How do I know I will find someone else?
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Updated: Jun 12, 2022
AshiiGirl
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May 30, 2016
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Its always scary when we think we will never find someone else. Especially if we thought we found the right one then there no longer with us. It always takes time to find someone else. Most the time it is when you least expect it.
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Ky23
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Nov 8, 2017
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I think people get there heads wrapped up in those they see everyday: Maybe it's a classmate, or someone you work with that you find cute. With a relatively small pool, the chances of something happening and lasting aren't always super positive realistically. I think the best thing to do is remember that there are so many awesome people out there... and that when you stop looking for someone, they'll find you. Those things normally happen by circumstance and sheer chance.
MickeyJ
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Nov 26, 2014
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Just like you found that one person. That should show you that it may take a while to find someone that fits you but it will happen
MicakelaE
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Mar 2, 2018
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You will find someone else because you are awesome. Someone else will come along and understand you. and will love you in exactly the right way. Don't settle for anything less. With the huge amount of people in the world, there has to be someone else. Increasing your opportunities is a good way to meet new people. Join a gym, join a class you've always wanted to do, take your headphones out when travelling etc.
Anonymous
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Apr 22, 2015
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Currently the world population is around 7 billion. You are going to meet some people that are be good for you, or they may be bad, but remember what they've taught you along the way. I honestly believe there is someone for everyone, and in my experience, once you are capable of not feeling like you need someone, then they will be right there.
CourageousPal26
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Mar 15, 2015
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Use the power of math. How many people are in your city/town who are single and around your age? The probability that you'll like a couple of them in this huge group of people will be high.
Joking aside, you just have to go find that someone else. Don't just sit at home and mope about how prince charming isn't storming through your door to rescue you, I believe that people need to be more active in looking for a mate. This goes the same for guys. You need to go meet new and compatible people.
Anonymous
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Mar 24, 2018
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That's just how life works. You will lose people, and you will find new people. That's normal. I can promise you, you are not alone.
Anonymous
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Apr 5, 2018
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You are you! That’s how. You are yourself and you shine brighter then the stars. You’re worthy of love and anything that comes along with it.
Anonymous
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Nov 26, 2014
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Well? I am not sure how to answer that particular question but, what helps me is being happy and content with myself no matter what the odds. That indicates a whole and happier person. And it helps attract more friends and possible relationships. Hope that helps :)
Anonymous
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Oct 26, 2015
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When you move on it can be hard to move on at first but you need to stay positive and not drop because if you do it will be harder to pull yourself back up.
Anonymous
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Aug 19, 2017
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Because you know and your a beautiful and a smart person. Your time will come maybe not tomorrow or next week or in years but when it happens it will feel good patience is key to life
Anonymous
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Nov 22, 2017
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Love won't be knocking at your door. To find someone else you also have to be active to some degree, and be brave, and not be afraid of a possible failure. There are many more ways of meeting new people nowadays than ever before. Make the first step, take action and you will get there, eventually.
Anonymous
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Nov 27, 2014
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You don't. But you also know that you will always have yourself. If you are concerned about finding someone else, it's not a guarantee, but it's likely. What are the chances that out of billions of people, the one person you dated was the only person who could connect with you in such a way as to inspire love? If you keep your heart open and you look for love, most likely you will find it. The only guarantee, however, is the most important love: Your self love.
Anonymous
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Mar 26, 2015
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No one knows what the future holds. Take everything one day at a time. You never know who or what may cross your path!
Anonymous
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Apr 29, 2015
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You may feel like you're all alone in the world but finding a significant other is the last thing that should be on your mind. People say that things happen when they are least expected and it's true. If you're always focusing on finding the right guy then he may never come. Don't expect someone to fall in love with you and don't look for someone to just ask out. Wait and make a couple of friends of the opposite sex and focus on anything other than them your schoolwork, your work, anything. Become closer friends with them and wait. Don't expect too much.
TheLovableSunshine
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May 16, 2015
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Love is a cycle. We love and then we get hurt, and the only thing that can heal the pain is to love somebody again. Trust me, you will find somebody else soon enough. If the love you had for another person doesn't work, then maybe somebody in the future loves you more.
Anonymous
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May 28, 2015
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Well, you can't "know," per say, but it's probably a safe bet! The future is full of so much potential; who's to really say that you -won't-?
yorkyroseuk
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Feb 15, 2016
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No-one does!. You need to keep doing the things you enjoy, be open to meeting new people and new experiences and be patient. You can't rush relationships. Some are long and slow burners whilst others are fiery quick and intense. Enjoy your life, let others see you are enjoying it as soon enough someone will want to join you in it.
Anonymous
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Dec 31, 2016
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I don't know if you will find someone else. But, if a person believes that they will, then their confidence alone that forms with that belief would most likely make it come true. Not with signs of desperation and needing to find that someone else, but with hope and swing. Be reasonably kind to others, and they might show it back to you. My perspective of life is more like aiming to be who you want to be and whoever comes into your life that triggers your fancy, go for it. Who knows, they might be who you're looking for.
Anonymous
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Feb 16, 2017
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Nobody knows, what matter is that you still want to believe and see other peoples good qualities and love them more than you loved the ones or your past partners :)