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What is the best way to get over anxiety in social settings ?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 29, 2014
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Remember that people are not there to judge you, and they likely realize your value as a person. You have just as much of a right to a voice as everyone else.
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Profile: ConallBranagin
ConallBranagin on Dec 30, 2014
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Anxiety in social situations can vary as much as ways to deal with them. being able to understand your specific triggers can certainly help you to explore ways to work your responses to your anxieties. Remembering to take it one step at a time and being okay if the first time you do not get as far or stay as long as you would liked. Of course if this is a major issue for you, I encourage you to seek out professional help. Talk to close friends and family so you can have someone who understands what you are feeling and you can even set up a signal to escape for a moment that they know so they can help you process and return or leave on. Eitherway having someone at your side is adviseable if possible.
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intangibility on Sep 8, 2015
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Experience. Getting over it takes time, determination, and hard work. For me, I had to focus on improvement, not how good I was at the moment. So even if I messed up in social situations, I would treat it like a learning experience
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Anonymous on Dec 30, 2014
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I would say its more than confidence and accepting yourself , because once you accept yourself you might cut off some emotions that you once had in the past that might do a slight difference.
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HattieMae on Dec 30, 2014
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Remember that people are just people. They have interests and hopes and dreams and quirks like you are not this higher authority that you might be afraid of. No one is perfect , and I think we all need to remember that when we're in public. That its ok to let our guard down and me authentic.
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Anonymous on Dec 30, 2014
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In my experiences, I would say the best way to get over anxiety in social settings would be to take slow, deep breaths in case of any fears running through your head. If they do appear, shout this line in your head: "Everything will be fine. I can be a social person."
Profile: Kathryn123
Kathryn123 on Jan 1, 2015
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Practice breathing and grounding techniques. Do things you wouldn't normally do due to your anxiety, no matter how small.
Profile: indiesky
indiesky on Jan 6, 2015
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Breathe and remember that soon it will pass and you can go home. Your anxiety will go away, but to handle it, you just have to breathe.
Profile: JustAWallflower
JustAWallflower on Jun 7, 2015
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For me, I like to find a quiet place to be alone and take a few deep breaths before returning to the social situation. Sometimes it helps for me to be alone outside and get some fresh air or to talk to someone I trust through my cellphone.
Profile: Mary497
Mary497 on Jun 11, 2015
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Practice makes perfect! This cliche can apply to social anxiety as well as its many other uses. The more you interact with people, the more you will realize that it won't go as you expect, it will turn out fine!
Profile: Faithfuldoll
Faithfuldoll on Jul 21, 2015
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Be yourself! Find people who you're comfortable with and who accept you for who you are ! Never give up !
Profile: 4CinderandSage
4CinderandSage on Nov 10, 2015
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Practice, take a break, practice, repeat. Believe in yourself, practice self-love, know you are worthy of being where you are.
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miltesers on Nov 16, 2015
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Breathe, try to avoid conversation with anyone that makes you anxious and instead try to talk to people you know or enjoy talking to.
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Anonymous on Dec 28, 2015
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just remember that you are strong and brave and you can do this because thinking positively has a great effect on your life
Profile: brittbrownie
brittbrownie on Feb 9, 2016
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Take deep breaths and ask to go get some fresh air. I have anxiety also so I understand. I can help if anyone has anxiety.
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Anonymous on May 16, 2016
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anxiety comes when you worry about what others might think of you... and how you can please them so simply be yourself because if they were to accept you they will accept the real you not a fake you and be confident about yourself .dont let doubt get the best of you believe in yourself period.
Profile: Candy007
Candy007 on Jul 19, 2016
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Making less focus on ourselves, and try to logically analyze our situation and behavior. It makes it look smaller and easier to deal with :)
Profile: AndyT
AndyT on May 15, 2017
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Realise that whoever you meet are most likely also going to feel equally anxious about meeting you! They are as human as you are and we all have the need to feel accepted. With this, take many deep breaths, calm down. Watch some stand up comedy videos, or Improv, whatever that makes you laugh, and go and have fun!
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Anonymous on Sep 19, 2017
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I struggle with this personally, and the way that helps me may not be right for you, but it may help. I normally take deep breaths and close my eyes for a moment before asking politely if I can go to the restroom or someplace quiet for a moment.
Profile: Swish2Swish
Swish2Swish on Sep 25, 2017
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I struggled with stifling social anxiety since middle School! The best way to do it is to take a variety of small risks. Make friendly eye contact with strangers. Go to an event alone. Read up on the news so that you have a few interesting tidbits to share. Talk to a therapist about it and set up a strategy together to conquer social anxiety! Make small challenges for yourself, ie ask one stranger a day for the time. Strike up one conversation a day with a stranger about a simple topic - the weather, the news, or their neat hat or shoes! When you practice taking to strangers, it becomes easier to talk to anyone else! :)
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