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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

peacefulBubbles40
L Virtuoso 12 3234
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   Please book me here:                                              “Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.” ~Oprah Winfrey “Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you! Shout loud, ‘I am lucky to be what I am!...’”  ~Dr. Seuss “You can be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you, but if you yourself don't know it, all of that doesn't even matter. Every second that you spend on doubting your worth, every moment that you use to criticize yourself; is a second of your life wasted, is a moment of your life thrown away. It's not like you have forever, so don't waste any of your seconds, don't throw even one of your moments away.” “The person in life that you will always be with the most, is yourself. Because even when you are with others, you are still with yourself, too! When you wake up in the morning, you are with yourself, laying in bed at night you are with yourself, walking down the street in the sunlight you are with yourself. What kind of person do you want to walk down the street with? What kind of person do you want to wake up in the morning with? What kind of person do you want to see at the end of the day before you fall asleep? Because that person is yourself, and it's your responsibility to be that person you want to be with. I know I want to spend my life with a person who knows how to let things go, who's not full of hate, who's able to smile and be carefree. So that's who I have to be.” The Crimson Winter ~PB The soft flakes that bow down Onto the shoulder that humbly awaits And the eyes that cease to see the light The ears that could never hear its shin shin Still- The snow so pristinely white, adorned in its crimson shade falls onto all The cold and the warmth jiggles down, like the Christmas jingle bells! The tweeting light illuminating even the brightest eyes of Keller. The hands that talk in braille, and dancing fingers painting fragile emotions- The winter brings us together, its virgin tranquility binding us all! Lethal the cold, as many say, and the penetrating darkness that follows. Humanly clan so insanely divided the crimsoned snow versus the massacre’s blood. Still- The snow so unified All from heaven fall onto the Earth erasing the enigma that eclipses love. The snowy bed onto which every finger Like the dancing flames in ecstasy! Summer noon is a spirited spirit, Why is winter the malice’s wonderland? Summer that diffuse us out from home, Winter’s warmth calls thee home! The chained hands around the Christmas tree, Makes winter the Crimson’s abode! [https://peacefulbubbles40-6.youcanbook.me/]
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beyoutofullkalon
L Expert 6 899
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Hi, my name's Kalon- It means beauty more than skin deep. My pronouns are she/her. To whoever is reading this, you are beautiful inside and out. My goal here is to help you be you to full. (Might be a lame Pun but  100% intended) So do message me if you just want to talk too!  (strictly limited to members only, apologies fellow listeners) The green dot next to my profile pic signifies that I am free to talk! Red(offline)- I am offline and not replying. However you can still drop messages and I will get back to you later. Response time 24 hours Green(online)- I am online, free and open to your chat requests... Orange(Busy)- I am here but I already am talking to too many people here or busy somewhere on 7cups so I am unable to give you the attention you deserve. I recommend you to look for another listener by clicking here...there a lot of great people here who want to help you. Response time 48 hours.  Sending you all the positive vibes in the universe! ❤️ Remember- you are part of this universe too, so believe in yourself! 
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YourCaringConfidant
L Master 325
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❤️•🧡•💛•💚•💙•💜•💗 𝓗𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓸 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮, 𝓘'𝓶 𝓓𝓮𝓼𝓲𝓻𝓮𝓮! Hello there! I'm Desiree. I'm so glad you found me on 7 Cups and selected me as your listener. I honestly suffer from my own share of mental health issues. However, despite my diagnoses, it has taken me a long time to realize that I am not those labels nor do they define me. I would love to support you by lending a listening ear. If you see my status as available, you are welcome to send me a message so we can connect. If my status is set to offline, then please respect that I am not available to offer support at the moment. I do not support any one member for a long period of time, as I believe there needs to be established boundaries. I tend to frequent the forums as there is where I meet so many wonderful members and listeners. Don't ever hesitate to drop me a line and say hi if you see me about.  ── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ 7 Cups Academy Graduate ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ── Internship w/ Honors  Leadership Development Program Content Development & Marketing Inner Development Goals ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ 🅼🆈 🅰🅼🅰🆉🅸🅽🅶 🆃🆆🅸🅽🆂 🅰🆁🅴: ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅸🅿🅷🅾🅴🅽🅸🆇 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅰🅽🅽🅰🆂🅸🅻🆅🅴🆁🅱🅴🆁🅶 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅹🅰🆂🅼🅸🅽🅴🅸🆂🅷🅴🆁🅴4🆄 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· 💜XOXO💜 ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ 🅼🆈 ♊ 🆃🆆🅸🅽 🅸🆂: ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅱🅻🅸🆂🆂🅵🆄🅻🅱🆄🅴 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.·
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CheeryMango
L Exemplar 1896
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Welcome to my bio!  Please note that my response time is within 3 days.  Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.  Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now. Please connect to our listeners here!  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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ArcadianSage
L Maven 9 1654
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**My response time will be delayed- around 24-72 hours or potentially more, however, I will get back to you the minute I can. **Please note I am currently not taking new member chats. If you see me online in a group you are free to ask if you would like to talk in PM's and I will let you know if I am available. This does not apply if I have offered you to PM me.  __________ Hello, you can call me Sage (: I'm here to support you and to provide a non-judgemental and empathetic environment where you feel heard and validated. I'm here for you, and I hope to be able to help you through your struggles. Please note I only take support chats for 30-60 minutes at a time.  I do not offer advice. This is because I will never really know your full situation and as it can be harmful, however, I'm happy to talk through things with you and brainstorm ideas together. I'm here to help you find a path and guide you down it; not draw out that path for you and make you walk it.  My listening style tends to be waiting for you to finish sharing and then typing out a lengthier response. If you do not like this or find that it doesn't work for you, please let me know. I am here to help you as best I can, and that means you not compromising for my ease. I am happy to adapt/adjust my style to something you would like better. If you would prefer someone different to be your listener, feel free to browse listeners over here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. This is a safe space, and I am here for you. __________ My roles here: * Verified listener * Care Team Guide * PA for Anonymous Evaluations * Teen Quality Star * Safety Patrol * Peer Support * Chat Support * Listener Verifying Team __________ Topics I feel comfortable taking a chat on: Depression, anxiety, eating disorders, PSTD/trauma, grief, self harm, student life, family stress, DV I will offer support and take chats no matter your religion/ethnicity/spirituality/beliefs, however, I do not take casual chats or sexual chats. I do not have any experience in the topics listed below, and therefore do not feel comfortable taking chats on them. If you need more support on one of these topics, please browse listeners for someone who can better support you.  Sexual health, men's issues, weight management, relationships, DID, LGBTQ+ issues, active self harm or crisis chats. 7 cups is not a crisis resource, and we are not trained to offer support during those moments. Go to https://www.7cups.com/crisis/ for country specific crisis resources. __________ Resources: - Find a Helpline [https://findahelpline.com/] - International Hotlines [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines] __________ I'm glad you're here, and I'm proud of you for reaching out. 💚
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Masterhealer
L Epitome 7 5811
4.5 star rating
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Verified Listener. I have gone through Long Distance Relationship (LDR), breakup and loss of loved ones. മലയാളി. 
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HopieRemi
L Epitome 19 5353
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  I am a Listener Coach and Chat Support. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I have limited availability therefore I am not around for 1-1 chats. I support users in group chats and the forums. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. The only exception is chat referrals so If you have been specifically sent to me, feel free to PM me. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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CaringEzra
L Pinnacle 4 6964
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EmotionsListener
L Epitome 12 10723
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***Please note: I am not currently available for 1-on-1 support chats. With my roles as a community mentor leader, group support mentor, and chatroom moderator I will be focusing my efforts primarily on community teams, forums and group support activities.*** It's not a community without 'u'! About me: Others have described me as an empathetic individual who strives to be objective, motivational, and empowering. I do firmly believe that if you challenge yourself to look at a situation from a different angle you will see options you have overlooked, and that sometimes even unpalatable solutions need to be seen for what they are, possible solutions. I aim to offer a respectful and non-judgmental ear, keeping in mind that my personal values and beliefs are just that: Mine and need only apply to me/my life.  I am a member of the LGBTQ+ community, some of the labels I use, or have used, to describe(not define) myself include but are not limited to, lesbian, homoromantic asexual and demiromantic. While I am open to and accepting of all members of the LGBTQ+ community, I feel my personal experience makes me most suited to supporting those who relate to or don similar labels. Now entering my 40's I have had experiences with a variety of issues from early childhood to present. I have found this can enhance my natural ability to empathize while still offering alternate perspectives. I primarily provide support for and am most comfortable with topics I have indicated in my profile. There are certain topics that I do not take chats involving, namely drugs, alcohol, detailed discussion of sexual topics, or any which contravene the rules of 7 Cups. "No matter what we have come through, or how many perils we have safely passed, or how imperfect and jagged our life has been, we cannot in our heart of hearts imagine how it could have been different. As we look back on it, it slips in behind us in orderly disarray, and, with all its mistakes, acquires a sort of eternal fitness, and even, at times, a poetic glamour." – Randolph Silliman Bourne
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azuladragon34
L Sage 12 573
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I do NOT take chats regarding sexual issues Hello!!!. I am azuladragon34 and I am a listener here on 7cups. I am willing to lend a kind and non judgemental ear to anyone who needs to talk. My chatting duration is 30 minutes ONLY  I am taking MINIMAL chats. I want to focus on my roles here  I maybe offline, busy or online. Most of the time I am offline or busy Offline: I am not going to take member chats. My circle is red Busy: I will take chats in my own time. My circle is orange Online: I am willing to take chats. My circle is green   My discussion days are as follows: Roles here on 7cups Adult Teen Listener Verifier Listener Team member Doorkeeper LDP Mentor Internship Mentor Chat Supporter (Teen and Adult) Chatroom Mentor (Teen and Adults) Quality Mentor: Adults and Teens
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Bunnylovesyou
L Guru 1 1992
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My profile picture was picked by @lovemymoonflowers! it just took me so long to get it up here!  shout out to @KateDoskocilova , my boss aha  Greetings Weary Traveler! I am so happy you stumbled upon my little page <3 I am proud of you for how far you’ve come. Why don’t you rest for a while, I am sure you need it? *offers blankets and a drink* Since you are here, why don’t we get to know each other a bit.  I am Bunny. I began my Listener journey over a year ago. I’m 16 years old, I am Homeschooled but in 10th grade (Year 11, Sophomore). I use He/They pronouns, but I know some of my members don’t feel comfortable with a male listener so I will say I am AFAB (assigned female at birth) My favorite color is Yellow. I don’t like making my bed because I like to sleep inside the blob. When I am not on 7cups, I am reading, crocheting, painting, or playing my clarinet! What about you? What is your name? Pronouns? I want to get to know you, hear about your life, the good, the bad, and the hairy. I mean scary xD.  What kind of chats do I offer? =>Support Chats on allowed Topics  =>Lighthearted Chats, for some comfort or a friend =>Book recommendation/ramble chats =>Chats with Age-regressed members  =>Jeffy chats  So you are probably wondering what all of those chats mean. Well let me break it down:  Support Chats on Allowed Topics: I do not take chats on Men’s Issues, Weight Loss, Exercise Motivation, or Cancer, due to personal triggers. I have lived experience in : Abuse, Adhd, Anxiety, Abandonment issues, Breakups, Bullying, Chronic Pain/illness, Depression, Disabilities, Dissociative Disorders, Dysphoria, Eating Disorders, Family Stress, Financial Stress, Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, LGBTQ+ Issues, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Panic Attacks, PTSD, Recovery, Relationship Stress, Self-esteem, Self Harm, Sleeping Well, Social Anxiety, Spirtuality, and Student Life. I do take chats on other topics, just not the ones in red.  Please Note that while I take chats on Sexual Health, I do not wish to be asked on advice for self-pleasure, and or talk about that, as it is a personal trigger for me. I hope you understand<3 While I take chats on spirituality, Please don't ask about my religion. I am an Atheist, who believes everyone can make their own choices, and I support Religion.  Lighthearted Chats:  I take lighthearted chats! Want a friend? Want a cookie? Want to just talk to someone? I am your pal <3 Just note I prioritize the support chats <3 Book Recommendations/Ramble Chats-  Need help figuring out what to read next? Read an amazing book you want to tell someone about? Do you want to just ramble about how your favorite character ever did something so mind exploding you can't handle it? I am here! I would love to listen to your favorite genres and favorite books and offer some recommendations, or just to talk about books!  Jeffy Chats- Message me ‘Jeffy Pic’ for a picture of my rabbit Jeffery!  My mental health journey:  Many members ask me about my journey, and what led me here. So I will share a little bit here. I live in a mentally abusive house. I have various health issues, which cause me to be in constant unbearable pain. I am hoping to have surgery this summer to help. I also have problems regulating my blood sugar, so it will drop randomly, which might cause me to have to leave our chat, I don’t want you to have an unconscious listener xD. I was in a sexually abusive relationship for 8 months last year, and I am recovering from anorexia. Rules for my chats/Things to keep in mind:  =>Swearing is okay, please don’t cuss me out  =>I allow age-regressing, but please try to make the messages comprehensible  =>Please don’t just say ‘Hello’, let me know what you'd like to talk about  =>I have PTSD, so if I randomly ask you to refer to another listener, it is because i am triggered. I want you to get the best care possible <3 =>Please don’t send messages in all caps <3 Roles on 7cups (past, current, and on break) =>Verified Listener (current) =>Newbie Hub Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Forum Supporter (On-break) =>LGBTQ Mod (on-break) =>LGBTQ Forum Supporter (on-break) =>Door Keeper (current) =>Anxiety Chat Host (past) =>PAT Smile Spreader (past, although i may come back) =>Safety Patrol (current) =>LRS (past) =>Peer Support (current) Thank you for reading my bio, you amazing lovely wonderful person, and I hope to hear from you soon <3
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VintageLatika
L Epitome 17 12197
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My achievement is not what I have.My introduction is not what I do.It is but "who I am." I am a Happy Soul , who loves to love love and love to spread love and hope. According to me, “Love is the panacea for all our ailments. Love heals, binds us and conquers all.” I believe I was put on this Earth to guide disheartened people back to love and light. If you have any issues related to relationship,loneliness and breakups,please don’t hesitate to contact me. I will be happy and grateful to offer you help and support. I assure you that “You will be heard. You will be understood and you will be made to realize that change is possible.” I want to help you to brighten up the dark spots,and will for sure hold the hope for you until you believe again.   [http://google.com]Few Don’ts [https://google.co.in] 1. I will not be taking any other issues besides bullying,getting unstuck,breakups,relationship stress and self-esteem. 2. Please don’t copy paste your life stories. It blocks my eyes. 3. Please avoid issues of sexual nature. 4. I have zero tolerance for rude or disrespectful behaviour. I hope I am able to help you to come back to normal life. Smiles and Love                                                                                                                                 
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