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User Profile: emg01
emg01 September 24th, 2025

i don’t know if i’m looking for advice or what… but am i wrong for being jealous of everyone getting pregnant? i just found out my sister is pregnant and i want to be happy for her but i don’t know if i can be. i’ve been struggling with getting pregnant for a while now. i’ve previously had one miscarriage and i feel as though it’ll never be my turn…

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 24th, 2025

@emg01

🥺

You are not wrong, you are human.

And it can seem unfair, when it's happening all around you and not for you.

I'm sorry you lost a baby, my heart goes out to you 💜💕

It's heartbreaking, all the expectations, excitement and plans and then to be replaced with an emptiness.

I'm certain you are a good sister and love and are happy for your sister.

You are just struggling .

I gioe and pray, it'll be one a reality for you one day soon, and you'll get the dream you are longing for 💜💕

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 24th, 2025

@Amanda84

Hope and pray!

User Profile: emg01
emg01 OP September 24th, 2025

thank you.. i just want it so badly and it doesn’t help when my mom and MIL are both wanting grandkids from me and talk to me about it and it’s just like… i’m trying

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 24th, 2025

@emg01

Please don't take their pressures and expectations on board, I can see how much it means to you, but you need to be gentle with yourself 💜

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User Profile: Cyntia241
Cyntia241 September 26th, 2025

Hey, I’m sorry for what you are going through: but as human beings we sometimes tender to be jealous of people that have the things we are looking….. It doesn’t make you wrong or a bad person.…. A lot of us have this feeling and I like to believe it happens even when you don’t intend to be jealous per say.

User Profile: Aayla
Aayla September 26th, 2025
@emg01 you're not wrong or bad for this, it's a natural reaction and I'm sure that your sister won't hold it against you, she'll understand how hard it is for you. Don't feel pressured to hide and repress your emotions, they're a part of who you are, a part of your journey. Joy for your sister will come too, at the right time. 
And if being a mother is what you desire, I wish for you to be able to become a mother, in whatever way or time it's meant to be.