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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

gentleBraid2726
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🙏🙏🙏🙇‍♂️🌻 । जय जिनेन्द्र । 🌻🙇‍♂️🙏🙏🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙇‍♂️🌻 Jai Jinendra 🌻🙇‍♂️🙏🙏🙏 🕉️ You are important and you have got this! 💙 And today is the first day of the rest of your life! 💖🪻🌸🌻 Don't get so involved into anything, that you forget to be ready for inhibitions... Inhibitions always be welcomed.... There is no way to control things to be so accurate that they get beyond the effect of karma on them... The more we are ready for inhibitions, the more open minded we become... ✨🌺🌻🏵️🌸✨ Everything is temporary so let it go, that bad feeling and negativity is worthless which doesn't let us observe, test and discover the good virtues in ourself and others and doesn't let us refine ourself! 💖 Pain is the final level of a game which is ofcource temporary and those who manage to live through it with spirit, THRIVE!! 💖 And ofcource in very simple words but very strong message - 💪🏻 No Pain No Gain 💪🏻 ~ My favourite Quotes ~ 🧡💛💜❤️💙 "If you want to walk fast walk alone, but if you want to walk far, walk together" Ratan Tata "Your beliefs become your thoughts, your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your values, your values become your destiny" Mahatma Gandhi  🏵️🌻🌺🌼🌸🪷🌷🌹🌻💠 "The average person thinks 60,000-70,000 thoughts every day, and 90% of those thoughts are the exact same thoughts as the day before. If you believe that your thoughts have anything to do with your destiny, if 90% of your thoughts are the same as the day before, then your life will stay the same. The reason that your life will stay the same, is that the same thoughts lead to the same choices; the same choices lead to same actions; the same actions lead to the same experiences; and the same experiences create the same emotions. By the same means, if you learn new information, wire it in your brain, and decide to use that information, you will naturally have new thoughts that lead to new choices. New choices lead to new behaviors, which create new experiences. New experiences produce new feelings and emotions, which influence new thoughts. That is evolution" 🏵️🌻🌺🌼🌸🪷🌷🌹🌻💠
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MellowMarshMan
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I am a gentle spoken and kind 28 year old male. I have grown up in bad conditions and had a toxic family that caused many issues in my life. I have personally dealt with many mental disorders either with myself or the loved ones around me. I was diagnosed with PTSD and Depression at the age of 17 after many years of abuse. Over the last 11 years I have done a lot of soul searching and building on myself. I have learned to live with my past trauma and grow from it. I struggled with weight gain and crippling depression which left me unmotivated to do anything with my life. It was a long battle that I am still taking on to this day, but I have turned the corner and started a new leaf in my life that is filled with aspirations and love. I now live happily with my lovely wife and 2 dogs in the lovely marsh filled land of Florida. 
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theadarsh
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Note: I'm not looking forward to any serious topics/convos/venting out sessions at the moment. Expecting lighthearted convos only. Thanks for your understanding... I can see through the darkness,hear the vacuum,love a stone,listen to the woods,taste the water .Share to me whatever that keeps hold of you as you are in the judgement free zone now. Feel free as I've travelled the paths you find it difficult and will guide the way you have wished for.
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TrueNorthStrong
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Hey there. Come say hi! I'm here to give you a nonjudgmental space where you can totally be yourself. There's no pressure to be anything you're not here. We go where you want to go and at your pace. I'm 31 from Canada. I like the simple things in life. I have lots of experience on focusing on self growth and change. I hope some of my experience can help you in whatever you're facing I don't take relationship or break up chats I'm excited to meet you!
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Jakaka954
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Hello everyone! My name is Jakaka, I'm 18, and I love studying languages and meeting new people. I also like understanding new cultures and ways of life. I'm not always studying languages though, and I love helping people with whatever they are going through too. Don't hesitate to contact me as I'm always here to listen! :)
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healingForest79
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Hello! I'm a trained listener who is ready to listen to anything you'd like to share. I will ask questions to help clear up anything you're going through. I want to apologize in advance as I get a high volume of requests. If I do not respond, it does not mean I don’t care. I am just overwhelmed. I wish I could help all of you, but I am only one person. Know that I wish you the best, and always remember one important tip: you have the power to choose to be happy, even with everything going wrong. I believe in you!
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helpfulstrawberry312
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⭐ON A SELF-CARE BREAK⭐ Hi there! Thanks for stopping by and I hope we get the chance to chat! As of now, I'm a bit preoccupied with life but I will try to message everyone back throughout the week! If I was able to help you out, please leave a review!! Thank you so much, and have a great day! <3 (Also, I'm quite literally always happy to talk about anime lol)
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electricbird
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Just a little bird trying to make things easier for you 🕊️ I'm 27 years old and I'm from MEXICO. I love cats 😻 I'm always looking to learn new things. I really enjoy cooking, baking and listening to music. I'm able to take chats in spanish and english. You can find me active between 6pm-1am Central Time (CT). *ABOUT MY STATUS* GREEN: I'm available and I'll reply right away. ORANGE: I might be able to reply with some delay. RED: Leave a message! I'll get in touch as soon as I'm able to. I'm really inspired by people and their stories. I like to pay attention and truly listen, I always try to relate to the story I'm being told and finding that empathy with emotions and the way you're feeling. It warms my heart to feel like I'm able to help. "No dudes de ti, por ningún motivo, por ningún instante. Eres lo mejor que te ha pasado y yo estaré feliz de recordártelo cada vez que lo necesites". Listener twin @onedirection1213 [https://www.7cups.com/@onedirection1213] - My girl Jacie! Who I've known for the longest time in here, she's one of the sweetest and coolest cows in the world. MOO!
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Ivy229
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*I AM OPEN AND LOOKING FOR MEMBERS WHO ARE SEEKING A LONG-TERM LISTENER ON A REGULAR BASIS * *Working on coming back from a self-care break away from 7Cups, so please excuse if I am not still available as I previously was as I get refamiliarized with the 7Cups community and what happened while I was away.* About Me: Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world. Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or anything. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible.   * I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service plus do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different
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NirvanaaEnlightment
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Im 25 years old and have been through lots of ups and downs in life. Life has been not easy but thats the best part about life. I teaches you so many things. So I think i can help people with what i have learned and be there for them.
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bellaecco
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(She/Her) Compassionate Listener. Mindfulness practitioner. NOTE: I do not do scheduled chats at this time. If you need more support (more than one chat), please browse the many wonderful listeners who offer that, or check out Group Support. Thanks!
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Cupcake579
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Alhamdulillah for everything,  If you would like for someone to just listen or talk to then you’re at the right place, drop me a message and I’d be happy to get back to you! 😊
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LilachEmanuel1
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Born in 1972, i have some therapy training (IFS method practitioner, Trauma educated), although i don't have an official license. I'm down to earth, emotionally attuned & savvy, and also spiritually inclined. Please be aware in advance- that i am not obligated to perform any reoccurring chats on the platform.
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innateJoy9602
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🌿Hello!🌿 I'm Joy! Here to support you as best as I can! <3  Here take a flower & Appreciate a friend!  🌺  Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Read some articles I've posted! How to Make, and Keep, Friends in Adulthood [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowtoMakeandKeepFriendsinAdulthood_287542/] Common Ways We Excuse Toxic Behavior [https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/CopingToolsResourcesforRelationships_1161/CommonWaysWeExcuseToxicBehavior_302371/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowtoMakeandKeepFriendsinAdulthood_287542/]Yes, Crying Can be a Form of Self-care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/YesCryingCanbeaFormofSelfcare_297051/] The Power Of Reading Books [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerOfReadingBooks_285908/] Know Your Personality Type! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/KnowYourPersonalityType_286202/]  Why You Should Build A Hobby [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhyYouShouldBuildAHobby_285882/] Music Is a Beautiful And Powerful Painkiller [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/MusicIsaBeautifulAndPowerfulPainkiller_285356/]  The Pleasure of Comfort Food [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePleasureofComfortFood_288849/] 5 Ways Journaling Can Help You Cope With Big Life Changes [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/5WaysJournalingCanHelpYouCopeWithBigLifeChanges_284488/]  The Power of Honesty [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerofHonesty_285193/] The Power of Compassion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerofCompassion_287180/] What Is Your (Psychological) Superpower? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhatIsYourPsychologicalSuperpower_287010/] Using Art Therapy to Find Purpose [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/UsingArtTherapytoFindPurpose_286868/] Use This Simple Trick To Beat Procrastination [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/UseThisSimpleTrickToBeatProcrastination_284721/]  How To Communicate Your Needs When You Have Social Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowToCommunicateYourNeedsWhenYouHaveSocialAnxiety_285725/]  The Four DISC Personality Types. Which One Are You? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/TheFourDISCPersonalityTypesWhichOneAreYou_285568/]  Self-Care Tips for the Body [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/SelfCareTipsfortheBody_285516/]  How Long It Can Take To Recover From A Breakup, According To Research [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowLongItCanTakeToRecoverFromABreakupAccordingToResearch_284286/] If You Could Know The Future, Would You Want To Know? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/IfYouCouldKnowTheFutureWouldYouWantToKnow_284651/]  How Can I Tell if I’m Depressed or Burned Out? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowCanITellifImDepressedorBurnedOut_284345/]  Self-compassion Makes You A Better Person. Here’s How to Practice It [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/SelfcompassionMakesYouABetterPersonHeresHowtoPracticeIt_283575/]  No One Is Watching: The Spotlight Effect [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/NoOneIsWatchingTheSpotlightEffect_287251/] The Kinds of Loneliness No One Is Talking About [https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/ManagingEmotions_1599/TheKindsofLonelinessNoOneIsTalkingAbout_300453/] Wow! The Awe-Inspiring Health Benefits of Sunrises and Sunsets [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WowTheAweInspiringHealthBenefitsofSunrisesandSunsets_296378/] Is It Unhealthy to Spend a Lot of Time Alone? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/IsItUnhealthytoSpendaLotofTimeAlone_295991/]  10 Things To Do When You Feel Unmotivated [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/10ThingsToDoWhenYouFeelUnmotivated_286044/] What's In My Control vs. Out of My Control [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhatsInMyControlvsOutofMyControl_296980/] Quote: You Don't Have To Be Positive All The Time [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/QuoteYouDontHaveToBePositiveAllTheTime_296900/]
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quietlistener2023
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If I am not online just leave a message and I will try to get back to you as soon as possible  تحياتي أتمنى أن تكون بخير. أنا مستمع مدرب عبر الإنترنت وقد أجريت دورات وحصلت على شهادة في الدعم النفسي وقمت بالتدريب كمعالج. لا تتردد في مناقشة كل ما يزعجك. أنا مؤهل أيضًا في الدراسات الإسلامية ، لذا لا تتردد في مناقشة الموضوعات ذات الصلة
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