I am struggling with codependency and depression. I cannot afford therapy. What can I do to get help?

There are 12 step programs available through Codependency Anonymous. Although an offering basket is passed, you do not have to pay if you cannot afford it. For depression, there are online support groups as well as Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (DBSA) available at no cost to you.

Been there. Ain't it fun? When I was struggling most, I started reading CBT books and recovery books like The Zen of Recovery. If you have a tablet or cellphone, you can get some good e-books for free or cheap that will help you to take control of your brain.

talk to someone, maybe friends, family, partner and of course listeners on 7cups .. :)

Try to find something you enjoy doing and try talking to a school counselor or hotline; someone who already has boundaries in place.

Thinl about why you are you depressed? Its hard to get out of depression. I know and I understand. Try spending time with people who are positive and try to participate in things that interest you.

First, try having a look at the resources in your area. Many places offer free therapy for those who need it, and many schools/jobs have therapy services as well. There are also therapists who work on a sliding scale, so you pay what you can instead of their usual rate. Aside from that, there are online services like 7 Cups, including the self-help guides here. You could also look up methods to dealing with the things you're struggling with, as many people have gone through similar things and have shared what works for them online. Things like challenging negative thoughts, meditation, exercise, reality checking, guided thinking, and gradual exposure can help, and you can learn a lot about them online.

Reach for someone who can help you with this on 7 Cups. There are many people willing to talk to you for no money at all.

We have therapists on this site that you can talk to! As well, as tons of listeners who can lend an ear.

Talk with someone you love, and don't be afraid of worrying them, they prefer to know. They will listen and try to help. If nobody is available near, then we are here as a team to listen to you and give you support.

There are many online therapists that charge very little to nothing for service. I would do some research and try to find one that accommodates you needs.

I have found in my experience that there is a good amount of therapy offices that offer what is called a "sliding pay scale". This is therapy billed at a bare minimum amount. I have had it so cheap that is was $10-$15/session. Some will even offer it for free. They are easy to find through google, or asking for a referral for it from a licensed therapist. Call and inquire once you know. Even going in person is helpful because they will see the need for it. If all else fails, I have found the self help section of Barnes & Nobles, Border's, or a library extremely helpful. These books can be empowering.

I've found support groups to be monumentally helpful. They're usually free to attend, and in certain cases they can be more beneficial than therapy. Being surrounded by people who can understand and relate to your struggles is, in and of itself, a self sustainable source of positivity. It would also help you to broaden your perspective as you learn of the challenges others have had to overcome and what they did in the face of adversity. I myself have made lasting friendships from support groups, with individuals I probably would have never interacted with otherwise.

understand your situation and its not an easy one to be in. The question is should you avoid all uncomfortable situations that happen in your life? That being said,its your life. Your parents must take your feelings into consideration as well. As for those church hypocrites you need to stand strong in god.

You can go talk to your school councelor and also we here can listen to you. Also maybe you can lend money from your parents etc?

Usually most localities have free or low-cost mental health services (such as clinics or public health offices). Also, many therapists offer sliding scales for low-income clients. Depression, for one, is a serious mental illness that should be treated by a professional, just as if you had a broken leg you would go to a medical doctor. If you still cannot afford treatment, try asking family, friends, church, or other social organizations for help. Once again, mental illness does not typically go away on its own and requires professional treatment to adequately address.

Go onto this site and let us talk to you with regular appointments, or talk to a family member or friend about yourself.

There is bound to be a free help in that you may find beneficial-I'd suggest you check a few of them out. Alternatively, talking to friends might help you!

If you work or study, look for a student counseling service or at work you can ask the HR (confidentiality!) or management if they can recommend someone. There are free to call mental health hotlines (not suicide hotlines) and social services which can provide you with information on free group or private therapy settings.

Well, obviously, 7Cups is a wonderful resource that is both free and on-demand. Aside from that, however, there are therapy-adjacent options available to students, certain employees, and people who live in certain parts of the world. Do some internet digging and you might be able to find something that appeals to you. You can also open up to friends and family and lean on them for support.

You should go to a psychiatrist, not a therapist. Only a doctor can help you. The listeners in here will support you. :)