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Why does everyone love to drink, but I completely hate it?

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Last Updated: 01/18/2021 at 10:00pm
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Anonymous
April 5th, 2015 8:27pm
Life has different meaning to different people . For some people drinking is life , for some it's enjoyment , some people drink because of piere pressure , some drink to numb their pain , some do to show off ..... For me drinking can be very rare or not at all , doing something that is harmful to our body cannot give us happiness at all .
cherishedJoy15
May 17th, 2015 7:12am
Well I love to drink water because it makes my skin glow. But liquor and I aren't friends. :) Thats my story and Im sticking to it.
Probius
October 27th, 2015 4:11pm
Not everyone loves to drink, there are many people who stay away from alcohol. Many people also pretend to like alcohol because they think it will make them look cool. It is perfectly ok to hate alcohol, you don't have to drink if you don't want to. Don't let anyone pressure you to drink when you don't want to.
therapinto
March 2nd, 2015 7:14am
Its a matter of choice and the ability to resist alcohol consumption. It also depends on our taste buds. Some people like the taste of alcoholic drinks and some don't. If its not your cup of tea, don't drink it. Its perfectly fine to dislike alcoholic drinks.
MrWhiteSuit17
December 22nd, 2015 6:26pm
Everyone has their own journey to face, and some handle it different from others. Drinking is a damaging habit that acts only as a temporary band-aid for what ever they may be going through. You may have healthier and more productive methods at your disposal, and that is wonderful! It shows a lot about your initiative. Just remember to lend an ear to those who drink. The issue may be a little deeper, and you may just be the one to help them out.
Anonymous
October 9th, 2016 5:17pm
Hi I suppose it may be because either you have seen the effects alcohol addiction can have on peoples lives and that has put you off. Also it may be perhaps you dont see the attraction in going partying etc because everyone else is .
Anonymous
April 12th, 2015 3:49pm
Everyone loves to drink because everyone loves to drink. It is a paradox of peer pressure. To me alcohol doesnt taste very good and what I have learned to do is whenever someone offers me a drink I say something like "I am the designated driver"
Yahaans
October 26th, 2015 2:10am
Drinking is not for everyone. Many people enjoy different things in life. Some enjoy it and some don't, everyone is different I guess that's just the way it is.
strangeangels
August 25th, 2020 6:10am
This is probably very personal to you. I can't say without meeting you why you don't like to drink. I definitely can say not everyone loves to drink and you might want to find more people like yourself who don't drink. You might have had a trauma involving alcohol or had a parent that was an alcoholic, I have no idea. Many people who do "love" to drink are actually covering up something inside they don't want to deal with, it's not an enviable thing. If you really just don't enjoy alcohol then there's nothing wrong with it and you don't have to change it.
listeningearishere
January 18th, 2021 10:00pm
Excellent question. Drinking alcohol is often a large part of social gatherings in our society. People may drink alcohol for a variety of reasons, and vary per person and per situation. Alcohol is a widely recognized social lubricant, so many people engage in it. It is completely understandable and valid that you hate it. We all enjoy different things; likewise, we dislike different things. You completely hating alcohol isn't a bad thing, I personally think this is a good thing. A lot of times, alcohol can lead us to make decisions that we wouldn't make sober, which can be dangerous. You have much more control over your actions and behaviors by not drinking alcohol!
Anonymous
July 6th, 2015 12:27pm
because we are all different. we all have our own taste, likes and dislikes. its ok not to like something everyone likes because its not everyone u r someone and u dont like it and thats totally fine
DragonEye
December 14th, 2015 9:46pm
Some people drink to forget bad things that have happened to them in their lifetime; however, if you're feeling pressured to drink then there is no way you should. If you don't like to do it, don't do it! It's as simple as saying no - and once you learn to say no, you can slowly start growing confident with yourself. It's normal to have personal dislikes and likes, it's really just up to your preference. But don't let anyone tell you that because you don't drink it makes you "uncool". If you don't want to or don't like it, then don't!
2cupsofteaa
October 4th, 2016 7:08am
Well nothing wrong with that! It's just individual preferences. You may associate negative memories to it while others don't, or perhaps you just don't like the taste? Either ways, it's fine! Probably a good thing for you too in the long run.