Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

How do I know I will find someone else?

165 Answers
Last Updated: 06/12/2022 at 6:29pm
1 Tip to Feel Better
Italy
Moderated by

Anna Pavia, psicologa psicoterapeuta psychotherapist psychologist counselor

Licensed Professional Counselor

I feel my work as my personal mission and I love it. My work with clients is nonjudgmental, supportive. I am a very good listener. I use several approaches. Amo il mio lavoro.

Top Rated Answers
AshiiGirl
May 30th, 2016 11:50pm
Its always scary when we think we will never find someone else. Especially if we thought we found the right one then there no longer with us. It always takes time to find someone else. Most the time it is when you least expect it.
Ky23
November 8th, 2017 8:14pm
I think people get there heads wrapped up in those they see everyday: Maybe it's a classmate, or someone you work with that you find cute. With a relatively small pool, the chances of something happening and lasting aren't always super positive realistically. I think the best thing to do is remember that there are so many awesome people out there... and that when you stop looking for someone, they'll find you. Those things normally happen by circumstance and sheer chance.
MickeyJ
November 26th, 2014 9:48pm
Just like you found that one person. That should show you that it may take a while to find someone that fits you but it will happen
MicakelaE
March 2nd, 2018 12:14am
You will find someone else because you are awesome. Someone else will come along and understand you. and will love you in exactly the right way. Don't settle for anything less. With the huge amount of people in the world, there has to be someone else. Increasing your opportunities is a good way to meet new people. Join a gym, join a class you've always wanted to do, take your headphones out when travelling etc.
Anonymous
April 22nd, 2015 11:50pm
Currently the world population is around 7 billion. You are going to meet some people that are be good for you, or they may be bad, but remember what they've taught you along the way. I honestly believe there is someone for everyone, and in my experience, once you are capable of not feeling like you need someone, then they will be right there.
CourageousPal26
March 15th, 2015 9:33am
Use the power of math. How many people are in your city/town who are single and around your age? The probability that you'll like a couple of them in this huge group of people will be high. Joking aside, you just have to go find that someone else. Don't just sit at home and mope about how prince charming isn't storming through your door to rescue you, I believe that people need to be more active in looking for a mate. This goes the same for guys. You need to go meet new and compatible people.
Anonymous
March 24th, 2018 2:05pm
That's just how life works. You will lose people, and you will find new people. That's normal. I can promise you, you are not alone.
Anonymous
April 5th, 2018 7:53am
You are you! That’s how. You are yourself and you shine brighter then the stars. You’re worthy of love and anything that comes along with it.
Anonymous
November 22nd, 2017 10:20am
Love won't be knocking at your door. To find someone else you also have to be active to some degree, and be brave, and not be afraid of a possible failure. There are many more ways of meeting new people nowadays than ever before. Make the first step, take action and you will get there, eventually.
Anonymous
November 26th, 2014 8:46am
Well? I am not sure how to answer that particular question but, what helps me is being happy and content with myself no matter what the odds. That indicates a whole and happier person. And it helps attract more friends and possible relationships. Hope that helps :)
Anonymous
August 19th, 2017 1:12am
Because you know and your a beautiful and a smart person. Your time will come maybe not tomorrow or next week or in years but when it happens it will feel good patience is key to life
Anonymous
October 26th, 2015 8:05pm
When you move on it can be hard to move on at first but you need to stay positive and not drop because if you do it will be harder to pull yourself back up.
Anonymous
November 27th, 2014 7:19pm
You don't. But you also know that you will always have yourself. If you are concerned about finding someone else, it's not a guarantee, but it's likely. What are the chances that out of billions of people, the one person you dated was the only person who could connect with you in such a way as to inspire love? If you keep your heart open and you look for love, most likely you will find it. The only guarantee, however, is the most important love: Your self love.
Anonymous
April 26th, 2018 3:21pm
It definitely takes time, but remember this. A lot of people try to keep in mind that there is someone meant for everyone, some people don't find them, but those who do.. are very lucky. I am one of those people, so what I am going to tell you is that it is either they find you or you find them. Maybe you already know them, but the time is not right currently! :) it may take time, too, but no harm is attempting to find him/her yourself.
Anonymous
December 17th, 2017 2:10am
You just got to have hope. I️ know how this feels and trust me we think we will enever find someone else but we will. Someone in this world is exactly who we belong with. We just don’t know it yet.
Anonymous
December 25th, 2019 7:58pm
Well you never know for sure if you will definitely find someone else but bear in mind that all of us are destined for someone and it might take a while for them to arrive but they will arrive for sure. Slowly but surely one day they will come into your life in the form of a random someone but once you realize their place in your heart you will find that random someone as your best friend , your best adviser, your supported . You will find them fulfilling the space for that special some one without you even noticing . That's all I would like to say . Thank you for reading.
Anonymous
March 8th, 2020 8:24am
There's over 7 billion in this world. I surely know one is a perfect match and faith will bring him/her to you. Believe in that and it will happen(law of attraction) but at the same time do believe that life will go on although you do not have a partner. You can live your life as normal and be successful and when the time is best to have a new person in your life, a spark will hit you and you will know. But now meet new people, find good friends and spend time with them, join different activity clubs and you'll find people who share the same interests as you.
Anonymous
December 31st, 2016 1:34am
I don't know if you will find someone else. But, if a person believes that they will, then their confidence alone that forms with that belief would most likely make it come true. Not with signs of desperation and needing to find that someone else, but with hope and swing. Be reasonably kind to others, and they might show it back to you. My perspective of life is more like aiming to be who you want to be and whoever comes into your life that triggers your fancy, go for it. Who knows, they might be who you're looking for.
Anonymous
April 19th, 2018 10:05am
There are billions of people an this planet, which means you have billions of chances to meet and connect with people
ahoyanita
March 21st, 2020 2:21am
I know everyone feels the need to find someone to adore. Sometimes letting that mindset go and just loving yourself is better. Don’t worry about finding someone else. Find yourself and love who you are!! Then someone will see how amazing you are. This took me years so don’t worry. No one is ever behind on finding themselves. I feel much better and feel it’s easier to find someone who cares about me. Even if it’s only just my own sister, who I didn’t think enjoyed my presence. You’ll see people who adore you more clearly! Hope this helped!!
Anonymous
April 9th, 2020 12:22am
If you are ending a relationship, it is normal to ask the question "How do I know I will find someone else?" We wonder if we were the problem, and we blame ourselves. If a relationship did not work there is a reason why. Someone did not want to be in the relationship. When you are ready, someone will come along who wants to be with you and will do the work to make that relationship survive. We have to love ourselves and believe that someone who will treat us the way we deserve to be loved will come along. Don't settle for less because we are afraid that no one else will come along. You are beautiful!
Anonymous
February 16th, 2017 6:19pm
Nobody knows, what matter is that you still want to believe and see other peoples good qualities and love them more than you loved the ones or your past partners :)
Anonymous
July 8th, 2020 2:04pm
It will happen someday in the distant or near future. Maybe you will find the special someone in a park, a road, your school, university or office, or shockingly they have been by your side all this time! Nevertheless, before bumping into that special someone or even after, know that you complete yourself. Having a friendship and getting to know ourselves is equally precious and rewarding. There are parts of you that need to heal, feel loved, cherished, and encouraged. Do you love yourself enough? In this process, you may start seeing the “someone”, as a comrade in arms, towards this discovery of self- instead of relying on them to complete the voids within you. The only person missing in your void is you.
Anonymous
December 9th, 2017 1:26am
Have hope that someone special comes along and patience to wait for the right person. Sometimes when we give things time and go with a flow/making the most of the 'now', we can enjoy our life to the fullest.
Anonymous
July 8th, 2020 6:42pm
Well you still have a long time to find someone just give yourself time and never give up the right one will find you or you will find them just don't give up on yourself and put faith in yourself trust your self and don't let anything tell you you can't do it and i promise you will find the perfect person who holds the other half of your heart it might take some time but it will happen and when it does i hope you make each other very happy and i hope you never have to understand heart break like i do it takes time just never give up and always love yourself
Anonymous
January 25th, 2018 4:03pm
At first try finding yourself. That's the most important part of your life. If someone is there eventually you will find them.
Anonymous
July 16th, 2020 4:39pm
You never know for sure if or when you will find someone else, it just happens. When the time is right that person will be there. Sometimes it's when you least expect it and other times you might have known for a while. Try not to jump into the first relationship that comes your way, take your time to make sure you are ready for this and that it is the right relationship. Sometimes it can take days, and other times it can take years to find that right someone. I think the best thing you can do in the meantime, is love yourself first.
Anonymous
April 1st, 2018 12:13am
Because that person will come into your life when you least expect it. Don't worry about it too much.
Anonymous
May 2nd, 2017 2:36am
There is the old saying, there is a lid for every pot and I do believe that. The best way to find someone is to concentrate on loving yourself first. When you love yourself and know your self worth you open yourself to being a better partner for someone and also attracting a better quality of people. Don't settle just to be with someone. Establish your deal breakers and don't compromise. You are worth it!
Anonymous
April 27th, 2017 5:50pm
You'll never know when you'll find someone else because you just have to feel it with your soul and find the answers out for yourself and not someone. Remember, no people can predict when an Earthquake will exactly hit, they'll only know it when they feel it.