing and hurt me but it never changed my idea of them being a good person or stop me from loving them although boundaries might have needed to be set or a relationship altered. This way when I do something I am not proud of myself its a reminder that it doesn't make me a bad person or unlovable.
@intuitiveWriter1887
"Sometimes I wonder why we might give ourselves the power to label someone as completely bad or why we'd spend our energy that way."
The same applies to why suck the energy out of the other who you constantly badmouth.
@helloCranberry5684
I'm not sure I understand what you are saying here. Don't we always give away our energy and power when we badmouth?