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InsightfulPhoenix
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Number of ratings18 Number of reviews11 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceAug 27, 2023 Last activein last week GenderNon-Binary PathStep 125 People helped90 Chats161 Group support chats496 Listener group chats5 Forum posts559 Forum upvotes1,264
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My name is InsightfulPhoenix or Phoe 🥰

I'm 100% Nonbinary bean, my pronouns are she/they

I'm a proud parent, I'm also very much engaged💖

I enjoy the little things in life.


Please respect my pronouns, boundaries as a person. We all have things we go through so choose kindness, because some people fight silent battles💖











Recent forum posts
She is Me Poem
Women's Issues / by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more Tw: healing/poetry/ growth  She is Me  When she saw the light  She never thought it would be so bright  When she caught the sight  She never thought it cause such a fright  When she held on with all her might  She felt weightless as if she were a kite  For she is me And I am her 
Shining from Within
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more tw: deep discussion/questions/beauty from within/ mentions of society and circumstantial validations  Good afternoon everyone, I know that I usually write my posts early in the mornings, but today I decided to be different because it's okay to be different and change things around now and then. I would like to discuss the topic, " Shining from Within", this topic hits home for me because it serves a purpose. This discussion will take place in sections 1, sections 2, sections 4 and sections 5.  When you think of shining do you think immediately of an inanimate object? Do you give yourself time to ponder on what object pops into your mind within that instant or do you dismiss the feeling altogether, both reactions are valid and very much normal. When we think of things as individuals we usually associate shining with inanimate objects, but never something metaphorical and/or internal. Which again is very much okay.  For the longest time, beauty has been classified as elegance and appearances that are appealing to the human eye. This kind of thinking is toxic and can be very harmful, due to the many differences within the Earth's population. Differences create diversity, and some on this planet do not like diversity, and would rather cause adversity for someone looking, thinking, or just being different overall. When you dive into Diversity what is the first thought and emotion that comes up with these associated thoughts? What about Adversity, are you able to channel those thoughts and emotions too?  Diversity and Adversity are the most important terms to recognize when it comes to society's terms and recommendations. It's more than okay to disagree with someone's choices and it is more than okay to find different ways to go about a situation/circumstance. No one ever handles the situation a similar way, but what is not okay is creating Adversity amongst anyone for thinking in an opposite direction. Which is where shining from within comes to mind, internal beauty. Internal Beauty is more dignifying and respectable, because anyone can have a beautiful external, and have a terrible internal thought process. However, choosing kindness and remaining compassionate to others even if they are disrespectful, insincere, and unloving to you. Will always be the best quality to smile about. Questions:  1. What are your forms of Diversity and Adversity?  2. When was the last time you thought about your own internal beauty? 3. How did this make you feel? 
Even Stars Have Tears
Content Volunteer Team / by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 April 17th
...See more tw: Celebrities/Negative impact on Childhood actors Good morning everyone I would like to have a quick discussion about the topic "Even Stars Have Tears". When you think of a celebrity all you see is the glitz and glamorous lifestyle they displace at red carpets, magazines, and even interviews. Studies have shown that the younger an actor or actress begins their career the negative impacts it could have on their education, mental health, and even romantic partnerships. I found the information here: https://shssharkattack.com/22358/oped/the-negative-effects-of-the-child-stars/#:~:text=Actors%20can%20find%20it%20difficult,an%20existential%20crisis%20can%20occur. Please feel free to take a look for yourself, the biggest flaws that childhood actors have are feeling out of place, lack of ambition as adults, lack of motivation, and even drive for a healthy romantic partnership.  This is why it is so important that recognize that those actresses and actors have emotions too, some of them gave up their childhoods so we could have shows to enjoy. Remember to always be kind because you never know the hidden things that are behind their smiles, they are human just like us!  This post is brought to you by the Content Development & Marketing Program. Find out more information about the program here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/7CupsAcademyContentDevelopmentandMarketingCDMProgram_236685/1/]
Affirmations for Love
Women's Issues / by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 April 16th
...See more Tw: healing, affirmations, love  My love is never-ending  I hold love like a candlelight forever burning  My love holds the flame for those I cherish  I always carry love for myself  My love is always enchanting 
Spirituality vs Opportunity
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 April 16th
...See more tw: deep discussion. questions, mentions of society, spirituality, and opportunity Good morning everyone, my name is Insightfulphoenix some of you call me Phoe. Either is okay with me, I wanted to take the time to discuss this topic with you because over the weekend I was thinking about it. Today's discussion is called "Spirituality vs Opportunity". This discussion will take place in some of sections 1, slightly section 2, and the majority of sections 4 and 5.  When it comes to Spirituality often society has created imagery of someone praying, or even someone looking up the skies for guidance. Both are okay because religious preferences are accepted no matter what religion is being practiced. However, society seems to get Spirituality and Religion confused. I say this because Spirituality means Acceptance of energy, deity, or worship working from all sources. Religion is the direct practice or worship of an individual's choosing. Which again is okay because every one of us is entitled to believe in what we choose to believe.  Although, being spiritual, or openly religious is okay. Some of us rely solely on Opportunity. I say this because those who do are always searching for the next ladder to climb or the next big thing that piques their interest.  What if I said both ways of thinking are accurate and very much okay? What if I say that sometimes being spiritual leads to opportunities being open and vice versa? I say this because the majority of the time someone is involved spiritually and is usually open-minded to anything and everything, creating a vas open space for them to be able to see all aspects of opportunities and achieve different goals that they wish to achieve.  Questions:  1. Do you believe that being open-mindedness creates spirituality?  2. Does relying on opportunity seem more helpful to you? Why or why not? 3. How do you feel after reading this? 
Affirmations for Self-Care
Women's Issues / by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 Saturday
...See more Tw: self-care, affirmations, healing My self-care is my own experience  I am vulnerable enough to embrace my self-care  I create magic by applying self-care each day  My self-care is interpersonal  Self-care is my fixation to a better life 
Hourglass Thoughts
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 April 12th
...See more Tw: deep discussion, Healing, questions, mentions of society's expectations  Good morning everyone, my name is InsightfulPhoenix. Today's discussion is called: Hourglass Thoughts. This discussion will take place in sections 1, sections 3, some of section 4, and all of section 5. When you think of your thoughts do you feel as if they are rushing through you, cautiously impeding throughout the day, or feeling like the time is running out for your decision-making? What if I said all of these ways of thinking are valid and very much correct ways of thinking based on how you interpret society's expectations of how to think or feel about a situation/ circumstance? The reason is that each person has a different moral code, and a different internal compass, therefore creating different ways on how to handle thoughts and processing them. Why is this so? This is due to each of us as individuals being taught by our parents how to handle stressful situations, however, this does not mean our parent's way of doing things is the best fit for us. Although they have helped raise us, they too have the same issue we all face of thinking in different forms. Alas, brings me to say that it's even more okay to ask for a supporting opinion from a trusted inner circle or even an external family member.  Therefore, that is why it is always important to ask family, internal trusted friends, or external family members for advice because each perspective can give a clear perception. However, as an individual, you have the final say. Remember that it is more than okay to think it through cautiously, and bring it up more than once for reassurance. Our thoughts are the internal reflections of what needs to be worked on, worked through, or addressed. Each thought has a purpose, and it is okay if you get assistance for it.  Questions:  1. What do you feel you deal with when it comes to thinking? Fast pace, slow pace, or constant overdrive? 2. Do you believe that trauma can be created from not thinking fast enough like someone else? Why or why not? 3. How do you feel after reading this?
Affirmations Are the Best Form of Self-Care!
Content Volunteer Team / by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Good morning everyone! My name is InsightfulPhoenix and I wanted to bring up this conversation with you all! Affirmations are the Best Form of Self-Care, the reason why I am bringing this up is because when you look at yourself in the morning you do not just stare, but tell yourself loving words to raise the serotonin and dopamine levels. Usually, when affirmations are spoken it is to assist and guide us through very difficult times, or even just create a new way positive thoughts to process better. Another reason why Affirmations are a great form of self-care is due to the continuous mindset of growth and abundance that takes place!  This post is brought to you by the Content Development & Marketing Program. Find out more information about the program here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/7CupsAcademyContentDevelopmentandMarketingCDMProgram_236685/1/] Reflection time:  1. What are some affirmations you love to say out loud?  2. Do you believe that affirmations can create an empowering mindset? 
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