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Should I cut off my friend?
Relationship Stress / by Grace1150
Last post
 July 13th, 2020
...See more So Ive been friends with this girl for almost 6 years now, and lately Ive just been getting a bad vibe from her. When we talk we only talk about her and her problems. Every time I try to change the subject she basically just ignores it and changes it back to her. She recently lost her virginity (which is all she talks about now), and I feel like she kind of bashes me for still being a virgin. She doesnt say anything directly but I can sense it in her tone, kind of get the sense that she looks down on me and thinks shes better than me just because she has all these boys and is having sex. She thinks that I live this boring life and that shes my best friends. She is not my best friend at all, barely a close friend. She doesnt know anything about me. And I dont tell her stuff about me and my life because 1. She can only talk about herself and 2. Why would want to involve her in my life when she talks to my like she does. We live in different countries, I moved a year ago, so she has no idea She literally has no purpose in my life. Its just bad energy in my life. But the problem is Im so bad at confrontation, I dont want to say anything but I feel like its weird to just cut her off like that. If anyone reads this, please come with some advice on what I should do
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Should I cut off my friend?
Relationship Stress / by Grace1150
Last post
 July 18th, 2020
...See more So Ive been friends with this girl for almost 6 years now, and lately Ive just been getting a bad vibe from her. When we talk we only talk about her and her problems. Every time I try to change the subject she basically just ignores it and changes it back to her. She recently lost her virginity (which is all she talks about now), and I feel like she kind of bashes me for still being a virgin. She doesnt say anything directly but I can sense it in her tone, kind of get the sense that she looks down on me and thinks shes better than me just because she has all these boys and is having sex. She thinks that I live this boring life and that shes my best friends. She is not my best friend at all, barely a close friend. She doesnt know anything about me. And I dont tell her stuff about me and my life because 1. She can only talk about herself and 2. Why would want to involve her in my life when she talks to my like she does. We live in different countries, I moved a year ago, so she has no idea She literally has no purpose in my life. Its just bad energy in my life. But the problem is Im so bad at confrontation, I dont want to say anything but I feel like its weird to just cut her off like that. If anyone reads this, please come with some advice on what I should do
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I�m depressed and it�s my own fault
Depression Support / by Grace1150
Last post
 May 30th, 2020
...See more I go to sleep everyday wishing that I never have to wake up again. I spend hours everyday thinking about the day I finally get to leave this world. But no one knows how I
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One sided friendship
Relationship Stress / by Grace1150
Last post
 May 1st, 2020
...See more This post is just for me to vent, might be a bit messy. If anyone actually is reading this, would appreciate if I could get some advice. So I barely have any friends and the few I have honestly wouldnt be bothered if I disappeared toda. But I have one friend who I guess I would consider a closer friend that the others. Shes always saying how much I mean to her and how Im her best friend. I always listen to her problems, small or big, we can spend hours talking about her. I know so much about her and I give advice for anythings he needs. Recently I have been trying to open up more to her about my life. Im not really that kind of person normally, it takes a while for me to open up to people, because I immediately assume that people dont care about me (why would they). ​Yesterday we were speaking on the phone, we had been speaking for about 30 min about a boy situation she has. It had been quiet for a while so I figured I would mention something Ive been struggling with lately, as an attempt to open up. I told her and she didnt say anything. After a few seconds she asked me what I said because she was on her phone doing something at the same time, so I repeated my sentence and she responded with yeah.. thats gotta be tough thats when I realised. This isnt a real friend. She doesnt care about me, like I thought. ​Im always going to her house, we never talk about my problems, she only calls me when she needs something. I don't know what to do.
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