When someone gos weeks without responding to my messages that used to talk everyday what do i do?
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Moderated by Maria Wasielewski, Master of Arts in Counseling and Guidance, University of Arizona
Updated: May 8, 2018
Anonymous
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Nov 16, 2017
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I guess if it is like a friend or family, check to see if they are okay. If it is like an significant other-turned-ex or a potential love interest who is suddenly ghosting you, then you have to ask yourself is this all worth the worry to ask "what should i do?" Keep yourself busy, and don't think about when the person will answer. They will reconnect with you if or when they do, but at the meantime, you can go and focus on you and not be bogged down by un-responded conversation.
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Anonymous
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Nov 20, 2017
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you delete that message and try and move forward, this person has chosen to ignore your message they dont deserve your time
WhimsicalWhimsy
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Nov 14, 2017
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If you are sure this person is okay then the next step would probably be to ask yourself, 'What are my choices?" and "What have I already tried?".
Liouma
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May 8, 2018
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I do a check up to see how they are doing, sometimes people ignore or let it go the matter depending on how they are feeling, but there is no better feeling than someone who cares about you coming to your way
