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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

chasingchaos
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Hi, I'm glad you found me on 7 cups of tea. I have endured many life tragedies and hardships that have molded me into the person I am today. I have learned many life lessons, knowledge, and skills that have allowed me to continue to persevere, to build my resiliency, and a desire to help others in their times of difficulty. I am a two-time breast cancer survivor, 2003 & 2009. I am a Crisis Counselor, and an advocate for victims of crime, crisis, and trauma. I believe that I was born and continue to live to fulfill a purpose and that is to help others get through their time of need. I have a great deal of personal experience with enduring horrifying emotions that one goes through when dealing with anxiety, helplessness, hopelessness, depression, chronic pain, PTSD, and grief. If I'm online, please feel free to start to chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can setup a time to connect.
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Rebecca
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PLEASE NOTE: I am not accepting personal requests for 1-on-1 chats at this time, due to a busy and unpredictable schedule as well as for self-care reasons. If you need support, please find a listener to your liking here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]!   Hello! My name is Rebecca, I'm 24, and I'm glad you've found me here on 7 Cups! A bit about me, I'm an aspiring author, and in my spare time I like to read, learn new skills, and cheer on my favourite sports teams.  Disclaimer: For personal reasons, I don't take chats related to self-harm or eating disorders. In order to ensure that you receive the quality of care you deserve while also tending to my own mental health, I ask that you look for another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].
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Ines1229
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▼▼▼ PLEASE DO READ MY BIO BEFORE BOOKING CHATS WITH ME ▼▼▼ ________________________________________________________________________    «« Side note »»        「 I am more than happy to share own experiences if that would make you feel more comfortable, so please do not hesitate to ask me anything that you would like to know about myself. I'm an open book. 」◑ 📌 DISCLAIMER 📌: Please do not expect me to solve your issues nor don't you expect me to give you advice, as this is not what I am here for by any means. I will however help you reflect upon your own thoughts and brainstorm a few ideas that could help you to understand your chain of thoughts & get rid of all the confusion. Think of me as your personal thoughts organiser, rather than your adviser. ⌖⊶ ________________________________________________________________________                 «« What I DO provide support to & am experienced with »»              I provide support for the following categories ONLY, for the time being: Mood disorders (e.g. Bipolar, Depression), Personality Disorders (e.g. Borderline, Schizoid), Psychotic Disorders (e.g. Schizophrenia, Schizoaffective), Anxiety Disorders (e.g. Panic Disorders, GAD, Social Anxiety), Dissociative Disorders (DID, Depersonalization Disorder), Managing Emotions, Getting Unstuck & Confusion. ♡ ☼༄ ________________________________________________________________________             «« A bit about myself »»         My name is Ines. I am an artist and tour manager and I keep myself busy with travelling all around. I have dealt with quite a few mental disorders myself, including Bipolar, Borderline, GAD, and many others. I am into horse riding, song writing, ATVs, Psychology & Music in all of its forms and the idea of freedom is what keeps me afloat. ♫ ⇵ ➹ ________________________________________________________________________ ❛ I believe everyone deserves and needs 𝓈𝓊𝓅𝓅𝑜𝓇𝓉, so I am here and will try my best to help you guys deal with your darkest thoughts. Message me if you are down for a chat! ۵ ⚘ ❜ ________________________________________________________________________  «« IMPORTANT »» -> I’m uncomfortable talking about relationships, love and breakup.  -> I’m always up for authentic, philosophical talks. 
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YayyySphere
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*Not taking on new members at the moment due to time constraints and for personal reasons*  Hey I'm Sphere and I have finished my internship on 7 Cups. I'm a 19 year old who has just graduated from High School! :) I've been through a lot, and I specialize in Self-Harm chats, even though you're free to talk to me about anything else! :) I'll definitely try my best to help out. Feel free to start a chat with me if I'm online, or you can leave me a message if I'm offline or busy. I'll get back to you as soon as I'm available! :) Also feel free to drop me a message if you would just like a casual chat! ^.^   Main Involvements: ☞Quality Mentor Leader ☞Teen Quality Mentor ☞Group Support Quality Mentor ☞Support Room Mentor (Student Support) ☞Forum Mentor (Student Support Community)   Listening Strengths: ✦Anxiety ✦Depression ✦Managing Emotions ✦School Stress ✦Self-Harm ✦Social Anxiety   Shoutouts!ツ @221Skye [https://www.7cups.com/@221Skye]-The best messiest person ever who is really awesome at the same time! ◕‿◕ @BrilliantShoe [https://www.7cups.com/@brilliantshoe]-My fantastic friends whom I've known here on 7 Cups! :) Keep on being cool and awesome! ❤ @ [http://7cups.com/@arxxxh]ArwaS [http://7cups.com/@ArwaS]- Vulvy, thanks for being such an awesome friend, hehe I'm lucky to have such a friend like you! Stay amazing buddy ^_^
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glassmarble
L Explorer 9 357
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Hello! ~ I'm glad you found me (or that we were connected). I'm here to talk to you with whatever you're going through. Our conversation will be a safe place to share your feelings without being judged. I will always listen and try my best to be here for you and help you helping yourself. You're not alone! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Some things about myself: You can call me Tanja if you want to. I love to help others, and my friends say about me that I am calm, friendly and empathic. In my free time I like reading, writing stories and poems, singing and daydreaming. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Just message me if you want to talk and I'll try to answer as soon as I can. Take care!
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DipityEnigma
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I have a passion for counselling and I am striving for a career in this area of expertise. Confidentiality is first and foremost, and I hold boundaries with the same high regard. You are under no obligation to share information with me if it makes you uncomfortable. ------------------------- It is difficult for Listeners not to sound "like a robot" as we need to provide confidentiality not just for the individual, but also for ourselves. We must remain impartial and refrain from giving advice. Counselling is also known as "talking therapy" and we do exactly that. We help the individual come to their own conclusions and to do this, we must refrain from the possibility of leading the individual to an answer that may prove more harmful than helpful. So even though it may be (understandably) frustrating, it is more reliably effective than giving potentially harmful advice. It also helps the individual to maintain a level of independence by coming to their own conclusions without being lead to an answer. I hope this isn't a deterrent from looking for support from one of the Listeners available here as we have each individuals best interests in mind throughout each of our sessions.
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Emily619
L Marvel 14 2056
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This is a test, a test to see if you are a human. Please note if something applies to you: Have you ever eaten a booger long past your childhood? Have you ever made a small, weird sound when you remembered something embarrassing? Have you ever purposely lower-cased the first letter of a text to come across as sad or disappointed? Have you ever ended a text with a period as a sign of aggression? Have you ever laughed or smiled when someone said something unpleasant to you, and you wondered the rest of the day why you reacted that way? Have you ever put on a pair of pants, and then realized much later that there was a loose sock smushed up against your thigh? Have you ever tried to guess someone else's password so many times that it locked their account? Have you ever had a nagging feeling that one day you will be discovered as a fraud? Have you ever hoped that there was some ability you hadn't discovered yet that you were just naturally talented at? Have you ever broken something in real life, and then found yourself looking for an "undo" button in real life? Have you ever marveled at how someone you thought was so ordinary could suddenly become so beautiful? Have you ever stared at your phone, smiling like an idiot while texting someone? Have you ever subsequently texted that person the phrase, "I'm staring at the phone, smiling like an idiot"? Have you ever been tempted to, and gave into that temptation, of looking through someone else's phone? Have you ever had a conversation with yourself, and then suddenly realized you're a terrible person to yourself? Has your phone ever run out of battery in the middle of an argument, and it sort of felt like the phone was breaking up with both of you? Have you ever thought that working on an issue between you and yourself was futile, because it should just be more natural than this, or this is supposed to happen just naturally? Have you ever realized that very little, in the long run, just happens naturally? Have you ever woken up blissfully, and suddenly been flooded by the awful remembrance that someone had left you? Have you ever lost the ability to imagine a future without a person that no longer was in your life? Have you ever looked back on that event with the sad smile of autumn and the realization that futures will happen, regardless? Congratulations, you have now completed and passed the test. You are human. Want to know who has the best 7 Cups profile? Click here [http://7cups.com/11840748]!
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peacefulSoul8
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About Me Hello all☺️, I am a volunteer verified active listener on here. I have had lots of struggles throughout my life and understand mental health issues really well. I am a group mod so If you have any problems in the chatrooms don't hesitate to contact me. I am a peer supporter so if you have a difficult chat as a listener and need support don't hesitate to contact me. I am on the Milestone team and Secret Buddy Listeners Team and you will often find me in the forums. I am also in the Gaming Community,Social Soldiers Team on Twitter, Reddit,YPOC team and am often in some of the discussions which I enjoy,come join in by looking at the Community calendar. I am a teen quality mentor and a teen transitioning mentor, so teens if you need help with anything contact me:). I ca also verify listners and do mock chats. I am also now an adult quality mentor. I believe active listening is a vital resource lacking in our busy fast paced world these days and this site provides something unique and beautiful. If you are going through a hard time please don't give up and reach out to a listener on here or read the forums/blogs on this website. The self help guides are also excellent resources you can use. Don't hesitate to contact me on here, I look forward to hearing from you:). I am here for you because I care. Don't ever give up hope, keep moving forward step by step. I am a Christian and will provide Christian counseling also or spiritual counseling for different religions. Projects I am Involved In Gaming Outreach Community Group Mod Peer Support Teen Quality and Teen Transitioning mentor Adult Quality Mentor S.W.A.T team Secret Listener Buddies Team Social Soldiers (Twitter and Reddit Team) Forum Supporter (Grief and loss community and Chronic Illness Community and Domestic Violence community) Quotes "Fall seven times and stand up eight." -Japanese Proverb "Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference." –Robert Frost "I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." –Michael Jordan "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." –Martin Luther King Jr. "An unexamined life is not worth living." –Socrates "Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living     someone else’s life." –Steve Jobs
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viictoriia
L Scholar 4 341
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thank you for being brave enough to come on here and look for help. you've come this far and i know you can get through this to go even further! hello! my name is victoria. i first joined 7cups as a listener 6 years ago — since then, i've graduated high school, moved continents alone, and am currently in my 4th year studying psychology in university. i am so excited to rejoin this community and am always more than happy to lend a listening ear! in the past, i have struggled with depression and anxiety, but am proud to say that things have truly gotten so much better and everything was worth it. i hope to help you on your journey to better days too :) i appreciate you stopping by. if there's anything you need to get off your chest, please don't hesitate to send a message, and i'll get back to you as soon as i can <3 **currently not accepting chats related to sexual health** 
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