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Profile: Dragonsong
Dragonsong on Mar 2, 2015
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Sadly people are not raised to be nice or accept kind actions without compensation. Often we forget that we're one big family and share the earth and lose sight of what is important. But just because kindness is dwindling doesn't mean all hope is lost. Try to influence people with being kind even the smallest of actions help and hopefully kindness can once again become the norm.
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Profile: Abbeyy
Abbeyy on Mar 16, 2016
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I believe some people are actually unhappy with their own selves so they're mean to make themselves feel better which is awful
Profile: victor
victor on May 31, 2016
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Everyone must and will have a disagreement on something. That is how people of this world are. As to Which obviously gets people angry at one and other and both sides usually attempt to hurt each other. You can allow that to hurt you, offend you or simply accepts that and move on. If you accepts that and you still is easily offended and or sensitive. Then you should stop searching for people to make you happy and make yourself happy. If you allow people of this world to hurt and offend you. Well.... 7cups is here for you. Remember, however you feel in this world that won't add a few more days to your or my time on this earth.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 22, 2015
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Being nice takes effort. People are always looking for a quick way for just about anything. Being nice has its rewards, but it takes effort and patience.
Profile: Mugiwara
Mugiwara on Aug 4, 2015
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Sadly, not everyone has a correct or fair moral. We can only hope to find amazing and open-minded people and hang onto those.
Profile: dancingArrow44
dancingArrow44 on Feb 16, 2016
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For the same reason others are nice. Simply because we're human. We have both positives and negatives. People who experience pain more than happiness, usually behave in a more negative manner. Maybe, because they're going through something bad and distrusts everyone. Maybe they're pushing you away so they won't hurt anyone. There's good in everyone. In darkness, there's light, it might just be a little weak and dim that's all. If you know someone like this, help them out. You might get a friend in someone, and so will they.
Profile: mada7
mada7 on Mar 14, 2016
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sometimes people feel frustrated and express emotions in an abrasive way. They may also be experiencing difficulties in their own life so, it is important to understand every person's own personal issues can effect them. If someone persistently is bothering you, you may want to speak with them privately or with a trusted friend.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 19, 2015
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When a bully comes up to you and says that your stupid and whatever they say t i you, dont listen tell them to back ofd and to leave you alone. Also if you have lots of friends who support you they will help. Tell them about it and the bully should back down. If neither works tell a trusted adult and they will take care of it.
Profile: supportiveBlanket47
supportiveBlanket47 on Jun 14, 2015
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I am not defending people who are not nice but some people just do not know how to be nice. They were either never raised to have manners and to be considerate of others and therefore come across as rude, some people were raised to be considerate but might have low self esteem issues and their way of dealing with it is by being mean to people or hurting others as it makes them feel better about themselves. There are also people who are just simply mean to try and fit in with a certain group of people. There are many reasons people tend to be mean but just ignore those people when you find they are not being nice:)
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I'm sorry that people aren't the nicest to you. Sometimes they don't realize that what they are doing is wrong. Other times they just don't care. Either way, you can't let it get to you. Some people just won't change. As long as you are doing the right thing, then you will be just fine. Spread your positivity, and hope that will rub off on others.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 14, 2015
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People can't be nice. This is a requirement of being a human. People are selfish and just think about themselves. You, just you can have a big impact on the world. So be different. Be nice to people.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 17, 2015
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I know its a world of ups and downs like a roller coaster. But its because not everyone is the same. Everyone is different. Its something that we all have to accept, that not everyone is nice.
Profile: adriancastro
adriancastro on Oct 27, 2015
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because anyone have their life and one people to others aren't same, so if anyone wanted to change the others, the object must has their self-belief to change him/herselves
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 22, 2015
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Because some people are dealing with hard situations that make it harder for them to sympathise with others
Profile: Remina
Remina on Jun 27, 2016
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Sometimes people don't realize they're not being nice unless you point it out. There's also always going to be jerks in the world, and there's not much you can do to change everyone. The only thing you can do is try your best to remove all the negative people from your life.
Profile: LifeSaver
LifeSaver on Jun 6, 2017
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We will never be able to please everyone. Sometimes it is there in securities in their own life they've still needing to heal. We we need to just focus on us. And do one random act of kindness at a time.
Profile: Beachbaby
Beachbaby on Dec 12, 2017
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I think every person is nice its just the situations that make a person behave in a manner that even he never predicted he'd react in , if someone has hurt you please don't hesitate in telling them how they've hurt you but do it with love.
Profile: freshApricot34
freshApricot34 on Jul 16, 2018
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Sometimes people may have deep rooted issues and may be struggling to deal with these and displace their frustration out on others. Alternatively; they could just be a mean person at heart
Profile: xwallflower
xwallflower on Jan 4, 2016
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well, there is so many people in this world and not everyone can be nice, we all have different personalities. Some people are cold and they are not nice, but it is not because they dont want to be it's just because how they are. They are cold and not warm.
Profile: Crystalpeach
Crystalpeach on Apr 6, 2016
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Here's my theory for why people bully one another. The first reason is they are naturally insecure of themselves so by bullying others they feel like they are something they feel like they are worth something. 2: they feel empowered by bullying others because they don't feel good about themselves ; so by bullying others they feel more empowered; like it's a power thing for them. 3: maybe they grew up in a very bad environment maybe their parents were bullies maybe they were bullied themselves circumstances for whatever reasons they may be maybe that's why people bully. I wish people were nicer though. 4 someday I do hope there's more acceptance because bullies should not be tolerated and people should not bully one another
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