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neonPineapple8403
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He is pulling away. Help
Relationship Stress / by neonPineapple8403
Last post
 February 7th, 2022
...See more A guy I've been seeing for 2.5 months is pulling away. We both met online and we started dating on zoom everyday for about two weeks before we met in person. He initiated most of the zoom sessions, I did a few. When we met had an amazing time. We met 4 times after that and he did meet my parents and things seemed to flow very well. He is Indian and he left to go to India for 1.5 MO and since he left to India he's slightly disengaged. He initiated most meetups for the first two weeks with me initiating a few. After which I've been doing all the initiating and him rejecting most zoom meetups. He doesn't call me at all. His family had gone through covid which took time to recover. Every time I ask him about us he says he is interested in me and wants to continue pursuing qnd I have mentioned we need to spend more time together. He understands and says he will. I haven't met his parents and he isn't opening up much. He also stopped flirting with me. He's still not initiating but replies to all my messages. Is he starting to become disinterested? What do I do? He's also started working again from India due to covid. Is he just genuinely busy?
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He wants me to cut ties with my family and covert
Relationship Stress / by neonPineapple8403
Last post
 October 11th, 2019
...See more I've been dating this guy for 1 year and 7 months and it was the best and happiest times of my life. This person had always made me feel safe, loved, and special but when things got serious is when the problems started to pour in. When I first met this guy I told him that at this point in my life I'm looking for a serious relationship that could potentially end up in marriage, and he mentioned he was looking for the same. About 3 months later we were so in love we decided to talk about marriage, we were very compatible in nature and we both got our families to meet and talk things out. Things started getting very serious and both families started talking about wedding dates and the wedding but this guy didn't seem too excited about the wedding and kept bringing in excuses to extend the marriage such as his sister is not married yet, etc. When I noticed his disinterest and lack of excitement for our marriage I started to question him deeper. We are both different in religion with his religion being strictly veg while I was non veg. When things started getting heated on what I would need to give up for his religion he said this wasn't going to work and broke it off unless I converted to his religion and cut ties with my family who I dearly love. Even though he called it off I could clearly see he loved me and every time we meet I could see it in his eyes that he loved me, he's said it too but says it's over. He still tries to talk to me everyday even after I'm lost
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Was it love or a game?
Relationship Stress / by neonPineapple8403
Last post
 March 13th, 2019
...See more He said he loved me and wanted us to get married and that he was ready for it. He looked at me with soft eyes and treated me like a princess but as soon as we had a serious talk, he was become anotger person. He would become defensive and untrusting and the argument would go no where until i end up getting hurt. He would also gave me a lot of silent treatments. Although he said he wanted to get married and we were trying to arrange for this, he didnt take any actions and wasnt exciting when things started movinh forward slowly. He kept becoming more and more dfensive, would question my every action, introduced my flaws in every argument, got frustrated with my family, etc. Now he's giving me the silent treatment, he used to reach out to me every day for the last couple of months but after our last argument which i couldnt take and just quitely got up and left. He stopped contacting me, he hasnt talked in more than a week which hasnt been the case ever since we started movibg things forward. Was it all a lie? Was he ever serious? What happened to the man who said he eternally loved me and would do anythinh for me? He was the sweetest person ever until we started talking serious. They say if a man truly loves you, they would do anything to keep you or get you back. They would make up after a fight, etc. Does he no longer love me? I feel like everything was a lie??
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Is it time to move on?
Relationship Stress / by neonPineapple8403
Last post
 December 13th, 2018
...See more My boyfriend is delaying our marriage for his older Sister due to our relation being inter-caste which he things will affect his sister's marriage negatively. He's not active or responsible in taking initiatives nor does she show signs of getting married. Everytime I bring up the topic of when we should get married he keeps saying I want my Sister to get married first before I will. She is a divorcee with a child from the previous marriage so her marriage will take some time. I love him and care for him but I'm worried he doesnt have the confidence or drive to take the stand and lead the marriage. I've talked to my family and his to get the needed approvals, but he refuses to get married until his sister does. I'm seeing no signs of this moving forward and I'm getting worried about our future together. He's compatible with me, handsome, has a job, is responsible, patient a s awesome in most other aspects except this. Should I move on or continue waiting? Is he the type of man you would suggest for your female loved ones?
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