Relationship Help
I’d like to talk to someone who isn’t a friend, my mom, or my boyfriend. I recently found out my boyfriend’s “ex” is in several of my graduate classes, and I learned a lot of new information about my boyfriend’s past. Including contradictory info and that he messaged his “ex” while we were dating. I want help figuring this situation out without judgment.
@modestLion8251 Hi dear. Every relationship should be based on trust. Please don't be biased and talk with your boyfriend instead of trusting his ex. People can be mean and manipulative and there's the case she's spreading false info about him so that she can ruin your relationship. I would advice you to talk to him and ask him if all this is true and why he hid things if that's the case. Don't lose your calmness dear. Everything is going to be ok. Please don't hesitate to connect with a listener if you need extra support. Thank you for sharing!
Hello, I’m not a registered listener yet but I’d love to help you with anything if I can. Feel free to message me any time.
@modestLion8251
You do see the ex may have a motive to sabotage you .....even if she does not want him back maybe she wants to punish him by pissing you off...... the new info may be twisted .. as another poster said have a real talk with your BF.
i totally get wanting an outside opinion as family and friends are not very objective..... it is very teenage like to play games by trying to tell you things to make you upset or question thing not an adult move IMO