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Why are breakups easier for guys than women?

Profile: bratgurl14
bratgurl14 on Nov 17, 2015
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its easier for guys because they have no hearts and they don't think before they do and its hard for us women because we are in love with him but if not i would be easy
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Profile: MegAGoddard
MegAGoddard on Nov 27, 2014
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I'm not sure they are. I personally think that women and men can often have different ways of expressing themselves. Some men may appear to be coping well with a break up, when internally they are struggling. I think this also applies to women. On the other hand, men could be very open about the difficulties they are having as a result of their breakup. Women tend to express their distress more readily than males do, however i dont think this is set in stone. It all depends on the individual.
Profile: Ev3rlastingHope
Ev3rlastingHope on Nov 23, 2015
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Because they think they have an advantage in meeting other girls and introduce their feelings with many tactics or tricks many girls fall in.
Profile: rohans27
rohans27 on Nov 24, 2015
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They aren't, it depends only on the type of person and the depth of relationship. Remember, looks and behavior can be deceptive, it is possible that some are jus acting like they're fine and that the breakup is easier for them, even when it's actually not. Mostly, guys prefer hiding their emotions and actually it doesn't matters if it's a guy or a gal, breakups are always more difficult for the one who loves more.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 4, 2014
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It's actually not that much easier on guys. In fact, polls do show that men take break ups just as hard as women do. The difference is that male-culture prevents men from expressing themselves especially if it's sadness or melancholy. That's not to say that women can hide their feelings too because sadness is completely gender neutral.
Profile: Banven
Banven on Apr 10, 2015
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Who said breakups are easier for guys than women? They may appear to be on the face of it, but its just different people’s ways of dealing with it. In public one man may act like he isn’t too bothered, but he may still cry behind closed doors. Another man withdraw himself while others may overreact by partying, drinking or acting out, overcompensating for their grief or sadness. Without looking into people’s minds you will never truly know what goes on, but just because someone may act one way, doesn’t mean it’s a true reflection of how that person is really feeling inside.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 25, 2014
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Actually, it is just the same for both men and women. It just so happen that men are better in hiding their feelings because of their masculinity. Maybe it's just that it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 25, 2014
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I doubt that. Anybody who has truly invested in the relationship will feel the pain, it is possible that men process through hurt in a different manner than women
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 8, 2014
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I truly feel that is a misconception. I have seen male friends of mine suffer through break ups. I have seen my own ex put up a jovial face on the outside and move on (which hurt a lotttt), but then when i met him a year later, he told me he still liked me and had never moved on. They dont show it to the rest of the world. They definitely dont show it to their exes. But if a friend were to talk to them when they are fairly drunk and honest, thats when you'd see how truly hurt they are. Women tend to take the initial few weeks to get all their emotions sorted - cry it out, shout it out.. and then start healing. Men tend to zone out and dont confront their emotions- and hence usually take longer to heal.
Profile: starryRiver83
starryRiver83 on Dec 26, 2014
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Break ups can be difficult for both guys and women. Some people show it more, some people don't and this is why people believe that one person is struggling more than the other, but it isn't always the case.
Profile: purplePeach43
purplePeach43 on Mar 6, 2015
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I don't think breakups are easier for guys than women. From the outside, men might do a better job of hiding how they are feeling than women, but I wouldn't necessarily trust this. What makes you think breakups are easier for guys?
Profile: hellopomegranate4772
hellopomegranate4772 on Apr 23, 2015
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It seems that way, but the reality is that guys just hide it more than women. They want to seem strong, like men should be, as they are portrayed that way.
Profile: Tameka
Tameka on May 9, 2015
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Breakups are no easier for guys than they are than women. They affect people differently. Gender makes no difference in how people will respond.
Profile: charmingLove14
charmingLove14 on Jul 27, 2015
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Breakups can be hard for anyone, not harder on women or the other way around. It might be easier for guys because males try to 'hide' their emotions. Where as women are more 'emotionally driven' and prefer to show how they feel (by talking about their emotions, etc.).
Profile: MonkeyMaster
MonkeyMaster on Aug 4, 2015
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Breakups are hard. Hard is hard. When it comes to emotions, trying to compare or to quantify is irrelevant. Everybody copes with hard situation differently and it has nothing to do with gender.
Profile: fruityIris44
fruityIris44 on Sep 22, 2015
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The question assumes a stereotypical view of men's behavior. I am not very sure that breakups are easier for men than women. A lot depends on the emotional makeup of the person and the circumstances. Men do have instinctual drives to mate with many women, but it is not clear that breakups are necessarily easier for men. It may even be harder for an emotional man to handle a breakup. So, in my view, the answer is, it depends on the specific person.
Profile: LemonBee
LemonBee on Dec 22, 2015
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I find that gender doesn't necessarily determine how someone deals with a break up. It may appear that guys have a better coping reaction due to the fact that as a generality, guys are unfortunately socialised to refrain from expressing themselves emotionally. For women it is the opposite. What goes on internally is often much more complex than meets the eye.
Profile: kaycspace98
kaycspace98 on Dec 29, 2015
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I don't think break up are easy for anyone. I think it takes time to figure out how to get over someone. It have figure out who you are outside of that relationship. I think it's different for everyone and I don't believe that any gender struggles less than another.
Profile: Bulelo
Bulelo on Jan 5, 2016
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I don't think they are; they often seem to be because women seem to be more in touch with their emotions and the like. Most of the time, it is simply because the woman was pursued by the guy and so she felt loved, she felt needed and worthy then suddenly everything is pulled from under her!
Profile: Espejo
Espejo on Jan 11, 2016
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Are they easier for guys than women? Perhaps this is the common perception, but I've seen males equally distraught as females over failed relationships. It really depends on the person and how invested they were in the relationship.
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