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Every word carries a feeling, every pause carries a silence. I believe in holding space for emotions that often remain unspoken. 🌸 Through gentle listening and healing reflections, I try to be a caring presence in moments heavy and in silences deep. 🌿 💜 In your silence, I hear. 💜 In your pain, I care. Writing and poetry are my way of weaving emotions into words : quiet reminders that none of us are alone.  🌷 Where care meets connection.

(Updated, current month 2026) ❤️ *on a break* ❤️  ------------------------- Response Time/ PM-land access:  🌻 Members:  New Member Chats: I'm completely unavailable for new members. (Members I've never talked to before whether new or old on cups)  Regular/ Recurring/ Old Member Chats: People I've talked to/ supported over a committed time frame, I love to hear updates from you, and am happy to see your messages. But please know that I'm unavailable for LIVE chats and can only reply offline, when I'm able to. (Responses may be several days delayed) So whether you're a new member or someone I've talked to before, if you need Live/ Immediate/ Urgent/ Regular/ Long-term support chat, please reach out to another available listener in cups.  You deserve prompt support, which I cannot offer, for an unforeseeable time! ❤ 🌻 Listeners:  I'm available for Peer Support and Chat Support only when I've accepted your request either through Chat Support/ Peer Supporter request forms or in the LSR, so please before messaging me for any of it, ask me in the room, as otherwise I may not be available to respond timely! Mentees/ Coachees: I'm so proud of you for trying your best to improve as a listener, and happy to hear any updates from you!  I'm typically unavailable for Live chats, and offline responses may vary, feel free to drop your questions though, if not too urgent, and I'll respond as soon as possible! If you need a live chat, let me know a little in advance, mentioning the topic for the chat/ kind of support needed, your time/ availability in ET or cups-time and hopefully, we can schedule for a live chat sometime!  Not available for any personal chats/ PMs unless stated/ agreed to otherwise. (Due to a high influx of messages, I'm unable to prioritize replying to messages with just a "hey/hi/ greeting", thank you for greeting me, but please do share a bit about "what" you're reaching out for, whether as a listener or a member, as it helps me understand how to respond better and faster. You may not hear from me unless there’s some context mentioned.)   I'll be around, in the forums and chatrooms when I can though, feel welcome to tag me in your posts or replies, happy to see you! 🥰 (I know) Extremely slow response rate: I'm on a break from several activities/roles here, but have been catching up with PMs and tags as much as possible. Responses will be slow and delayed, your patience is appreciated. Send a follow-up, if I missed your important message or if you need an urgent reply. <3 Support shouldn't be delayed, so I highly recommend browsing for other listeners when you need some emotional support. Please remember you are awesome and not alone here. ❤ ------------------------- Hello, Amazing Human, Welcoming hugs and high fives and cookies for you! (Take what you need hehe) I am Sun, Thank you for finding me here, I understand life isn't always smooth sailing, we all have our ups and downs. I know I won't be able to solve all your problems, but problems shared are problems halved, right? Or even if not halved, I do feel sharing can help reduce the burden of overwhelming thoughts and feelings in your mind ~ your mind is not a notepad, it shouldn't be a place to "store" thoughts and feelings ~ share away, your mind deserves to feel lighter and better and so do *you* ... Besides being a trained verified listener here, I can offer you a kind, empathetic and non-judgmental ear and help you guide through these dark times. Feel free to Talk/ Share/ Vent and I'll be more than happy to listen to you, provide you with a safe and comfortable space and help you feel better in any way I can. Please do keep in mind that I can't and won't advise you, I can help you guide through the roads, but the steering wheel will always be in your hand and the direction to choose will always be your decision solely since you know your journey and your destination, the best. Rest assured, you've got your passenger seat covered for any support and encouragement always!  I am a persun who believes in the power of sharing smiles, happiness, kindness, encouragement, hope and positivity And I would love to share these with you too if you allow me to (always at your pace and comfort of course).🌻 I am pretty respectful and polite to everyone and personally do not use any offensive language including any kind of passive-aggressive/ provoking remarks, so would certainly expect and appreciate the same from you. Everyone deserves basic respect and decency! 💛  People looking for inappropriate sexual chats and/ or interested in making any sexual advances towards me~ this is an emotional support platform ~ and we do *not* entertain such kinds of conversations here. Please refrain from sending any messages, if you're here for any reason other than seeking emotional support, thankyou. 💛If you are currently having crisis thoughts (active or passive, or actively harming yourself) *offers hugs*, I know how terrible it can be to be in this hopeless situation, please however respect our boundaries as a listener, our limits and that 7 cups is not a crisis platform, we do care and therefore ask you to reach out to relevant channels of support. You can find resources here:-  7cups.com/crisis, please do connect with a hotline. You may not believe it at the moment, but you are *not* unworthy of living, you are not taking space unnecessarily, you are not your current situation neither your current thoughts. Nobody exactly knows, but we gotta keep hanging on tightly, to see for ourselves when and how it gets better because it does, *someday* and you need to be here to experience it.  Brave it in this very moment, reach out for help. You owe it to *yourself*. 💛 Feel free to send a message if you see me online (green status) and I will get back to you as soon as I can, we can then schedule a time and day for a chat or agree upon offline messaging, whichever is more comfortable and suitable for us. 🤗 At Last, remember that you are not alone, your mental health is important, you are a brave person to seek support,  you are here and I am proud of you for that.  If you give me a chance I'll try my best to be there for you, to be there with you and remind you that even if the clouds appear to be very dark at any point in time,  the Sun Is Shining And So Are Youuuu. 🌻🌞🌻 You are one Amazing human, you are important, you matter and You are deserving of kindness, happiness, support, love and all things amazing in life! It's cool to be kind, people!🤗 ------------------------- MY ROLES @7 CUPS- The most important and my favourite one is to provide everyone with a  friendly, supportive,  inclusive and cheerful environment along with sharing some cookies and hugs. 🥰 🍪🌻🤗 # Trained and Verified Listener to provide quality listening to members  # Safety Patrol  (profile flagging ) Team member to try and keep the community safe for all.  # Peer Supporter (for listeners needing support after a hard or triggering chat  or in general not feeling good about their listener role and needing a space to vent about "mild" site-related issues)  # Chat Support  (I can provide support with ongoing chats to listeners)  # Listener's Verifiers Team member  (I take mock chats for listeners under the verification process)  Want to get verified? Check here or feel free to message me for more information.  #Quality Mentor  #Listener Coach  # Global community mentor and forum supporter ( Needs Reply Team ) #Listener Chatroom Supporter  #Doorkeeper (feel free to message me if you'd like to open / close rooms)  #Ocassional- Events, Pop up discussions, listener events and safety support sessions Host  # Advisor/ Helper for the Peer Appreciation Program. #7 cups Internship,  Leadership Development Program, Group Leadership Dynamics,  Building Community Program and the Content Development and Marketing program's graduate. ~ proud 7 Cups Academy Alumni hehe!  🌻❤

   🌷 Introduction 🌷       Hello to everybody reading this! I'm Emma (emsworld).       Due to commitments outside of the site, my response rate can       vary.       I aim to reply within 48 hours. If you haven’t heard back by then,       please feel free to send a gentle reminder 💜         💗 Chat Requests 💗       Members:       Hey! Welcome to 7 Cups, I’m glad you’re here.       I’m currently unable to take member chats due to limited time       within the site.       You can find amazing listeners on the        Browse Listeners page 🌸       Listeners:       Thank you so much for everything you do for this community.       If you’d like a lighthearted chat or have a question, feel free to       message me, and I'll reply when I'm online 💜       If you have any questions related to the roles I am currently       involved within, or would like support following a difficult       chat, please message me and I will respond as soon as       possible.         💙 Current Roles 💙       • Verified Listeners Team       • Adult–Teen Listener       • Peer Supporter             💚 Previous Roles 💚       • Group Moderator       • Peer Supporter       • 7 Cups Intern Graduate       • Safety Patrol Team       • 7 Cups Intern Mentor       • Teen Eating Disorder Support Team       • Foster Care Support Team       • Verifying Listeners Team       • Chat Supporter       • Teen Quality Mentor       • Quality Mentor       • Teen Chatroom Mentor       • 7 Cups Internship Forum Mentor       • Eating Disorder Forum Mentor       • Foster Care Forum Mentor       • Self Harm Forum Mentor       • Doorkeeper    

 I am presently not taking any new member chats. Feel free to search for other listeners from HERE. Thank you for understanding me. Hello Hello! Welcome to my profile page, thanks for visiting. I am Suryansh, or Surya, a young man from India. My time zone is IST (Indian Standard Time). My favourite subject is Physics. I really enjoy listening to music, watching series shows and tech movies, travelling, and getting to know our world and its history. I like coffee, and I am fond of writing and reading thoughts and quotes. I am currently pursuing a Bachelor of Engineering in Robotics & Artificial Intelligence. After a few years, I aim to join the Indian Administrative Service, serve the nation, and continue to listen to and support people. I am a trained, verified listener here on 7 Cups. I like listening to people and supporting them with whatever they are going through. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard and understood. I cannot solve your problems, but I assure you that I will provide a safe listening ear and offer support. Your feelings are absolutely valid, and I vow to you that I will never judge you. I would appreciate receiving ratings and reviews, as they help me improve, learn, and grow. I strongly believe in respect, patience, and kindness, which I will always embody in our conversation. I would greatly appreciate it if I received the same attitude in return from the other person. I substantially care about you! I am available from Monday to Friday; weekends are days off for me from 7 Cups, as I practice Self-Care on these days. We all deserve some 'me-time' to care for ourselves. My general response time is within 2–3 days. If I am unavailable or offline, you are welcome to leave a message, and I will respond as soon as possible. I have some triggers that make me feel uncomfortable in chat. Please avoid sending one-word messages involving 'okay', 'k', 'huh', 'heh', ok', 'oh', 'ah' and 'hmm'. I would appreciate your understanding nature toward me. My Involvement in 7 Cups Group Support & Chatroom Ambassador  As a Group Support Ambassador, my focus areas include Group Support Leadership, Engagement, and Quality Aspects of the rooms. As a Chatroom Ambassador, my focus area includes complete management of the Chat Support Team. I also assist with Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star applications & onboarding processes. Global Community Mentor As a Global Community Mentor, I moderate the forums and take steps to build engagement in the sub-communities through various activities. I can edit, delete, or transfer any forum post/thread from any sub-community. Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member As a Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member, I take steps to keep the forums clean and free of toxicity. I am authorised to review flagged posts, approve, edit, or delete them, in accordance with the community's forum guidelines. Listener Verifier As a Listener Verifier, I can conduct mock chats or grade forms in order to verify listeners based on their Active Listening skills.  Global Moderator As a Global Moderator, I have moderation (Mod) access in all the member group support rooms. I moderate the rooms to ensure they remain a safe space for everyone and maintain a supportive environment within them. Safety Patrol As a Safety Patrol, I flag inappropriate profiles on 7 Cups to help maintain community guidelines and, ultimately, to foster a positive and appropriate environment within the community.  Chat Support As a Chat Supporter, I provide support to our listeners through ongoing chat. Peer Support As a Peer Supporter, I provide support to our listeners after a hard/difficult chat. Doorkeeper As a Doorkeeper, I can open or close any room on 7 Cups.  You are always welcome to drop me a message if you would like to obtain any information, request that a room be closed or opened, or simply have a casual chat. I assure you that you will be provided with a safe and non-judgmental environment in which to discuss your concerns with me. Thank you for visiting my profile.  Congratulations! You have reached the end. I have a cup of coffee for you HERE. Thank you for taking the time to read about me. :)

I’ve always believed in the power of listening and how much it can help someone feel less alone. Life can be overwhelming at times, and I know from personal experience how important it is to have a safe space to talk. That’s why I want to be here—to offer support, encouragement, and a judgment-free space for those who need it. I’m currently in high school and have been involved in mental health awareness efforts at my school, such as creating posters to help break the stigma around mental health. I’ve also worked in leadership and communication roles, which have strengthened my ability to connect with people and show empathy. I may not have all the answers, but I know how to listen, and sometimes, that’s all someone really needs. I’m here to help in any way I can!

FRENCH ONLY I only take French Chats. FRANCAIS  Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute et support dans les sujets suivants: - Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique - Autisme et TSA  - Automutilation - Vivre avec un handicap physique - problèmes de santé physique - Douleur chronique - maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives - Intimidation, taxage, discrimination - Diversité culturelle - LGBTQA+ - Gestion des émotions - Parentalité - Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain - Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes - Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT) - Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise - Troubles du comportement alimentaire - Stress financier - Vie étudiante - Ados vivant en familles d'acceuil/foyer de groupe/centre jeunesse, ou adultes qui y ont vécu enfant Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants: - Relations  - Ruptures amoureuses et divorce - Santé sexuelle et tout ce qui touche la sexualité (excepté les victimes d'abus sexuels qui sont les bienvenues) - Rencontres (dating) - Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme" J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes, tant pour du court terme, long terme et check-ins Sur rendez-vous seulement. Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne ou sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu. Merci de précisé votre besoin et sujet dans votre premier message. English My English is limited to a Low intermediate (B1) level so I don't take chats in English. If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms and I allowed you to message, of course you are free to message me (and specify it!) ;)  Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests without a specified topic will not be answered. Twin My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3

Hey there I'm Kerry nice to meet you. I have been an active listener since 2016. 

                            Diego7Cups   Trust is an invisible bond that is built with every word, every shared silence, and every moment of connection. Sometimes, all we need is a space where we can be ourselves without fear or judgment. Here, warmth is found in every conversation, sweetness in every gesture, and friendship in every exchange. There is no rush or expectation, only the certainty that, in this corner, your voice will always be heard and valued.                                    𝐑𝐎𝐋𝐄𝐒  Verified listener of 7cups ✔️  🌟Always ready to help! 🔹I accept private messages from new members looking for support. 💬 It doesn't matter what the topic is! 🔹 Even though I may not have experience in all areas, I will always be available to offer you company and a listening ear. ⏳ I will reply to you as soon as possible, when I can! 🟢 If my status is green, my response time is 5-10 minutes. 🟡 If my status is yellow, I have multiple requests in process. I will respond as soon as demand decreases. 🔴 If my status is red, I have no active requests, but I am also not available at the moment. You can send me a message and I will respond as soon as possible. ------------------------- 🛡️ Safety Patrol Member - Security Team As a member of the Safety Patrol, my role is to help keep our community safe, supportive, and respectful for everyone. 🔸 I assist in reviewing profiles and chat behavior that may violate community guidelines. 🔸 I report suspicious or harmful content to protect both members and listeners. 🔸 I act with empathy, discretion, and commitment to the safety of all users. -------------------------  🛡️ 7 Cups Room Supporter Always here to create a safe, kind, and supportive space. 🔹My role is to help ensure the well being and safety of the community by supporting members, and fellow listeners. 🔹 My goal is to help foster a respectful, warm, and welcoming environment in the group chats. 💬 You can talk to me about anything you need. 🔹 No topic is too small or too big  this space is for you. 🔹 And if you don’t feel like talking, that’s okay too. Sometimes just being present is enough. 🤝 My commitment as a Room Supporter  🔹 Greet and welcome each person who joins the room. 🔹 Answer questions about how the app works and help those who are new or unsure. 🔹 Encourage kind, healthy, and respectful conversations. 🔹 Help ensure the community guidelines are followed in a compassionate and calm way. 🔹 Listen with empathy and without judgment. 🔹 Step in respectfully during difficult or tense situations when needed. 🧩 I'm here to help you feel safe, heard, and supported in this community. ------------------------- 🌟 Quality Listening Program Academy Mentor (QLP) Always here to walk beside you on your listener journey  step by step, with no judgment and a lot of heart. 💙 🔹 As an Academy Mentor for the Quality Listening Program (QLP), my role is to guide and support trainees who are working to improve their listening skills and grow as safe, compassionate members of the 7 Cups community. 🔹 I’m here to help you move forward, answer your questions, and make your Academy experience clear, calm, and meaningful. 🤝 My commitment as a QLP Mentor: 🔹 Welcome each new trainee and let them know they’re not alone. 🔹 Answer questions about courses, forms, and program tasks. 🔹 Support you when you feel overwhelmed or unsure where to begin. 🔹 Help you stay organized and make progress at your own pace  no pressure. 🔹 Celebrate your achievements, big or small. 🔹 Offer emotional encouragement whenever you need a little boost. 🔹 Listen with empathy, patience, and without judgment. 🧩 My mission as a QLP Mentor: To create a space where every trainee feels supported, valued, and safe  so they can grow into the best version of themselves as a listener. If you're in the program and need guidance, support, or just someone to talk to... I'm here. 🌱 ------------------------- 📣 7 Cups Project Agent for the AL Team Helping grow a stronger, more engaged community through listening. 🔹 As a Project Agent, my role is to promote meaningful programs like the Active Listening Tests, encourage participation, and support listeners in their learning journey. 🔹 I work closely with the Outreach Team to make sure members and listeners are aware of the tools and opportunities that can help them grow  especially those who want to take on leadership roles. 🔍 My focus as a Project Agent: 🔹 Spread awareness about the importance of Active Listening in 7 Cups. 🔹 Support the completion of Active Listening Tests within the community. 🔹 Guide listeners in understanding how these tests contribute to their personal and professional development. 🔹 Contribute to a culture of growth, reflection, and continuous learning. 🔹 Record and track outreach progress to strengthen our programs. 🤝 I’m always happy to help you learn more about Active Listening and how to grow in the 7 Cups community. Whether you’re new or experienced I’m here to support you ------------------------- 🌟 Peer Support Here to walk beside you on your listener journey  step by step, with empathy and heart. You’re never alone. 🤝 🔹 As a Peer Support volunteer, I’m here to support fellow listeners emotionally, offer encouragement, and create a space where you can feel heard and valued. 🔹 Whether you're feeling confident or facing challenges, my role is to remind you that you're not alone  and that your well-being matters too. 🧭 What I offer as a Peer Support 🔹 A safe, supportive space to talk freely as a listener. 🔹 Emotional check-ins when you're feeling overwhelmed, confused, or just need someone to talk to. 🔹 A listening ear without judgment  just like we offer members, but for you.  🔹 Encouragement, validation, and motivation when the journey feels tough. 🔹 Compassionate support from someone who truly understands what it means to be a listener. I'm here to care for the hearts behind the headphones  because listeners need support too. 💙 If you ever need someone to talk to, just send me a message. You matter. -------------------------   The Playground Team 🎉💬 🌟 Creating spaces to socialize, communicate and most importantly, have fun! 🔹 I organize weekly community gaming sessions to strengthen the connection between members. 🔹 Check out the Community Calendar, where you'll find the date, time, and game that will be played during each session. 🔹 15 minutes before each game, I post an announcement in all groups so that no one misses out. 🔔 IMPORTANT 🔸 Sessions are held in the Playground group 🔸To make the most of the session, make sure you arrive on time. Arriving late could cause you to miss the start of the activities or miss some dynamics. 🔸 Respect the scheduled time so that all participants can enjoy the game without interruptions.                                                                          

Please note I have been on and off in activity since I was most active in 2021. This is due to my external occupations and academics which makes sticking around here difficult sometimes. My roles on 7 Cups Group Support Room Project Leader (Inactive) Group Support Mentor Leader (Inactive) Global Group Support Moderator (ACTIVE) Group Support Mentor (Inactive) Listener Quality Mentor (Inactive) Listener Chatroom Mentor (Inactive) Safety Outreach Team (Inactive) Safety Discussion Team (Inactive) Safety Patrol Team (ACTIVE) LDP Mentor (Inactive) Listener Chat Supporter (Inactive) Listener Peer Supporter (Inactive) Trauma Support Discussion Host (Inactive) Doorkeeper (Inactive)  Adult-Teen Listener / ATL (ACTIVE) I have direct lived experience with peer violence, substance abuse, self-harm, depression, PTSD, childhood sexual abuse, sexual violence, addiction, breakups, domestic violence, and family, relationship, work, and student stress.  If you have any questions, do feel free to send a message and I'll try my best to help out.

Hello, my name is Asher. I'm currently a student working on my Master of Business Administration. Looking forward to working with you. I have also provided 5,000 hours of Peer Support for those in need, while focusing on a holistic approach for each member. I do take all issues and will support you on them to the best of my ability (except issues of suicide or active self-harm).  Interests: Narrative Psychology, Mythology, Children Literature, Public Health, Mental Health, becoming a Doctoral student in Public Health or Healthcare Administration, Leadership, and Sociology of Health.  7 Cups Leadership Roles Project Lead, Being Asher Former Roles Community Ambassador  Executive Editor, 7 Cups Newsletter Community Admin Support, Group Support in Community Engagement Community Mentor Leader of 7 Cups Leadership Quality Mentor, Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Project Lead of International Resource Database Chatroom Support/ Teen Chatroom Support Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Peer Support / Teen Peer Support Forum Supporter, Need Replies "Cause I'll be there when you can finally make it home"                                                                 - Missing Piece, Vance Joy "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"                                             - Up, Disney            "Go big, get loud, or go home. You gotta check that bucket list before going to the crypt"                                                                                        - Chaz Cardigom                                                 

Hi! I have to take some time away right now, flying south for the summer. Stay strong. You can do this! 🦋❤️🦋 Right now I am busy with my long-term members and I am not taking on any new ones. So if you have messaged me I urge you to seek another listener using the https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  link. There you can search using the filter option. I will update here when things change.  ~~~*~~~  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 in the near future, or if you have already turned 18 and feel like some more support then you can apply for one of the Teen Transition Mentor Team, including me, to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6  At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,  When we don't accept other's bad behaviour toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant!

I believe I'm a philosopher, a frozen heart, yet a lover of humanity, someone nonjudgmental, a protagonist-minded antagonist, something out of a classic novel, filled with endless humor, a little dark humor with a pinch of sarcasm, and rarely narcissistic.  "Love is the only reality, and it is not a mere sentiment." — Kahlil Gibran