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tidySea8802
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Hurting
Relationship Stress / by tidySea8802
Last post
 January 23rd
...See more Why does this hurt so much
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Just letting it out
Relationship Stress / by tidySea8802
Last post
 January 5th
...See more Going through marriage problems. Wife says she wants out but I honestly don't think she wants it. She has other medical problems along with severe depression. My anxiety is at an all time high and I feel neglected. I don't want to feel this way but can't help it
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Need advice
Relationship Stress / by tidySea8802
Last post
 December 31st, 2025
...See more I need some advice. My wife recently decided she wants out of our 23 year marriage. Who should have to leave the family home. I want to work it out but she doesn't.
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Feel so lonely
Relationship Stress / by tidySea8802
Last post
 December 26th, 2025
...See more Me and my wife of 23 years have just seperated and I'm alone right now. I feel so depressed and don't know what to do. I saw my kids earlier and they cheered me up but not I'm not
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So much pain
Relationship Stress / by tidySea8802
Last post
 December 22nd, 2025
...See more My wife and I just got seperated. She says she wants out but won't leave. We both have made mistakes but I want to work on them she doesn't. My heart and soul are crushed. We have been married for 23 years but doesn't seem like we will make 24 years. We have 3 kids with each other along with a niece and a cousin that is disabled that is olin our care. I'm lost and don't know what to do
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Lost
Relationship Stress / by tidySea8802
Last post
 November 25th, 2025
...See more I've been married to the love of my life for 23 years. She cheated on me about 13 years ago. I forgave her and we worked passed it. 8 years go by and he mom gets diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. I am supportive in every way she needs. We move her mom I. So my wife can take care of her. Her mom passed a couple of months later and she goes into depression. I try and get her to see a therapist but she refuses. That's when the trouble begins. She reconnected with an old boyfriend on social media. I don't think they ever met up but she would spend all day messaging him. She ceases to do any housework or anything. Just constantly on her phone. She then meets another guy in another city that she went to school with. She begins to send him pictures of her. I told her that was inappropriate and needed to stop. She got hostile with me and said everything was my fault. I thought we had worked through it again. She begins to see a therapist and is put on medication. The phone use has only increased and she now ignores me and the kids. She says the kids and her are better off without me in the picture. She is still the love of my life but she doesn't want anything to do with me. I am so lost and depressed right now
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