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How do I know if I’m falling out of love? Should I leave him?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 19, 2020
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Love is a very complicated matter. In my experience, I have oftentimes fallen in love and out of love just as quickly, but then I'm always stuck at if I actually fell out of love with them. What I've always done is look at my resources and talk to people around me to gather outside opinions. Also, it is very important that you talk to him about what you're feeling because relationships are a two-way street. I had to take time to myself to deeply consider and reconsider what this relationship was to me at this point. I called my mom and my brother to get their insights and would discuss with some friends what they thought. I also talked with my boyfriend at the time and I feel like something I could have done better is talk to him more and have more open communication. Work together with him, and possibly even consider couples therapy if you want another professional perspective. Also, remember if you are in danger leave him. If you are not happy then then leave him. If these are not a concern then talk to him and consider options.
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