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How can some people be so cruel for no reason?

Profile: heycrysteezy
heycrysteezy on Sep 15, 2015
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I have no clear answer to this, because I myself look for answers to this question. Some people are just cruel. Maybe it's because they have too much time on their hands, that they feel validation from focusing their energy on another person in a negative way. They could also be very sick, and think that what they're doing is some sort of leisurely activity, because they've never taken the time to experience a real hobby. What does matter in this situation, is how we react to it, and sometimes, it's better to not react at all.
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Because they're low lives and mean, and because they think it's cool to hurt others for no reason. Let me tell you something, if someone is picking on you for no reason then just ignore them, be the better person because they're not worth it, they're childish and small minded and you're a way better person than they will ever be.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 22, 2015
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I'd like to believe that the majority of people who are on this planet are kind and nice. I bleieve that people with no regard for other people's emotions usually are the one's who are cruel and show no empathy. People with low self esteem, people who are angry and stressed out may project these feelinsg on to other people. In conclusion then there are many reasons why people may act mean or cruel, but the important thing to remember is that in all these cases the people are lashing out because of something wrong with them. If you take it personally and let it affect you then this can be highly destructive and you might find yourself similarly acting out against those around you.
Profile: Winter41
Winter41 on Mar 6, 2016
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They might have their own problems or a certain past that haunts them and made them that way. We can never judge people without knowing what made them like that. If he/she is being cruel to you brush it off and don't these comments ever make you doubt yourself.
Profile: politeForest31
politeForest31 on Jun 8, 2015
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Unfortunately, people tend to act out their frustrations in inappropriate ways. It is difficult, but it is equally as important to remind yourself that it often has nothing to do with you; most times you have done nothing to provoke (and certainly nothing to deserve) being treated with cruelty.
Profile: Ell123
Ell123 on Feb 16, 2016
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Not all people know how to love so they make others believe like love is something not existing. Don't let heartless and weak people bring you down!
Profile: MadelineD91
MadelineD91 on Jun 14, 2015
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Some people can be cruel for many reasons. It could that some people have have self-esteem problems. That being said, they feel unhappy with their lives and they believe that someone else has to pay the consequences. People can be cruel unintentional, they can say or do things unconsciously, but that is not an excuse for their actions.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 19, 2016
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Cruelty can often come in many forms, but I believe the main source of cruelty stems from within the offender. When we don't address our own issues of anger, frustration, and even depression, we often use vulnerable people in our environment to feel empowered. But in reality, we are the ones who feel powerless to begin with, and being cruel to others and causing others to feel the same instead of dealing with our own underlying issues is insensitive.
Profile: RogerP
RogerP on May 3, 2015
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Many times others are dealing with a great deal that cannot be seen from the outside. Be it a bad day, upsetting news, a mental disorder, personality complex or life stress. It is my belief that people are normally good but sometimes these mentioned (or more) may be contributors to cruel or negative behaviors.
Profile: ClaraJaneM
ClaraJaneM on Aug 17, 2015
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Some people don't know how to cope with the emotions that they have, so they go by whatever they feel at that moment and use it to fuel their words. They may not mean to be so horrible but they just can't control themselves yet. Although there will always be someone who may not have a reason and are just cruel regardless. These people you turn from and walk away; you do not need these kinda of people in your life.
Profile: ImL
ImL on Aug 31, 2015
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Some people are insecure which causes them to be mean to others to hide it. Others have dealt with abuse of their own that makes them think its the only way to live.
Profile: LittleLantern
LittleLantern on Nov 3, 2015
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Some people do it for the laughs, others do it because they simply dont know any better...and some others just plain get off on it. Sadly..the second is the most common i feel, misguided sense of righteousness..I have encountered that alot.
Profile: TroyKFernandez
TroyKFernandez on Dec 7, 2015
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Because they don't understand the idea of compassion and maybe throughout there life they had a hard time with there family.
Profile: comfortingPeace80
comfortingPeace80 on Apr 4, 2016
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Some people try bring others down so it can make them feel better about themselves. Other people do it because they are going through something or are stressed, and they take it out on others by being cruel.
Profile: LuminousMoonlight82
LuminousMoonlight82 on Jun 7, 2016
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They're most likely experiencing some kind of issue themselves and they don't know how to deal with it so they project it onto others.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 2, 2016
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People aren't always cruel for no reason. Sometimes it's a reason that won't make sense to you but may have a lot of value to them. Other times it may be a mental illness that they either don't know of, or don't want others to know of.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 18, 2015
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Some people are poisoned with so much negativity it's controlled their person like a weed. It's a sad state of affairs, but some people, whether they just don't care, can't see it, or are in pain, choose to let meanness become a pastime and stop caring about other people. It happens when you stop feeling empathy for other people and just hurt them. It's really sad. I feel sad for those that are cruel, because they're only half-living.
Profile: JoannaC46
JoannaC46 on Jul 7, 2015
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sometimes bullies would be cruel because they are not, however, satisfied or happy with their own life.
Profile: emotionalSummer872
emotionalSummer872 on Jun 30, 2018
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They have been hurt
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 19, 2016
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There is a lack of love in their hearts and it is our responsibility to fill the gap with cookies and pizza.
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