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Besides focusing on my breathing, what else do people do to calm themselves down?

Profile: Roadie
Roadie on Mar 9, 2015
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There are numerous things that people can do to calm themselves down. When I get wound up something that I try to do is focus on activities or thoughts that are slow. For example, weeding a patch of the garden one weed at a time. Removing all of the objects from a cupboard and putting them back in one by one in an organised fashion. Removing books from a bookshelf and putting them back in order of author one by one. Follow a gap between tiles from one end of a room to another. These all require focus and slow thoughts to achieve these sorts of things. Find something that is similar that you can do in your surroundings and go for gold.
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Profile: VetiverV
VetiverV on Jul 12, 2015
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I count down from 100 by 3...e.g. 100...97...94...91 etc all the way to zero. It is a simple task that I can take anywhere and apply whenever I need it to give myself a short break and focus on something else apart from the anxiety. Sometimes if I find it hard to visualise, I will say the numbers silently in my head as well as trying to visualise them.
Profile: Petalbowes
Petalbowes on Nov 11, 2015
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For me, personally, it always helps to be in an open space and to have someone hold my hand if possible. Also, I find that having a water bottle and taking sips helps because it alleviates some of the focus on breathing. Little nibbles helped me too. Mini eggs or Maltesers were always handy to have. Also, if you feel sick, then mint chewing gum has helped both my friend and I. If you like music then certain songs may be able to calm you down or another form of distraction: my go to ones are origami, knitting, painting.. anything to keep my hands busy and my mind distracted.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 10, 2015
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Try to focus on your perception. Think about 3 things you can see, then 3 things you can hear, feel, smell. When it works out well, you can look for 5 things or more.
Profile: kindOrange923
kindOrange923 on Nov 2, 2015
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Go for a walk at least five minutes to change for a little while the scenario. It also is very good being in a park, and hear and see and feel how nature has its own process, like the wind, and water, and sun or clouds, the grass, the little bugs, the dogs and cats. If you can't be there, you can imagine it, which is equaly perfect, because it embraces you a sense of belonging, like a litlle meditation.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 10, 2015
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Count things that you see, feel, and hear. count things that are unchanging. Focus on the feeling and sound of air coming into your nose and into your lungs. Cup your hands over your ears to hear your breathing better.
Profile: HereToHelp865
HereToHelp865 on Jun 7, 2016
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There are many ways I find useful to calm down. You can distract yourself from what is making you feel so worked up, exercise or writing down what is causing you to feel like you need to calm down may be helpful as you feel a sense of release from what you are experiencing. My personal favourite is the new Tapping method, you can look it up on the internet and receive a demonstration of how it is carried out. It has proven to be VERY successful as it unblocks your energy pores causing you to feel distressed or whatever emotion you are feeling.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 10, 2015
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Deep Muscle Relaxation is a great way to relax and is especially helpful when combined with deep breathing.
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Anonymous on Apr 3, 2015
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Take a walk in nature or garden, listen to classical or slow music that is enjoyable, look at pictures of someone or something they love.
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Anonymous on Apr 5, 2015
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To calm yourself down, first of all leave the place or things which are triggering your emotional response. Breathing comes far after. If you are in middle of a hot discussion then simple being silent will help situation to cool down. Its the time to slip out of the situation and calm yourself.. Simple things like splashing your face, drinking some water are also very effective.
Profile: neverendingBeach39
neverendingBeach39 on Jun 7, 2015
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I listen to music to calm down the music helps shut out the word for a little while until you can breath and calm down again
Profile: Nighttlight
Nighttlight on Aug 25, 2015
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Use a stress ball, talk out your feelings with someone you feel comfortable with, coloring books seem to work best with many people I see. (No joke)
Profile: calmsunshine89
calmsunshine89 on Sep 15, 2015
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I like to listen to calm music and relax with my eyes closed. Try to think logically about what is bothering you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 29, 2015
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Count, yes counting can really help, such as anything around you. Clear your mind, then focus only on one thing in the room whether it be your shoe or the hairband on someones head. Jump, have an outburst because sometimes all you need to do is let out that times energy into something so you can calm down quicker to a timed out rate.
Profile: MadilynRose
MadilynRose on Nov 19, 2015
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There are lots of things you can do to calm down! Different things work for different people, but here are some good things you could try: listening to music you like, talking to someone (Listeners are here for you!), watching a film, taking a nap, grabbing a snack, journaling, etc. Really, anything that can distract you might help, or something else you might find soothing! Hope things work out for you, lovely!
Profile: WindMelody
WindMelody on Feb 1, 2016
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I used to wash my hands with warm water, wash my face with cold water and/or, if I could, do a whole warm shower. Maybe if you feel angry or stressed you can do some physical exercise (ex: running), if you feel sad or lonely you can try to listen some music, talk with someone or do something you like (ex: sing) or watch funny videos on YouTube and Vine. If you need company you can always count on us listeners and chat with us. I hope this helped, have a nice day! :) x
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 5, 2016
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Find 5 things you can see, find 4 things you can feel, find 3 things you can smell, find 2 things you can hear, and find 1 thing you can taste. It helps you focus and calm down.
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Anonymous on May 31, 2016
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Listen to music, take walks, talking to a friend or someone in your family, mindfulness/yoga or using creativity to draw or paint or write poetry. Sometimes your creativity boosts when you are stressed.
Profile: CopperSkies
CopperSkies on Jun 2, 2016
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Something that really works for me is 'grounding'. I find 5 things i can see, 4 things i can feel, 3 things i can hear, 2 things i can smell and 1 thing i can taste. It not only helps me bring myself back to reality but it also passes the time during an uncomfortable panic attack.
Profile: Ambrose001
Ambrose001 on Jun 27, 2016
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well everyone is different some like listening to music, listening to the gentle sounds of a rainforest, even playing games and watching there favourite shows :) we all have our own coping mechanisms :)
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