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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

zemblanityx
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Here to listen to your problems, no matter how big or small they are!
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Timeless22
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Hi I'm glad you found me, my name is Kaiden. Mental health is very important and I believe everyone deserves a listening ear. I've learned so much by being able to speak to such a wide range of people on here. As a result I've been able to help people with many different things now. Eating disorders, self harm, paranoia, relationships, anxiety, depression, work issues, family issues, etc. So feel free to talk with me about anything, and I will promise to do my best to help you. Contact me or send me a message online or offline and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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Glue
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Currently not accepting 1-on-1's. ¡Olé! Welcome to my profile. I will try to help you in any way I can; be it exploring thoughts, feelings and behaviours or casual talks and pun battles. I assure you, you'd be in a sticky situation. Currently working on: a platform for mental health support and information. twin: @LilyBlossom21
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melonMeloncholy
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Reaching out is a great thing, a strong thing. Sometimes just talking helps. Listeners are eager to acknowledge what's said without judgment; to empathize; to encourage self-reflection, honesty, and mindfulness. There are always choices, no matter how small or undesirable, and those choices can be explored safely. Ongoing List of Healthy Distractions (& Self-Love) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ManagingEmotions_47/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317] or follow along this custom growth path: Melon's Self-Care Stepping Stones Path [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ManagingEmotions_47/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317] Grounding techniques, self-care, healthy distractions Need a Listener or Peer Support when Melon isn't here? Connect to a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?verifiedlistener=on] Listeners: Connect to Peer Support [https://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=98] Keep seeking the support you deserve. "Rivers know this: There is no hurry." - A. A. Milne, "Winnie the Pooh"
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PM1965
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Hi! My name is PM, I’m a verified Listener on Cups and looking forward to listening to you.  A little more about me I’m a husband of 33 years, father, brother and veteran! In my free time, I enjoy playing video games, listening to classic rock music and creative writing!  I have lived experience with the following topics:◾Alcohol Abuse ◾Drug Abuse ◾Bipolar Disorder ◾Childhood Sexual Abuse ◾Depression ◾LGBTQ+
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tuffattack
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         I am currently on break for personal reasons (3/4/24). I am unsure when I will be 100% back on cups Hi, I'm Tuff! I am here for you to listen to what you need to talk about, whatever that might be :) Big or small, or just a fun chat. I am proud of you for reaching out for help.  My Amazing listener twin is @Violetnotes  My Previous Roles ✔️ Listener Chatroom Supporter  ✔️ Anonymous Evaluations Team ✔️ Listener Verifier ✔️ Verified Listener ✔️ Peer Support My Status Meaning  💚 Green - I am online, and you can message me! 💚 🧡 Orange - I am currently busy, and I am not accepting any new requests 🧡 ❤️ Red - I am offline, however you can message me! I will respond within 24 hours ❤️ Experience I have struggled with my own mental health problems through out my life. This include depression, anxiety, personality disorders, substance issues, eating disorders, etc. For most of the chats I accept, I may know a little bit more than you might think (: In my life time, I have also been in mental health treatment, which includes a residential treatment center for 9 1/2 months. I am pretty open about my time in treatment, so feel free to ask any questions you might have. Chats I do not take For personal reasons, I do not take LGBTQ+, dating/relationship issues, and sexual health related chats. Thank you for understanding About Me I’m a pole vaulter and I’m currently vaulting 12 feet! I’m obsessed with the pbs kids show, Arthur. It’s been my biggest interest since I was a little kid My dream job is forensic psychology.  I really enjoy art and poetry. Currently I mainly do water color and free verse poetry.  My personality typing is INFJ IN(F) IEI 5w4 469 so/sp EVLF /R/[L]oai melancholic [dominant] Quotes "Destiny is a gift. Some go their entire lives, living existences of quiet desperation, never learning  the truth that what feels as though a burden pushing down upon their shoulders is really a sense of purpose that lifts us the greater heights. Never forget that fear is but the precursor to valor, that to strive and triumph in the face of fear is what it means to be a hero. Don't think. Become." “What which we manifest is before us: we are the creators of our own destiny. Be it through intention or ignorance, our success and our failures have been used brought upon us by none other than ourselves” You deserve to be listened to and heard  -Tuff #HopeForHappyfeet Thank you for being in my life 
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HopieRemi
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  I am a Listener Coach and Chat Support. I can edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor. I do accept chats, if it is a topic I support. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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GregB19
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Gregory; Fitness, Hockey, Outdoor enthusiast, Construction Engineering, Caffeine addict, Gamer, Tattoos, Good times & Stellar vibes 🤙🏼 Forever down for that casual talk. * Please use full words when communicating with me. No short forms or abbreviations. Let’s keep them back and forth replies at a steady pace. You get out exactly what you put in✌🏼   
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Asmodeusss
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Hello there!  Glad to see you click on my profile, do take a few seconds to read it before sending a message, Thank you. ❤️ Some things to know about our potential future conversations: > I shall not discuss politics or political issues. > I am a finance student currently so I can help with money management and basic financial literacy. > I also have an extensive experience in the fitness world. (acting as a personal trainer for 3 years) > There will be no judgement from my side, this will be your safe space to share any stuff that you want to.
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AdvocateHP
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Hey there! I’m (your) Advocate. My goal is to be your mirror; I'll show you your inner worth, and we'll both grow together. So, send a message whenever you'd like! Even if I can't respond right away, you can guarantee that I will respond as soon as I can. That's a promise! Thanks for stopping by! Update regarding recent events! My work schedule has kept me extremely busy, but I’ll always make time to send a message to my members. If you send me a message, you can always expect a reply, but it may not be right away. Think of sending messages to me as leaving a note on a park bench: I’ll certainly see it and leave my own note (or notes!) for you to find when you return. If this asynchronous model works for you, then take a seat on this bench and grab a pen - I’ll be waiting to read your note!
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Happyyyay
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Hey there 💕 , Sending you some healings ✨ I love hearing and understanding people. Feel free to share your heart out ❤️ . You can drop a text even if I'm offline or busy, I'll get back to you as soon as possible 😊. About me :  I'm 18. I love rain 🌧️ , traveling , dancing, baking and gardening. I'm learning to play ukulele . I'm ambiverted and kinda humourous... I cannot support you with : * Sexual health * Men's Issues  * Addiction  * Adoption/ Foster care       🌻Embrace the glorious mess that you are🌻 https://youtu.be/WZjVRyIBIX0?si=4T93N2P2zZgg_SSq : A song from my playlist.. Thank you , have a great day ahead 🍀
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Cookiedonuts2000
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(On a Self Care Break) Hey There! Life is tough and so are you! Let's focus on making lives better! Be the reason someone believes in the goodness of people. If I'm online, please feel free to message me. Glad to have you here! I promise to lend a non-judgemental ear to anyone who needs to talk! Sending loads of virtual hugs and cookies to whoever needs them!🫂🍪 Let me tell you about some of my roles here! Verified Active Listener- To provide a quality listening experience to members! Peer Supporter- For listeners needing support after a hard or triggering chat or generally not feeling good about their listener role and needing a space to vent about "mild" site-related issues. You can reach out to me for support!   P.S I do not take up chats and conversations related to sexual issues My chatting duration is 15-30 mins ONLY
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