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Anxiety Support / by reservedStrawberries2858
Last post
 June 8th
...See more i just need to tell it to somebody. I've seen this guy twice. he moved to a different city. he started replying to me very rarely and usually in the evening. after the first time he didn't reply for the whole day I sent him a message saying that he could've told me he didn't want to continue it. he said he was busy with moving and I know we was also busy with work. he said that he wanted something serious (i said before that i didn't) and wanted to meet again multiple times but never set a date. then, once we were about to meet we miscommunicated and he thought I wanted to cancel and was mad at me for the miscommunication. later, we talked about it (because I apologised, he didn't reach out) and I suggested 2 dates for meetings. he said he would let me know if he could meet on these days. so the first day afterwards I was fine but on the second one I texted him asking how about our meeting and after not getting a response I asked if something was wrong and soon after said that I felt like something was wrong and that I wanted to tell him that I also wanted something more. (I felt like something was wrong because I didn't expected him to be mad at me before for the miscommunication so I thought that I again did something wrong.) he said he was open to the idea but how could it work long distance. I wanted to call him the next day, he agreed to do it, but when I asked about a specific time when I could call he didn't answer and didn't answer my call the next day. I think he was fed up with my anxious messages and the miscommunication and also couldn't be bothered because of his new busy life in a new city. but it hurts because I feel like if I didn't assume that something was wrong maybe we could still be talking. of course, the connection could fade anyways, but I feel like I caused it because I couldn't wait for his reply. in the beginning I was normal and chill and later I ruined it by being too anxious. I can't bear thinking about this change in my behaviour. if it were meant to fade it would fade but the fact that I contributed to the ending in this way bothers me a lot.
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Relationship Stress / by reservedStrawberries2858
Last post
 May 29th
...See more So, I've seen this guy twice. After we met he moved to a different city. He kept telling me that we would meet again but never suggested any specific date. I know he's busy with moving. sometimes we texted normally but once he didn't respond for 13 hours so I sent him an emotional text about being hurt by this and that and feeling used by him. he said that my interpretation was completely wrong and he even would be interested in something more than casual hookups (which is what we agreed on before) and that he was sorry I felt hurt. I just liked the last message and texted him yesterday saying I was sorry for misinterpreting his behaviour and that I understand that he was busy moving. haven't received a response ever since. I'm so afraid I messed it up and that it is over. it's really hard for me to take it and wait until he texts me which he may never actually do.
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Relationship Stress / by reservedStrawberries2858
Last post
 May 29th
...See more So, I've seen this guy twice. After we met he moved to a different city. He kept telling me that we would meet again but never suggested any specific date. I know he's busy with moving. sometimes we texted normally but once he didn't respond for 13 hours so I sent him an emotional text about being hurt by this and that and feeling used by him. he said that my interpretation was completely wrong and he even would be interested in something more than casual hookups (which is what we agreed on before) and that he was sorry I felt hurt. I just liked the last message and texted him yesterday saying I was sorry for misinterpreting his behaviour and that I understand that he was busy moving. haven't received a response ever since. I'm so afraid I messed it up and that it is over. it's really hard for me to take it and wait until he texts me which he may never actually do.
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Eating Disorder Support / by reservedStrawberries2858
Last post
 April 1st, 2022
...See more Hi, so I want to share my story about BED. I feel like I am at my worst binge period. I have been tracking my binge episodes for more than month. They appeared very often. There was a week when I binged every day and another when I did it every two days. Today I ate like 4 meals within 6 hours and felt pain in my stomach. I am terribly sad because I know that I hurt myself and I don't want to do this, I know my body doesn't deserve to be hurt, but when the urge comes my mind prompts me that I have no other options but eating.
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