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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

EvelyneRose
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Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
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InternalAcceptance
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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amazingNutella24
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Retired Ambassador Sorry, I'm currently not able to take any chat requests from members. Please feel free to connect to the other amazing listeners on this platform, please find one here! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]   💜         Hey hey, everyone 💜 I'm Nutella (Or Nuts, Catella, Nute, Ella, Nutty, Amazing - Courtesy of our creative community, haha! And literally anything you'd like to call me). I'm a Chatroom Ambassador on 7Cups! Here are the Projects I'm involved with as a Chatroom Ambassador. Feel free to message me if you have any queries 💜   1. Listener Sharing Circle (LSC) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/HostsWantedForListenerSharingCircle_257571/] 2. Listener Check-In (LCI) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerCheckIns_1272/HostsWantedForListenerCheckins_250689/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerCheckIns_1272/HostsWantedForListenerCheckins_250689/] 3. Listener Events Team (LET) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ListenerEventsTeamComeJoinUs_260289/] 4. Listener Learning Discussions Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/ListenerLearningDiscussionsTeamRecruitment2021_222848/]  5. Listener Chatroom Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdS4uNP9soxCNNvOSAAQV4kz4mzaf5CPXqXT1yIgsNFyVdkDQ/viewform] 6. Chatroom Mentor [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc0BVb_I0BnjwfpKw0tOcB4_q7ST8x2ACGkfnQqgNEam34qxg/viewform] 7. Chatroom Mentor Leader [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfaX5Kxr13VYpbGtWbNItePUMt1nx9SAPC57J0szbhVG1naUg/viewform] 8. Chat Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ChatSupport_101/ChatSupporttrainingisnowCompulsoryforMentorsofAllTracks_268257/] 9. Listener Powered Discussions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/AllAbouttheListenerPoweredCommunityDiscussions_270095/] Here are a few more projects I'm a part of 💜 1. Quality Mentor 2. Safety Patrol Team 3. Safety Patrol Outreach Team 4. Peer Supporter 5. Doorkeeper 6. Forum Key 7. Listener Verifier Team A bit about me! I study medicine and I love reading and writing. Oh and I'm very passionate about genetics and genomics. Please note that I'm unable to provide any advice, medical or otherwise 💜         Due to the huge influx of private messages, I sometimes miss out on a few, my apologies. So please don’t hesitate to drop me another message if I haven't replied 💜           Just a quote I love and relate to - “In your books, I have flung myself into the bottomless pit, performed miracles, slain, burned towns, preached new religions, conquered whole kingdoms” ― Anton Chekhov, The Bet             I'm always a PM away for absolutely anything! Good day 💜
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SirenSymphony21
L Maven 6 1175
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On a self care break
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Ranaeil
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Hello, thank you for finding me on 7 cups! You can call me Rana, if that's easier! I'm a female in my mid 30s. I know how tough it can be to want to talk to someone about what you are feeling. I will try my best to listen to whatever problems you may be having, but my listening strengths are in general anxiety, social anxiety, grief, and disabilities. I've also dealt with self esteem issues. I can't guarantee solutions, only a shoulder to lean on when you need it and open ears to hear you out. Topics that I do not talk about: •Pregnancy •Childcare If my status is set to offline, please feel free to leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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GoldenRuleJG
L Pinnacle 6 6125
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FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php] Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *1 hr duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️
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Listeningsarinn
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7cups availability: no longer available for new support chats on 7cups, if we have talked before you are welcome to send me a text please use browse listeners page if you need support, there are many awesome listeners available 💙 ------------------------- To My teenie friends🥺 if you want to leave me a message you can reach me by tagging me on forums you are missed ------------------------- Hey, I'm Sarinn and I'm here for you, this chat page is a safe place, A place, where you won’t be judged  and you have nothing to be ashamed of, I'm already proud of you and sending you my love ------------------------- What are some reasons you can text me for? if you are a member you can text me to share about anything that is making you struggle,  busying your mind or feeling heavy on you, you aren't alone, we can talk and face it all together if you are a listener You can reach out to me for chat support (help handling a hard chat) or if you need help figuring anything out on cups As a trained mentor, I can help you with Chat situations, mock chats, figuring out sub-communities, leadership roles or finding resources and regardless of if you are a member or listener you can always text me for random hugs you can spam me with song recommendation which I'll love or to casually chat and get to know each other and have a fun time ------------------------- you can expect me to reply right away only ~if my status shows online/green ~if i was in a room and you are messaging after asking me if you could pm me ~if we have scheduled the date and time to chat together otherwise, please keep in mind that I'll take up to 72 hours to reply ------------------------- there are 3 things that I tend to do 1. I call my friends "love" both in real life and here 2. I am a hug person, I love hugs and I might send you virtual hugs 3. I might leave you random texts and check in sometimes if any of these, or anything else in the chat, makes you uncomfortable, or if there are triggers that I need to avoid, let me know and I'll be careful not to repeat ------------------------- ~lgbtq+ Ally~ ------------------------- some people i miss badly on cups *~* @kimmkimm (miss you awesomeness) @ruby2468 (I can’t think of a way to reach you rn, but I’m thinking of you, missing you and hoping you are doing okie) @brokentearss (miss you lampshade, and will never forget you) @ALeXaNdEr0712 (you are missed, and on my mind at random times) @tazzie (rest in peace taz) @tallwalker4850 @serenn @bluewalker8200 @exuberantplane4067 @swiftygirl13 @ri337 @jaja25 ------------------------- reminders~ your feelings are real, and you have every right to feel them, to speak them but just remember that you won't always feel the same way trying your best is enough and it's all you ever gotta do you are a human, and as a human, you have the right to make mistakes  your choices, thoughts, feeling and actions, make sense in the bigger picture of your life, and by a big chance anyone else, exactly in your shoes would do the same  and always remember; love yourself: speak yourself  'cause "life gets hard and it gets messed up when you give so much but it's not enough when the high's too high and the low's too low  ....  don't you let it kill you,  even when it hurts like hell oh whatever tears you apart,    don't let it break your heart"    sometimes, it can feel so heavy, to be a human to feel, to get thru daily life,  sometimes, it feels so lonely to be who you are, sometimes, mind gets cruel, too much thoughts and memories,  when you really just want it to stop, to go silent and to give you a rest sometimes, it's panic, other times, sadness anger, exhaustion, frustration sometimes, it is too much to process, other times, numbness and regardless of what it is, how big or small you don't have to face it alone by a big chance, i can't solve the problem, but hey, dark places are much less scary when not alone sharing, talking and feeling understood can help you feel much more ready to face, get thru and sometimes, solve the problems 
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crystalclearnow
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Hello,  We can connect and talk. I would love to Listen. Currently, I am not taking too many requests due to a busy schedule as a Counselling student. A little bit about me- I have completed my studies in Psychology and Management. I am passionate and read incessantly about Human Mind and Behaviour. My leadership role- Chatroom Moderator. I believe in connecting with people and listening during difficult times. This can sometimes empower and give you the ability to better cope in a difficult situation.  This quote resonated with me:  At The End Of The Day.  All You Need Is Hope And Strength,  Hope That It will Get Better, And Strength To  Hold On Until It Does”.   I will not accept offensive and provocative chats. Have a good day!     
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Amy
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Hi! I'm Amy!  💭 It's not always easy to talk about ourselves, our problems, or our views, we never know how others might react to it. It's not easy to feel at ease when opening up to a stranger or finding someone you feel comfortable with. I can't promise to be the right listener for you, I can't promise a fix to your problems, feelings, and thoughts. I can't promise an answer to every question there is, but I can offer a friendly ear to talk to and share your story. We all have a story, we all express our feelings in different ways, and we all react to things differently. No problem is small, if it affects you, you have every right to talk about it and feel the way you feel. You have every right to share it with someone and it's what I am here for - to listen. I hope to be a safe space for you to open up and share your story. ☑️ Teen pregnancy/ Teen parenting friendly! Any related issues you can discuss with me, I won't judge and I might even understand it more than you think. 🕠 I'm online at least once a day, so if I'm offline, you can leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. If I'm online, message me away and we can chat. If you would like to schedule a chat with me, you can simply message me and we will work out the best time that works for both of us! Thank you for reaching out to me! 💜
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sophiasanae
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Hello there! Welcome to my profile. My name is Sophia (she/her) and I'm a verified adult-teen listener from the United States. As a listener, it is my role to provide a safe space for you to feel heard and validated. I know it can be difficult to talk to someone, but I will never judge you for anything you share with me. I'm so proud of you for taking the first step to reach out to someone! You deserve respect, empathy, and kindness and I'm here to support you to the best of my ability. Feel free to send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Time Zone: PST (Pacific Standard Time) Please note that I do not take chats on sexual health, self-harm, and eating disorders. I specialize in topics relating to social anxiety, self-esteem, and SA. Roles and Qualifications (Former/Current):  Verified Listener - I have been verified by my community on 7 Cups as a high-quality listener. Safety Patrol Member - I help keep 7 Cups safe by flagging inappropriate content. Let me know if you see a profile that needs flagging! Teen Quality Star - Mentor. 7 Cups Intern Graduate - I graduated from the 7 Cups Internship program September 2020 with honors.  QLP Graduate - I graduated from the Quality Listening Program July 2021 with honors. CDM Graduate - I graduated from the Content Development and Marketing Program in September of 2021. Support Team Teen Star - I lead the Group Support Team for TOZ. Please message me if you have any teen discussion-related questions or are interested in becoming a discussion leader or script-writer/editor. (Team currently on hiatus). Doorkeeper - I can open/close group chat rooms. Message me if you need help opening/closing a room! Forum Supporter - I write and edit posts for the Group Support Team in the TOZ forum space. Chatroom Moderator - I assisted in the Teen Listeners room. Growth Path Author - I created a growth path called Sophia's Daily Steps for Positive Focus which you can view HERE [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/sophia-s-daily-steps-for-positive-focus/].  Listener Shoutouts: Thank you to all the listeners who have had a huge impact on me and have helped me on my 7Cups journey: @hopedreamlove [https://www.7cups.com/@hopedreamlove] @TheAtticusFinch [https://www.7cups.com/@TheAtticusFinch] @SophieWX [https://www.7cups.com/error/pausedAccount.php] @LoveLilly [https://www.7cups.com/@LoveLilly] @enchantedlove @EmmaE 
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Izzy274
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Hi, I’m Izzy. I used to be very active on 7 Cups a couple years ago, and helped out in many different leadership positions, hence the large number of badges you can see on my profile. I am no longer in these positions, please reach out to a current mentor if you are a listener seeking support 💕. I’m rejoining 7 cups because I want to be able to make a difference. Over the past few years I’ve learned a lot about mental health through my own personal struggles, and I know the power that having someone to listen to you holds. I’m not here to solve your problems. That’s almost certainly something I cannot do. But if you’d like to chat something through, bounce ideas off a buddy or simply get something off your chest, feel free to shoot me a message. I am happy to talk about most topics aside from those sexual in nature. I have most lived experience with: eating disorders, anxiety, social anxiety and depression. I am also autistic and asexual so am happy to support neurodivergent individuals and those who are part of the LGBTQ+ community :).
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hopefulBlossom12
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With love to life!  I am here to help in any way I can.
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