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What can I do to calm down and relax in public situations?

Profile: Athena86
Athena86 on Jul 18, 2016
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I do what's called the "grounding technique." As one who has suffered through anxiety and panic attacks before, I have personally used it and it worked for me. I've been told by several drs and therapists that anxiety/worry is a condition of the past/future respective and bringing oneself into the present helps eliminate those symptoms. Find something you can touch and identify it to yourself. Find something you can see and ID it. Same with a sound, a scent, and a taste.
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Profile: bbvvv
bbvvv on Oct 18, 2016
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Breathe. Breathe, breathe and breathe. Take a look at your surroundings, maintain your focus and breathe. In and out. Just breathe. It will take some time for this technique to work but it does. Breathe
Profile: TaylorK17
TaylorK17 on Mar 26, 2015
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Whenever I get anxious in public I find it helpful to just step away for a few seconds, try to find a place less crowded, away from the situation making you nervous. I usually keep a pair of headphones in my pocket, so being able to step into a different place and listen to a song or two is very helpful.
Profile: HopeBehindtheVeil23
HopeBehindtheVeil23 on Aug 18, 2015
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In public situations, turn your focus towards others and focus on some inanimate object like a shoe or a chair when you feel the anxiety starts building up.
Profile: shininglez
shininglez on Dec 7, 2015
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count your breaths and you can also do grounding exercises, 5 things you see, 5 you can touch, 5 you can hear, 5 you can smell
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 29, 2015
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Excuse yourself, go to the bathroom. Inhale to the count of 4 and exhale to the count of 6 which oxygenates your brain and keeps you relaxed
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Anonymous on May 3, 2015
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I practice yoga breathing exercices, sophrology and acupressure point relative to stress to help me get through!
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Anonymous on Jun 17, 2015
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Breathe. Just breathe. Breathe in and out 10 times with your eyes closed. It helps me when I have to take a test.
Profile: empathy2
empathy2 on Jun 22, 2015
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he five steps to overcoming panic attacks are: Acknowledge & Accept Wait & Watch (and maybe, Work) Actions (to make myself more comfortable) Repeat End
Profile: bigBeauty91
bigBeauty91 on Nov 10, 2015
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#1 Most people feel and think the way you do and are nervous, caring about how others might feels takes your focus away from your own anxiety #2 focus on your breathing for 15-30 seconds, taking deep breaths in and out, this will bring you into the moment
Profile: Manifestation
Manifestation on Nov 23, 2015
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Learn methods to ground your energy down. Often this can be by wearing a hat and covering the head. There are many other means and methods. Do researching on grounding.
Profile: Nostalgicwonder
Nostalgicwonder on Jan 4, 2016
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Take some deep breaths. You may find it difficult to breathe when you’re stressed and in a public situation, but it’s important to focus on taking long breaths. This will restore oxygen to your body, making you feel more calm and relaxed.
Profile: dogswinenetflix
dogswinenetflix on Apr 4, 2016
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I find it helpful to do a sensory exercise: 5,4,3,2,1 with my senses. Example: 5 things you see 4 things you hear 3 things you feel 2 things you smell 1 thing you taste but you can mix it up any way you would like!
Profile: Treestar
Treestar on Apr 18, 2016
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Something that helps me is feeling grounded, when i'm anxious my mind races, and it can be scary when you can't get away from the situation. I count things around me... so count 5 things you can see, then 5 things you can hear, and then make up your own little categories... it helps take my mind off worrying.
Profile: MeowTalk
MeowTalk on May 23, 2016
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breath slowly in and out. Try to think of something happy and sit down or walk slowly. This helps me alot
Profile: Millichidulinas
Millichidulinas on Jul 12, 2016
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You have to breath in and breath out slowly. Just count 1, 2, 3, in a slow way and breath in, then count again and breath out. It helped me a lot and I know that's kinds difficult to do, but that's the only way.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 26, 2016
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Step away for a few minutes from the situation. Try counting to ten and slowly breathing in and out.
Profile: delicateEars36
delicateEars36 on Aug 8, 2016
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Take deep breathes and picture yourself very calm, tell yourself it will pass. Try to have a one on one conversation with someone.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 13, 2016
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The thing that helps me calm down and relax in a stressful public situation is deep breathing. It is a type of yoga technique. You inhale a large breath and exhale very slowly, making the exhale last much longer than the inhale.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 26, 2018
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I use my meditation a lot when I am out of my comfort zone. I find if I breathe in my exercise while out in the public, it ease my scared and troubling thoughts, and helps me get through thsoe moments
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