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neatCherry4859
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PathStep 11 Compassion hearts39 Forum posts11 Forum upvotes21 Current upvotes21 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2024 Member sinceDecember 12, 2023
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Dream haunts me
Self-Esteem / by neatCherry4859
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 December 29th, 2023
...See more I’m now trying to get better self esteem. So far good when I wake up. But when I sleep, I see dreams about what I used to concern in my mind. Like relationship, friend, my life and etc. I still remember the dreams after I woke up. I know it’s not real, but dreams feel like a real to me. So, that triggers me to overthink. For these two days, I can’t wake up myself with good feeling. If there’s someone knows any tips to relieve this, I’d love to hear that. In the end, thank you so much for reading my thread. Have a nice weekend.
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Getting better
Self-Esteem / by neatCherry4859
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 January 24th, 2024
...See more Today I feel very good. Since yesterday,I have started to concentrate on myself. I ask myself what I want to do and don’t care what others think. It's just one day, but now I feel better than ever. I feel comfortable with myself. But also I’m kinda scared. Because I had felt same feelings in my past some times that I am getting better and no more struggles on me. But after a while, I ended up feeling depressed again. But I learned that feelings are just feelings. It’s okay to feel like this. I believe myself that I can go through this. I can’t control myself perfectly and still learning. But at least, I’m trying. This app helps me a lot. You guys kind and sweet words make my life easier and comfortable. I hope everyone enjoys your day today ☀️
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How to be kind to yourself
Self-Esteem / by neatCherry4859
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 December 14th, 2023
...See more Hello. I’m new to here. I have a low self esteem about myself. I can be positive and say kind words to my friends. But I can’t do that to myself. I blame myself and compare to others many times. Because of it, I overthink a lot and my social life getting worse. So, I really want to know how to improve this. If you don’t mind to tell me about it, I would like to know that. thank you so much for reading my thread 😌
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Pls give me advice
Relationship Stress / by neatCherry4859
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 December 14th, 2023
...See more I’m in a relationship for a year. I concern about his uses of SNS. We both can log in our *** accounts. His followers almost are girls. And I see nearly everyday that he chats to girls. Even like when we spend time together. Also he comments on girls posts like “ you’re too hot” something like that. But I never heard those words saying to me from him. I know It’s just chatting. But one time, he was chatting with a girl in a flirty way for days. I felt so sad and insecure about it. So I told him about it and he said he will never do that again. But I still don’t truly trust him. I try to avoid to make boy friends or compliment boys because it may hurt my boyfriend’s feelings. But he does normally to me. I do love him, but I always think about this when he touches his phone. And I start overthinking and be quiet in front of him. I don’t know what to do.
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