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sharkiesz
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don't know what to do
Relationship Stress / by sharkiesz
Last post
 December 27th, 2021
...See more I missed my ex so much that I whatsapped her after two months of no contact. I sent it two days ago but she didn't even read my message. There was no inappropriate intentions, I just simply asked if she could talk to me when she's free. Is there a chance that she archived my whatsapp chat so she couldn't see my message? Or she just doesn't care. All i need is a yes or no.....
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i miss her yet she doesn't
Relationship Stress / by sharkiesz
Last post
 December 20th, 2021
...See more We broke up 2 months ago and I miss her a lot. She initiated the break up. I know she missed me in the first month, but I am not sure if she's moving on now. Two weeks ago, she followed my Instagram with a fake account (i blocked her after the break up) and I caught her staring at me in school. I was so curious about her feelings. A friend told me that she went to a ball last night, to party and dance with boys. My heart was broken. I want us to get back together but I know it's impossible and too late. However, I really don't want us to part ways and have 0 connection in life. We were lovers, best friends, everything. I miss her a lot. What should i do? Is it ok if I reach out to her and tell her we can be friends?
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Social skills please
Relationship Stress / by sharkiesz
Last post
 November 14th, 2021
...See more Hey there, Thank you for reading this. I seldom seek advices on online platforms but this time I feel like it's necessary. I'm a high school student. A couple of months ago, I lost all of my close friends because I spent too much time on my girlfriend. They didn't know I was dating someone, they simply left me because they thought I was spending too little time on them. I tried multiple times to salvage our friendship,but I failed. My girlfriend was all I had. However, recently, we broke up. I am all alone again, no one to talk to and no one to laugh with.There will be a school pinic day next week. I don't want to be left alone. I realize I have to stop being an introvert.BUT I CAN'T. I have always been the quiet kid in my class. It would be extremely awkward if I suddenly start acting cool and outgoing. Moreover, my classmates and I don't have anything in common. I couldn't join their conversations. Maybe I need to accept the fact that I am just not sociable, at all. I really long for a normal school life with a group of friends. In fact, I'm all alone at school. I have to stay silent for hours because no one speaks to me. Im tired of this. I really need some advice and social skills. Thanks a lot
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Help needed
Relationship Stress / by sharkiesz
Last post
 November 21st, 2021
...See more Hey there, Thank you for reading this. I seldom seek advices on online platforms but this time I feel like it's necessary. I'm a high school student. A couple of months ago, I lost all of my close friends because I spent too much time on my girlfriend. They didn't know I was dating someone, they simply left me because they thought I was spending too little time on them. I tried multiple times to salvage our friendship,but I failed. My girlfriend was all I had. However, recently, we broke up. I am all alone again, no one to talk to and no one to laugh with.There will be a school pinic day next week. I don't want to be left alone. I realize I have to stop being an introvert.BUT I CAN'T. I have always been the quiet kid in my class. It would be extremely awkward if I suddenly start acting cool and outgoing. Moreover, my classmates and I don't have anything in common. I couldn't join their conversations. Maybe I need to accept the fact that I am just not sociable, at all. I really long for a normal school life with a group of friends. In fact, I'm all alone at school. I have to stay silent for hours because no one speaks to me. Im tired of this. I really need some advices and social skills. Thanks a lot
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How to make friends
Relationship Stress / by sharkiesz
Last post
 September 18th, 2021
...See more Hi, thanks for reading this I am a Year 12 student (16years old) I know I have to focus on my studies as I would be graduating next year,but I really can't just ignore the fact that I have no friends or feel nothing about it. I have been in the same class with my classmates for 2years but I still can not get along well with them. I was really unconfident in my social skills so I didn't try making any friends in my 1yr,but now I regret it. Would it be strange if I have kept silence for a whole year but start socializing now? Most importantly,I would like to know how I can come up with a topic to chat with my classmate. It's super difficult for me. Things will get worse if I say or ask something wrong.I really don't understand how extroverts can casually bring up a topic to talk with strangers. Any tips for socializing please? I am sincerely grateful if you are still here, thanks for hearing me out. **I apologize if u find my english hard to understand,it isn't my native language
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Struggling to make friends
Relationship Stress / by sharkiesz
Last post
 October 7th, 2021
...See more Hi, thanks for reading this I am a Year 12 student (16years old) I know I have to focus on my studies as I would be graduating next year,but I really can't just ignore the fact that I have no friends or feel nothing about it. I have been in the same class with my classmates for 2years but I still can not get along well with them. I was really unconfident in my social skills so I didn't try making any friends in my 1yr,but now I regret it. Would it be strange if I have kept silence for a whole year but start socializing now? Most importantly,I would like to know how I can come up with a topic to chat with my classmate. It's super difficult for me. Things will get worse if I say or ask something wrong.I really don't understand how extroverts can casually bring up a topic to talk with strangers. Any tips for socializing please? I am sincerely grateful if you are still here, thanks for hearing me out. **I apologize if u find my english hard to understand,it isn't my native language
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