Validation vs Attraction
Dear Ladies,
I’m sure this probably a lifelong and nonlinear discovery. I’m wondering when it comes to men, how can we tell if it’s authentic attraction or I just need their validation? Could what I feel might be attraction actually be my subconscious need for male validation? I’m curious what others journeys are with this question!
@LovingPeacefulHeart
When I'm attracted to someone, I can feel it, but I need something deeper for anything to progress, as attraction is transient.
But women are often conditioned to think they need a mans validation, but the only validation , we need is our own, and when we dont base our self worth on a mans opinion, then we have the potential to let things progress 🩵🤗
@LovingPeacefulHeart
As you rightly said, this is a long, non linear journey that takes a lot of inner reflection and unlearning of social impositions. I think the only suggestion I have is to try to unpack how you feel, journal, reflect and try to track where the feelings come from! <3
