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qtln
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PathStep 9 Compassion hearts11 Forum posts14 Forum upvotes10 Current upvotes10 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2021 Member sinceJune 7, 2021
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Rough patch
Relationship Stress / by qtln
Last post
 June 20th, 2021
...See more My boyfriend and i have been getting on each other’s nerves lately. We’d get into little arguments and I’d just start crying. I’ve been crying at least 1-4 each week. Idk how to stop being emotional bc I’ve never been like this before. And when I’d start crying, my boyfriend would push me off if I was laying with him. He told me it’s bc when I cry while laying with him , he thinks it’s his fault. I like to be comforted and hugged when crying, but he doesnt do anything like that, Even if he does, it’s like limpy and feels like he doesnt care and just wants me to stfu. When I’d cry, he’d tell me to stop being a child and act like an adult. Idk what to do. I’m lost because when he does that it makes me cry even harder. I wanna fix this but idk how.
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memories of being cheated on
Relationship Stress / by qtln
Last post
 June 15th, 2021
...See more so i’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now but bad memories keep popping up and idk how to make it go away. my boyfriend was talking to his ex when i told him u like him. he dropped her to date me but she was suicidal. he cheated on me for 2 months with her because she kept threatening to kill herself so he was scared to completely cut ties with her. it’s been 2 years but im still getting flashbacks to it and he told me his memories with her because i thought i’d be okay with it. he only talks about it in front of his guy friends because one of his friend is like a brother to her, but they don’t bring her up anymore. i feel broken and my heart aches when i think about what he did with her. idk what to do. any advice would help. i just want to forget about it.
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self diagnosed ADHD??
ADHD Support / by qtln
Last post
 November 19th, 2021
...See more Hi, I haven’t gotten diagnosed by a professional for ADHD yet. I was talking to my friend who has it and she thinks I have it so I did a little research. The things they listed sounded like me because I struggle with doing school work. It’s embarrassing but I am on academic probation in college for it. I dropped multiple courses on impulse and because I just didn’t or had the patient to deal with a class I didn’t find interesting. I’ve always been impulse and I procrastinate whenever I get. Even when I had an important exam or paper I had to write, I would put it off till the last minute or I would just not do it. Instead I would lose myself in looking up random things like MCAT resources (bc I plan on applying to medical school) or medical school even though it’s 3-4 years down the line. I want to do my assignments but idk why I just can’t get myself to. I would look things up that has to do with the assignment but after a while I’d just give up on it and go back to watching youtube or scrolling through tiktok. And when I talk to someone or am in a conversation with people, I tend to daydream and just zone out everything around me and even when spoken to, I can’t seem to focus sometimes. And when it’s my turn to talk, I would lose focus and just start thinking about whatever and would take a while to give a response back. Ever since talking to my friends, I’ve paid more attention to what I do and I feel like I might have ADHD.
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I’m confused
Trauma Support / by qtln
Last post
 June 13th, 2021
...See more This happened 4-5 years ago when I was a freshman in high school. I was dating a sophomore at the time and we’ve only been dating for 3-4 months. He would occasionally sneak into my room and leave in the morning before everyone woke up for school. One night he wanted to have sex and I didn’t know what to do. I can’t really remember what happened but I know that I didn’t say yes because I was still a virgin. I was asking him things but idk what and he told me he forgot a condom, but he still did it anyways. Idk if this would be rape or if I actually consented to it. I remember laying there while he did his thing. Idek if he finished or not.
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Boyfriend is disassociating and idk what to do anymore
Relationship Stress / by qtln
Last post
 June 10th, 2021
...See more My boyfriend went to a party on Saturday night and ever since then he’s been more reserved and quiet. He exploded when I picked him up because he’s been bottling up his emotions. He yelled at me the entire way home and he kept threatening to jump out of the car. Ever since then he’s been disassociating and has been given me less affections, love, and has barely tried to talk to me. I went home on Monday and since then I always have to iniate the conversation and when we text, he replies with one word like yes, no, and okay. I’ve been sort of losing my mind because I miss how he was because he always showed me he loves me, but now it’s like I don’t exist and that he doesn’t care for me anymore. He told me that he can’t seem to relax around me anymore. I’m trying to let go and stop texting him, but it’s hard. I don’t know what to do anymore because I had a breakdown last night and he told me he’s gonna be there for me and that I’m his person and whatnot. But today all he said to me was I was asleep and he doesnt even try to hold a conversation. I get that he’s tired but I made it clear to him that I’m just making sure he’s okay and that I need him to act like he cares because it’s driving me insane. Idk if i should keep holding on or just let go.
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