ShadowFaerie Listener Profile

ShadowFaerie

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Number of ratings255 Number of reviews111 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 6, 2015 Activewithin a week GenderFemale PathStep 1,468 People helped457 Chats7,811 Group support chats1,267 Listener group chats519 Forum posts1,081 Forum upvotes2,220

Bio

🌸 I regret that I am currently unavailable to take new member chats. If we have chatted in the past, you may leave me a message, however there may be some delay in my reply 🌸

Hi, I'm Faerie, 🧚‍♀️ & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups

I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement.

I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected.

I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you!

"Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha

If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 72 hours and occasionally longer.

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My Roles at Cups

• Listener

• Sharing Circle Host (assigned session is Mondays at 10 am EST and I also host on-spot sessions as I'm able)

• Community Leader - Newbie Hub

• Women's Circle Discussion Group Host

💗The Women’s Circle is a weekly group discussion where we reflect, share, and support one another on topics related to women’s issues and lived experiences. You’re welcome to join in the conversation — or simply listen if that feels better 💗

🌷The Women’s Circle is held every Saturday at 10 AM EDT (with occasional exceptions), in the Support Session Room for adults.🌷

🌸If you have any questions about the Women's Circle, are interested in co-hosting opportunities, or have ideas for topics to discuss, please contact me directly or respond to the relevant posts in the forum 🌸

📢 Upcoming sessions are announced here:

🔗 https://www.7cups.com/forum/women/AnnouncementsEvents_2508/

🔔 Want to stay updated? Join the tag list to receive notifications when the next session is announced (plus up to 2 community posts per week):

🔗 https://www.7cups.com/forum/women/AnnouncementsEvents_2508/WomensIssuesCommunityTaglistStayUpdated_298057

Past Roles:

• Adult - Teen Listener (past)

• Peer Support (past)

• Chat Support (past)

Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246 (bouncyCandy4246 is not currently taking new members)

Recent forum posts

Women's Circle Discussion Group 10/31/2026

Women's Issues / by ShadowFaerie

Thursday

...See more 🌷 Hello, amazing women! 👋 Our weekly Women's Circle is happening Saturday, October 31st, 2026 at 10 am EDT in the Support Session Room for adults on 7 Cups. Topic: Sexism Unmasked Sexism isn't always loud; often, it hides in jokes, assumptions, and "polite" expectations that quietly limit our potential. This week, we look beyond the obvious headlines to examine the subtle, everyday mechanics of bias, from digital spaces to family dynamics, and how they shape our daily reality. We will explore the unique pressures of modern sexism, including the double standards of leadership, the weight of emotional labor, and the impact of invisibility. Let’s pull back the curtain on these hidden biases together, sharing strategies for navigating them while reinforcing our collective strength and clarity. ⏰ Need to check your time zone? Use this converter: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html 🌷This session is a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where women come together to share their stories and hold space for each other.🌷 🌱 Whether you'd like to contribute your voice or simply listen in, all women are welcome. Come as you are. We'd love to have you with us! 🌱 Looking forward to seeing you, – Faerie 🌸🧚‍♀️

🌷Women's Circle Discussion Group 10/17/2026🌷

Women's Issues / by ShadowFaerie

October 16th

...See more 🌷 Hello, beautiful souls! 👋 Our weekly Women's Circle is happening Saturday, October 17th, 2026 at 10 am EDT in the Support Session Room for adults on 7 Cups. Topic: Reclaiming Our Time We live in an attention economy designed to keep us scrolling, clicking, and consuming. Algorithms are engineered to capture our focus, often at the expense of our peace, our relationships, and our sense of self. We find ourselves doomscrolling late into the night, comparing our lives to curated highlights, and feeling perpetually "on" but rarely truly present. This week, we gather to talk about digital detox and intentional living. We will explore how technology impacts our mental health, the subtle ways it shapes our self-perception, and the radical act of reclaiming our attention for ourselves. Let’s discuss how to set boundaries with our devices, curate our feeds for joy rather than anxiety, and rediscover the beauty of being offline. Whether you are a lifelong tech enthusiast or someone looking to unplug more, your experience is valid. Let’s find balance together. ❤️ Need to check your time zone? Use this converter: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html 🌷 This session is a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where women come together to share their stories and hold space for each other. 🌷 🌱 Whether you'd like to contribute your voice or simply listen in, all women are welcome. Come as you are. We'd love to have you with us! 🌱 Looking forward to seeing you, – Faerie 🌸🧚‍♀️

Women's Circle Discussion Group 10/10/2026

Women's Issues / by ShadowFaerie

October 9th

...See more 🌷 Hello, amazing women! 👋 Our weekly Women's Circle is happening Saturday, October 10th, 2026 at 10 am EDT in the Support Session Room for adults on 7 Cups. Topic: Aging With Power We live in a culture that often tells women that their value is tied to their youth. From the pressure to hit certain milestones by a certain age, to the fear of being "invisible" or "irrelevant," ageism impacts women at every stage of life. Whether you are 18 or 80, you’ve likely felt the weight of societal expectations about who you should be. This week, we gather to challenge those narratives together. We will talk about the anxiety of "falling behind," the fear of what’s to come, and the freedom of realizing that wisdom, power, and beauty are not exclusive to any single decade. Let’s bridge the generational gap, share our unique perspectives, and redefine aging not as a decline, but as an ascent into authenticity. Whether you are navigating early adulthood or seasoned with experience, your perspective is vital here. ❤️ Need to check your time zone? Use this converter: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html 🌷 This session is a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where women come together to share their stories and hold space for each other. 🌷 🌱 Whether you'd like to contribute your voice or simply listen in, all women are welcome. Come as you are. We'd love to have you with us! 🌱 Looking forward to seeing you, – Faerie 🌸🧚‍♀️

Women's Circle Discussion Group 10/3/2026

Women's Issues / by ShadowFaerie

October 2nd

...See more 🌷 Hello, beautiful souls! 👋 Our weekly Women's Circle is happening Saturday, October 3rd, 2026 at 10 am EDT in the Support Session Room for adults on 7 Cups. Topic: Play For Joy We spend so much of our lives striving, achieving, and optimizing. We treat every hobby like a project and every hour like an investment. But where is the space for doing things just because they feel good? Where is the room for being silly, messy, and unproductive? This week, we gather to reclaim the art of play. We will talk about the guilt that often accompanies "wasting time," the joy of creating without an audience, and the radical act of doing something simply because it brings a smile to our faces. Let’s leave the checklists at the door and explore what it feels like to move, create, and laugh without a goal other than joy itself. Whether you consider yourself "creative" or you haven’t played in years, your playful spirit is welcome here. ❤️ Need to check your time zone? Use this converter: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html 🌷 This session is a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where women come together to share their stories and hold space for each other. 🌷 🌱 Whether you'd like to contribute your voice or simply listen in, all women are welcome. Come as you are. We'd love to have you with us! 🌱 Looking forward to seeing you, – Faerie 🌸🧚‍♀️

Women's Circle Discussion Group 9/26/2026

Women's Issues / by ShadowFaerie

September 25th

...See more 🌷 Hello, amazing women! 👋 Our weekly Women's Circle is happening Saturday, September 26th, 2026 at 10 am EDT in the Support Session Room for adults on 7 Cups. Topic: Redefining Success on Our Own Terms Many of us carry a heavy, invisible checklist. We feel pressure to excel in our careers, nurture deep relationships, raise thriving families, maintain our appearance, keep friendships alive, and pursue constant personal growth. The expectation to "have it all" often feels less like an invitation and more like a demand, leaving us exhausted and wondering if we are falling behind or simply not doing enough. This week, we gather to gently set that checklist down. We will talk about where these expectations came from, how comparison distorts our sense of progress, and what success actually looks like when we define it ourselves. Together, we'll explore how to move from striving for perfection toward choosing what truly matters to us. Whether you are actively redefining your goals or feeling overwhelmed by the weight of trying to meet everyone else's standards, your experience is valid. ⏰ Need to check your time zone? Use this converter: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html 🌷This session is a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where women come together to share their stories and hold space for each other🌷 🌱 Whether you'd like to contribute your voice or simply listen in, all women are welcome. Come as you are. We'd love to have you with us! 🌱 Looking forward to seeing you, – Faerie 🌸🧚‍♀️ *Thank you to @Sarikaa05 for contributing the suggestion that inspired this week's discussion! 💕Your ideas, feedback, and suggestions really do help shape future topics and discussions! Keep them coming; they are valued 💕

Women's Circle Discussion Group 9/19/2026

Women's Issues / by ShadowFaerie

September 25th

...See more 🌷 Hello, beautiful souls! 👋 Our weekly Women's Circle is happening Saturday, September 19th, 2026 at 10 am EDT in the Support Session Room for adults on 7 Cups. Topic: Unlearning Objectification From a young age, many of us are taught to view ourselves through the eyes of others. We learn to monitor our bodies, our expressions, and our movements to ensure we are "acceptable" or "attractive." This constant self-monitoring is exhausting, and it can make us feel like our value is tied to how we look rather than who we are. This week, we gather to explore the process of unlearning objectification. We will talk about the difference between being seen as a person and being looked at as an image, the mental toll of constant self-monitoring, and the radical act of reclaiming our bodies for our own joy, strength, and comfort. Whether you are deep in the work of unlearning these patterns or just starting to notice the weight of objectification, your experience is valid. ❤️ Need to check your time zone? Use this converter: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html 🌷 This session is a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where women come together to share their stories and hold space for each other. 🌷 🌱 Whether you'd like to contribute your voice or simply listen in, all women are welcome. Come as you are. We'd love to have you with us! 🌱 Looking forward to seeing you, – Faerie 🌸🧚‍♀️

Women's Circle Discussion Group Update

Women's Issues / by ShadowFaerie

September 13th

Women's Circle Discussion Group 9/5/2026

Women's Issues / by ShadowFaerie

September 5th

...See more 🌷 Hello, beautiful souls! 👋 Our weekly Women's Circle is happening Saturday, September 5th, 2026 at 10 am EDT in the Support Session Room for adults on 7 Cups. Topic: The Friendship Shift: Navigating Loneliness and Connection as Women As we grow older, our friendships often change. The easy, constant connection of school days fades, and life’s demands (careers, families, moves) can pull us apart. Many of us find ourselves feeling surprisingly lonely, even if we are surrounded by acquaintances or busy lives. This week, we gather to explore the evolving landscape of female friendship. We will talk about the grief of outgrowing friends, the courage it takes to make new connections as adults, and how to find meaningful depth in a world of surface-level interactions. You don't have to have a huge social circle to be happy. You just need to know that your desire for connection is valid, and that you are not the only one feeling this shift. Whether you are navigating a friendship breakup, trying to make new friends, or simply looking to deepen your existing bonds, your story matters. Your connection matters. ⏰ Need to check your time zone? Use this converter: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html 🌷 This session is a safe, warm, and supportive space where women come together to share their stories and hold space for each other. 🌷 🌱 Whether you'd like to contribute your voice or simply listen in, all women are welcome. Come as you are. We'd love to have you with us! 🌱 Looking forward to seeing you, – Faerie 🌸🧚‍♀️

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Actually listens to your problems.

Sweet and kind and gentle :)

very helpful and compassionate

Faerie has been a godsend during a rough patch, she is a calming and grounding presence.

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Kindly paying attention to me

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Fabulous and fantastic Faerie

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ShadowFaerie has been a consistent and amazing listener over the past few months. She is an amazing listener and such a huge asset to this site but above all, she is a kind caring compassionate and infinitely loving human being that makes this world a better place. Thank you for being there for me and being a great person to talk to on the good and bad days. You are amazing and I am so grateful for you ❤️

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Good

Thank you

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Most understanding person I have ever met the best !!!

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Been talking to her consistently for two years now. She's one of my closest friends.

She's nice, glad I met her.. Needs more people like her!!! Shes Great!

This is the best listener on 7 cups

Very nice

Thanks for chatting and the input you gave me :)

I like this person. They are very helpful. I asked them not to sugar coat anything and they did it in such a polite yet firm manor and I respect that. 💜

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You're a true gift to this world

❤️

Amazing.. I have no words thank you

this an actual Faerie disguised as a person. The Faeries who are a very friendly group of Elementals who love to be spoken to and asked to help. they are here on earth at this time to safeguard the plant kingdom and to produce beautiful flowers. They sustain life.

the best support someone down could have!

One of the most careing people I've talked to on here. Even in my mood. very understanding

Thanks for your time and helpfulness. You are a great listener.

I love her so much shes so nice :) - Kerri

Listened and responded with the best answer possible. Really helped my morning go good

She is super awesome, highly recommend!

Very helpful and warm! Helped me to get over constant nightmares!

Very great listener! She took a genuine interest in me and offered great support! She helped me better arrange the thoughts in my head which lead me to feeling better. :) I'll for sure be chatting with her again! Very helpful indeed!

Kind and thoughtful responses

Truly ahmazing and very, very helpful of my current situation!!

You'll want to talk to her! She's extremely helpful, she responds immediately, and she feels you. Also, she asks the best questions to help you understand how to proceed with your issue

Always a pleasure to have a conversation with, responds with in-depth responses related to the subject you have on your mind

she is an amazing person really helpful

Strong, caring, wise and a true hero! Thank you for being you. You inspire me

Always there when you need here

she was great help

very nice and caring

Thankyou

Helped me see things differently.

Very straight to the point, very smart and understanding

She's one of a kind

Thanks for listening.

Very recomended .. She saved my life believe it or not! Thank you

Such and incredible listener. I really cannot express how thankful I am to have been able to connect with Kirsten. This was a fantastic experience, and I hope that other people are able to experience some of the hope, validation, and care that I did throughout this conversation. Kirsten gives me hope that we really do have some fantastic people in this world.

Good. Thank you..

very sweet

I've spoken to several listeners at 7 of cups and ShadowFaerie is one of two favorites that I now have. I will hopefully get to chat with her once again. Patient, kind and with good advice as well as a great listener.

A++++++++++, super sweet and understanding

Always kind and understanding.

A great listener!

Shadow faerie is a very empathic person a great listener and very helpful. You can count on shadow faerie to help you and be a great active listener.

I enjoyed talking to she/he. Made me think she or he really understand what I'm talking about. I appreciate it :)

ShadowFaerie is so kind and understanding! They really helped me in a time of need!

Thank you so much for listening to me and giving me such great advice! :)

she is so lovely and so helpful she checks up on me.. and really really listens and seems to genuinely care about how i am. she is understanding and empathetic and she makes me feel someone is there for me.. thankyou.

Fantastic listener. Thanks for everything

A very sensible listener, especially with issues concerning addiction. And very thorough in her follow ups. She's amazing and has been a great help for me here.

Good natured, warm and very helpful. Beyond this words just leave me.

Absolutely fantastic

Very Very Best Person.This Person has the Outstanding Power, abilities to understand the situation.She finds out the actual reason behind the situation .I was very Amazed and she is the best person in the forum to help.Again Thanks Very much

Thank you soooo much

Very very insightful and understanding. Great and analytical. Does not stop the convo until your thoughts and emotions are cleared.

So wonderful!! She really listened to all my points and asked me how I was feeling teh right amount of times.

Faerie is very patient and kind. Always willing to lend a hand.

Most amazing listener ! I have no words to express my gratitude .. Thank you

Really cares and very helpful. Great about following up + responding to messages.

felt relaxed talking to her and felt she was really listening to me

she is a fab listener

Made my year.. I can't stop smiling :) thank you for giving me hope again! I love you ! No words can express my thanks

The most skilled listener out there! Kind , wise and super awesome

Friendly as always, thank you for your compassion.

yes very good

One of the best. Not afraid to be honest. Very kind.

Very cool, glad to have a new friend. Compassionate and understanding, a true giver.

Thanks!

great

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Thank you! So kind, and really understood my feelings x

Extremely patient and kind, made me feel much better.

ShadowFaerie is so good at this! Thank you.

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