Is it my fault I get bullied?
em1235
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Apr 19, 2015
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No it is not your fault that you get bullied. A bully is just broken down themselves and wants everyone to feel their pain. The bully may choose to pick on you because they no you are to kind, nice, and gentle to do anything in return.
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AkankshaP
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Feb 22, 2015
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No bullying isn't your fault, Bullying is a fault of a bully not you. Bullies are people who make fun of others because they like too but they don't realizethat they hurt someone's feeling or in some cases physical pain too. But its defiantly not your fault that your not your fault.
Huggler
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Sep 15, 2015
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No. Really, trust me, that's not your fault. People who bully others are the bad guys in this story, they are the ones who are wrong here. You didn't do anything wrong. Believe in yourself, you deserve so much better than what those bullies are telling you. Don't listen to them, they don't know what they're talking about. Stay strong and take care
Anonymous
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Aug 4, 2015
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Of course it isn't your fault! If you are being bullied you should always tell someone and you should know it is never your fault. The bullies are at fault here for putting you down like this. No one deserves to be bullied and it is not your fault, just tell someone about it and it will stop.
colourfulSpring22
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Aug 8, 2016
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Getting bullied on any occasion is by chance and not be choice. Every person, according to me has the right to dress themselves or do anything about themselves. If it is not accepted by someone else, he or she must learn to accept it.
Anonymous
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Feb 23, 2015
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No it is never ever ever your fault. Please dont ever think that, being bullied is a horrible thing and it should not happen to you.
JustLikeaDream
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May 20, 2015
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No, it's not your fault at all. You didn't ask for it and you certainly don't like it. You may feel like it's your fault, or even think you deserve it, but it's not.
HappyPlaces
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May 27, 2015
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No, you shouldn't feel like its your fault for being bullied. Some people just like to bully people because they are having some of their own problems. or they just like to bully for no reason.
Anonymous
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May 31, 2015
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It is not your fault at all. Usually, bullies project onto other people and hurt them because they're hurting too.
GracefulDuck
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Jun 30, 2015
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It's never your fault for being bullied. People have a problem handling differences in a positive manner, and sadly, that's how they cope
Anonymous
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Jul 7, 2015
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No honey, people bully other people because there unhappy in there life and to them your a threst and they ahve to amke you pay for there unhappiness.
Anonymous
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Aug 25, 2015
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No, but are you taking steps to stop yourself from being bullied? Whether you have to stand up to the person. Or get help. Don't let them think they have that power over you.. You don't deserve that treatment. You shouldn't have to live, constantly feeling tense or scared.
YourFutureBestFriend
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Oct 24, 2015
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No! Not at all. It's the bully's fault. They just need someone to pick on to make themselves feel better. Usually because they're home life or something related isn't going well.
Anonymous
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Nov 3, 2015
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No, it would NEVER be your fault. Honestly, you are just being troubled about because you are an extraordinary person, who just so happens to have very significant features that make you the best person you are today, all I am trying to say is : It is NOT your fault for being unique,it is NOT your fault for making your unique features significant! So No, it will never be your fault. :)
Anonymous
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Dec 28, 2015
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It is definitely not your fault; nobody deserves to be bullied regardless of whom they are. You should consider talking to a professional or someone who can help you through this. You do not have to be a victim always - stand up for yourself and try to get help.
All the best!
KatieWhite
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Apr 19, 2016
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No, it's not your fault. Bullies always exists and they will always find someone to mess with .But there are steps you can take to solve the problem.
ZiggyStardust44
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Apr 23, 2016
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It is never your fault. Dont ever believe anyone who says "you're asking for it". Some people are scumbags, and society likes to abuse people who are different in any way. The worst thing you could do is change yourself to fit in. Be proud of your uniqueness when they're all just sheep following the herd. Be you, and I promise you one day it will all get better... Trust me. :)
JoshLlama
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Jul 19, 2016
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Absolutely not. Bullies typically feel like they are missing something in their own lives and fill that void by trying to bring others down to their level. The best thing you can do is ignore them and move away, hopefully to an area that they can't get to you. If they continue, it's best to bring it up to someone that can deal with it (teacher, principle, supervisor, etc.)
ListeningOak
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Dec 20, 2016
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No, it is never the victims fault. There is no such thing as "Asking for it" or "Brought it upon myself", Bullying is a horrible act that has everything to do with the bullies issues, not yours.
Anonymous
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Mar 6, 2017
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Absolutely not! You're your own person and sometimes people don't like that. Ignore them! people will always do horrible things to hurt you.