anything nice would be nice 🥲

tbh my views on relationships and luv have been severely impacted… badly…. it won’t be a lie if I admit here that I’m scared… of these things… relationships..  intimacy.. affection… luv…getting close to people in general is scary but even more … on a romantic front… if that makes sense…  personal experiences… peer experiences… observations… things I’ve seen and heard around… have had a major role in this… and it cannot be reversed entirely I feel… it’s all v true and it’s all v real so I’m not asking for validation on any of it but I’m simply trying to make some effort in…. I guess… diversifying my perspective? hear more about the good stuff? still believable things… good things… genuine things… because sadly usually i see more of negative talk around these … and it’s hard to still stay positive or hopeful … 

this message is likely a prompt to ask for anyone seeing this to share their experiences ? please… any good ones… could be from past relationships or current ones… or the hopefulness about future one… lessons you’ve learned or things that have made you a better person… your favorite things about being in luv, about LOVE??, relationships, your partner… you as a partner… anything related to this.. that your comfy sharing 💕💕

kinda wanna see some healthy luv related stories and reminders here I guess … and wanna cheer for you too 🥺🥺