@dark1ivy I wish I knew 😞 I'm sorry things are like this
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I feel like on some level everyone judges everyone else, whether they mean to or not.
But I just tend to tune out the highly opinionated, making commentaries on me, when they know nothing about my life or experiences.
@dark1ivy I'm sorry you feel this way, but please know it's not kind to generalize. While being a woman can be extremely exhausting at times-- no, not everyone judges everything a woman does. That's not fair to say this, because it takes away from the men out here who aren't judging. It's totally ok that you feel the way you do. I'm sorry if certain people in your life and certain experiences you encountered in life is why you feel this way. I hope that you can be surrounded by accepting, caring, nonjudgemental people. I hope you find people who can help with whatever you're carrying and lighten your load. Hope you have the day you deserve. Please take care of yourself. Bye. 👋
@YourCaringConfidant nicely put.
@dark1ivy
What is going on that has you feeling this way?
Caution: if you are man hating feminist, this is going to trigger you:
@dark1ivy, are you just venting, or did you want feedback?
If the latter, here are my two cents:
It can be all too easy to fall into victim mentality.
Evil political and social movements spew propaganda to reinforce the victim myth. Don't fall for it.
Both genders have unique challenges in life, as well as some advantages.
You are unlikely to be able to avoid being judged, but you can choose to exercise some humility and gratitude for things you have simply because you are female.
@dapperHouse4710 that's called missandrist just so yk
@aTinyDroplet
Yes, well aware, thanks. Unfortunately, it's been my experience that increasingly forums are populated by persons who have very limited vocabularies. IQ, attention span and reading comprehension are also reportedly in common decline.
