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Welcome! I am here to offer a safe, warm, and judgment-free space whenever you need someone to listen. Life can get overwhelming, but you do not have to carry everything alone. Feel free to reach out to share your thoughts, vent about your day, or unpack whatever is on your mind. I am here to listen and support you.

I am just a human.  Here I am breathing, walking, dancing and sharing the planet with you!

I guess life pulls everyone into it's battles to be the best of ourselves but having someone who could hear us out especially on the rainy days helps with the emptiness. Just a message away!

Think of me as that one friend who always listens-minus the need to buy coffee first. Here to chat, vent, laugh, or just vibe in silence. Your space, your pace you will get a quick reply from me  Anonymous and safe space to share your thoughts  I’m a trained verified active listener here on 7 Cups, and I’m really glad you’ve found your way here. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, lonely, or just need someone to talk to — I’m here to listen without judgment. Everyone goes through ups and downs, and sometimes we just need a safe space to let it all out. You’re not alone. I’m here to support you with empathy, patience, and kindness. Feel free to reach out anytime — I’m here for you. 💙

Status: I will be away from 7 cups for a little while and will not be able to take chats until I return. I expect to be back in October. Feel free to leave me a message though and I will get in touch with you when I am back.  I am an older woman (she/her) with lots of compassion, and I'm comfortable talking about a variety of mental health issues.  I've been through a lot with my own bipolar disorder so I can offer real empathy.  Please note: I don't take social chats. Also, I will not tolerate any explicit or inappropriate sex talk in any chat. When I am unavailable (red indicator) and you need immediate support, please refer to our 'browse listeners' tab to find another Listener who feels like a good fit for you. If you would like to schedule a time to chat, please leave me a message and I will get back to you. Green status indicator = Available to chat.  Orange status indicator = Online but busy. I will respond as soon as I can.  Red status indicator = I am currently unavailable. Feel free to leave me a message. "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."  - Thomas Edison

I love helping anyone and everyone with whatever they're struggling through. Everyone has a wonderful story about their journey of life, sometime the journey of life can be intimidating, so here I m happy to be helping however I can. I always try to be non judgmental, unbiased and as much open minded as I can. I will try my best to make sure you feel heard, understood and compassion.  However difficult life may seem it is, there's always something you can do in it and change your life! 

Hi, I’m Francisca. I’m here to offer a listening ear in a calm, respectful, non judgemental space. Our chats may involve gentle questions to help you think things through, looking at alternative perspectives, or sharing resources if that feels helpful. If a topic is outside my scope, I can point you toward someone appropriately qualified. Chats usually run for about 30 minutes. I look forward to chatting 🙂 Please note, I do not cover the following topics: * Major depressive disorder * Self harm * Domestic violence * Schizophrenia * Bipolar disorder * Borderline personality disorder * Dissociative disorders If you’d like to discuss any of the above, please visit the 7 Cups listener directory to find someone who supports those areas: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts, I am not trained to support you through this. Please visit https://www.7cups.com/crisis for immediate support. You are welcome to return and chat once you are feeling safe again. Inappropriate chats, bullying, or trolling will receive one warning before being reported and blocked.

💙 Please read the "To Members" and "Expectations" sections before messaging. 💙 To Members Hey there! I'm glad you found your way here. 💙 Whether you need someone to listen, a place to vent, or simply a little space to sort through what's on your mind, you're welcome here. This is a judgment-free space where you can show up as you are. I've been an Experienced Listener on 7 Cups since June 2016, and I believe every conversation should center on the person reaching out. You deserve to feel heard, respected, and supported. 🗨️ Chats & Expectations I offer two options: * Live chat: Usually 30–60 minutes when I'm online. I'll let you know upfront how much time I have available. * Offline chat: A relaxed, back-and-forth message exchange. You can message whenever you'd like, and I'll respond when I'm around Cups. Connecting for the first time? Please include the topic you'd like to discuss or a brief idea of what's on your mind. If you're hoping to arrange a live chat, please also include your time zone so we can see whether our schedules align. My Time Zone: I'm located in New Mexico and follow Mountain Time (MT). Please keep this in mind when suggesting times for a live chat! My approach is centered on empathetic listening, emotional support, reflection, and respecting your boundaries. I won't judge you or pressure you to share more than you're comfortable with. While I specialize in the topics listed on my profile, I'm also happy to listen to just about anything! You don't have to fit your situation into a specific category to reach out. Whether it's something listed in my specialties or something completely different, you're welcome to message me. The exceptions are chats involving sexting, active or passive suicidal ideation, active self-harm during chat, or homicidal thoughts. If you're in crisis or feel unsafe, please visit 7cups.com/crisis for immediate support. You may also see me around moderating chatrooms or participating in the forums. Feel free to say hello when I'm around! And because it's important to know the little things, my favorite color is blue. 💙 What's yours? 🫖 To Listeners Hey, fellow listener! 💙 I'm always happy to connect with other listeners about 7 Cups! While I don't participate in random casual chats, I'm more than happy to lend a hand when it comes to the listener experience. Whether you're looking for mentoring, guidance, peer support after a difficult chat, help navigating listener roles, chat support questions, or a second set of eyes on a forum post, feel free to reach out. You don't have to figure everything out on your own. Sometimes having another listener to talk things through with can make a difference. 🎧 My 7 Cups Roles * Chat Support & Peer Support * Quality Mentor & Chatroom Mentor * Community Mentor / Forum Moderator * Community Reflections Moderator * Community Mentor Leader (Listener Learning Journey) * Global Group Moderator * Anonymous Evaluator Not sure where to go, have a question about listener roles, or need help figuring out your next steps on 7 Cups? I'm happy to help point you in the right direction. I'm always rooting for fellow listeners and the work they do to make this community a supportive place. 💙 ------------------------- 🥴 Distracted UNO Player Award - Won October 18, 2026

I have gone through some difficult times in the past which are behind me now. During my struggles I found that communicating with someone that cares is a precious gift so I hope to provide the same for someone else. I have personal experience with emotional abuse, depression, social anxiety, complex PTSD as well as having a family member with Borderline Personality Disorder. I also dealt with a person very close to me who took their own life.

Hi, my name is Josh. 💜 If you'd like to chat with me in real-time, you can use my booking form HERE (https://quietmagic7cups.youcanbook.me/) to schedule a 60-minute chat. Alternatively, if you'd like to chat via offline messages, can send me a PM and I’ll try my best to respond within 24-48 hours; my responses may be slower over the weekend. I don't specialize in any particular topics and am willing to talk to anyone about anything. DBTuesday Masterpost: https://www.7cups.com/forum/personalitydisorders/Resources_2667/DBTuesdayMasterpost_274756/ Thoughtful Thursday Masterpost: https://www.7cups.com/forum/personalitydisorders/Resources_2667/ThoughtfulThursdayMasterpost_277323/ Tips for dealing with unhealthy and abusive relationships: https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/CopingToolsResourcesforRelationships_1161/TipsforDealingWithUnhealthyandAbusiveRelationships_359794/ Writing space: https://www.7cups.com/forum/journal/General_2520/QuietMagicwritingspace_354148/

I’m a scientist and globetrotter. I’ve lived in many countries, traveled far and wide- I speak 6 languages and I love cooking/baking. I’m a new mom so I know the struggles of early motherhood and I’m here to help other moms navigate the challenges or to just listen to them vent when they need. 

Hey, I get it—life can feel heavy. I’ve been there: drowning in overthinking, sitting in the emptiness after a breakup, or just feeling so damn alone. But I also know what it’s like to claw your way back up. I won’t sugarcoat things, but I will listen like someone who actually understands. If you need someone who truly gets it, hit me up. You’re not alone in this.