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How long will it take me to learn the proper paths to forgiveness?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 22, 2015
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There are no proper paths. There simply is what is. Forgiveness is a process of accepting and letting go, and understanding that the past cannot be changed. Anger keeps you imprisoned in the past an unable to move on. Forgiveness is the key to freedom.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 22, 2015
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It's a long way, and will take longer then expected but, you need to learn patience before forgiveness, because you can't play soccer or football without have the skills and balance and that's the same with forgiveness give it time and it's right and it'll come to and right in front of you in no time
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Anonymous on Feb 19, 2015
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It's hard to say; it differs for every person, and for what actually happened. If you did something wrong, the first step is to learn how to forgive yourself. If someone wronged you, then the first step involves them making a real effort to gain back your trust. What that looks like to you may look different to someone else.
Profile: SenpaiXD
SenpaiXD on Apr 20, 2015
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There are no proper paths to forgiveness. There are multiple paths. Just like 2+2 = 4 and 1+3 = 4. Learning to accept is the best fundamental mindset to have.
Profile: GermanZebraCupcake
GermanZebraCupcake on May 7, 2015
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Unfortunately, there is no set answer for this. Some people forgive overnight and others may take years. Don't beat yourself up over it though. :D
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Anonymous on May 14, 2015
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It's all a matter of trial and error. Forgiveness is tough to give especially when you don't want to give it. But once you do, you will feel so much better about whatever situation you may find yourself in where forgiveness is necessary.
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Anonymous on Jul 28, 2015
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This can take quite a long time. It takes personal growth and development, as well as enough life experience.
Profile: kindNarwhal34
kindNarwhal34 on Aug 11, 2015
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I think it depends more on how well we understand the concept of forgiveness itself. Forgiveness does not mean that the other person's actions are okay but rather its about wanting to heal yourself. Forgiveness actually has little to do with the person that caused you harm and has a lot to do with letting go so that you can be happy. Its about understanding that there are more important things for you to accomplish and strive for in your life instead of being focused on anger, resentment and sufferring.
Profile: sprout92
sprout92 on Aug 11, 2015
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In my experience, forgiveness can be an ongoing process. We can't expect ourselves to be able to completely "shut off" our feelings forever, or to never be triggered or feel anger towards someone again. However, WANTING to forgive is the first step, and perhaps the hardest step of all. So if you've made it there, you've made it a long way already.
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Tinygreentreefrog1234 on Sep 22, 2015
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It will take as long as your perspective will allow. Some want to forgive others don't. Also allow yourself time to process your emotions you need to do that in order to process how you feel and finally move on if you choose.
Profile: ShinraBanshou
ShinraBanshou on Sep 29, 2015
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It varies alot from person to person, In fact I don't think there is such a thing as a proper path to forgiveness. What's Important is that you Understand, No matter how long it takes. That the sins aren't a factor any more. Only the future.
Profile: bubblyeater21
bubblyeater21 on Feb 23, 2016
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forgiveness is all about yourself. People have their own personal preferences about forgiveness and whether or not someone deserves forgiveness for what theyve done- only you can decide what type of forgiveness you want to follow.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Jul 18, 2016
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To forgive someone is to let go, and that is always easier said then done. But if u an accept what happened and you can move forward from that, then u are ready to forgive.
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Anonymous on Nov 1, 2016
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It doesn't matter how much time it takes.. The moment we start thinking about forgiveness,we are already a step ahead
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Kkxxrr on Mar 19, 2018
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theres not a set time, it takes as long as it takes and you need to make sure youre putting your emotional wellbeing and needs first, take your time, dont rush and allow yourself to think - youll get there.
Profile: Silverrose25
Silverrose25 on Jul 16, 2018
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Learning the proper paths to forgiveness is different for everyone and every situation It takes a bit of time you also have to remember forgiveness isn't the same as forgetting you are just letting go of the hurt and anger you're feeling
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