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@tryinglittleaudrey You are beautiful as you are.

Please know that these so-called beauty standards are unrealistic and intentionally impossible to reach. They exist to make women feel inadequate, to keep us suffering and spending money trying to “fix” things that were never wrong with us in the first place.

I don't know who you're comparing yourself to, but every woman you see in the media is someone already considered conventionally attractive, and even then, she's gone through countless surgery, cosmetic procedures, professional makeup, styling, hair work, and still gets photoshopped. Even they don’t look like that in real life.

How people classify you doesn’t matter. And honestly, most people are so busy worrying about how they look, they’re not even thinking about your appearance. We’re all stuck in this mirror game, convinced we’re being judged, when in truth, everyone is too busy judging themselves.

Your size, your scars, your clothes, none of that defines your worth or your beauty. You are enough. You are good. You are not for sale. You are already a beautiful woman, because beauty isn’t something you earn, it’s something you already have, whether the world sees it or not.

Sending you so much love. 💛 

@tryinglittleaudrey Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us. 

Youre message would greatly help others too who arent comfortable in their body image. 

You may not fit someonelses standard and thats ok - thats the logical side. 

To connect with you on the emotional side - it could be experiences of bullying that have shaped how you see yourself, focus on social media and ideal body types. Its understandable to want to be someones favourite. 

I think it starts with being your own favourite first and not putting others on a pedestal. 

Just because someone else is beautiful doesnt mean you are not. 

Sometimes people think if you have a calm nature you dont need a compliment and you know the value you hold already. 

I'm glad you shared your insecurity with us as it would be really helpful in understanding and helping you with what is possible. I truly get what you mean and I'm really here for you to help you feel better about yourself but you'd have to trust yourself, me and the process of it. Wanna chat? Just a message away!

@tryinglittleaudreyI'm really sorry you’re feeling this way. It’s so hard when your self-image doesn’t match how you want to feel inside. Remember, beauty is not just about fitting a certain shape or size—it’s about the unique person you are, scars and all. Those scars tell your story and your strength. Feeling beautiful starts with kindness toward yourself, even in small moments. You deserve to see yourself with the same compassion you’d give a friend. It’s okay to have tough days, but please know you are more than your appearance. You are valuable and worthy just as you are.