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What sexuality would I be If I want sex occasionally preferring opposite gender, I want to be in an exclusive relationship with them, however I want to be best friends and not obligated to do 'dates'?

Profile: Aayla
Aayla on Feb 20, 2020
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When you say "preferring opposite gender", do you mean that you also experience some level of attraction for the same gender too? If it is so, you are bisexual. Bisexuality includes attraction to more than one gender, regardless of how much you prefer one or another. If your attraction is exclusive to the opposite gender without even 1% attraction for the same gender, you are heterosexual. As for your preferences about the frequency of sexual activity and dates "obligation", they do not define your orientation, they are simply individual preferences based on sex drive and relationship structure. Your orientation is defined by who you are attracted to.
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