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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

SoothingHope
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Hi. Im Traci. A Verified listener. Im here to listen to you, but that does not mean i have all the solutions to your 'problems', as im a not a 'listener' by profession. "The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to ocercome, to eendure, to transform, to love and to be greater than our suffering". I hope u do feel better after talking to me.                  
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RandomAravyre
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Here to talk to and listen to everyone! Feel free to talk to me if there's something on your mind :)
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fruityPond7887
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Hello! My name is Fruity or Pond or FruityPond!! 😉 I'm so glad you're here! 🌈 (Yes, I finally have a bio) My Schedule:  Wednesday: 3:00 - 5:00 pm ET Sunday: 7:00 - 9:00 pm ET 
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FrenchToast
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Please note that I am no longer an active ambassador. Hello everyone, I'm Toast! Welcome to 7 Cups and my profile :) I try my best to contribute positively to the community. Unfortunately, at this time, I do not have the time to take up regular member chats. I do have some occasional times that I might be able to, but my status will be green at that time and I only take one-off chats so if you are looking for long-term support, please reach out to another listener. I also only do 60-minute-long chats. But otherwise, my other life commitments restrict me from responding in a timely manner. Please look at my profile for topics I am and I am not comfortable with. That being said, my PMs are always open! I will get back to you as soon as I can, please bear with me on my response time. Feel free to always resend a message if need be! ------------------------- {the undercurrent pulls my body it sweeps pulling my out its anger it keeps the undercurrent draws a turbulent tempt it tumbles my heart with vehement intent the undercurrent rages But I'm sturdy and strong adept in the water for that's where I belong the undercurrent subsides I'm floating serene my eyes see the sun I still live, I still dream -Eileen Manassian, "The deleted poems". } ------------------------- "Our wounds are often the openings into the best and the most beautiful part of us." -David Richo
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Ines1229
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▼▼▼ PLEASE DO READ MY BIO BEFORE BOOKING CHATS WITH ME ▼▼▼ ________________________________________________________________________    «« Side note »»        「 I am more than happy to share own experiences if that would make you feel more comfortable, so please do not hesitate to ask me anything that you would like to know about myself. I'm an open book. 」◑ 📌 DISCLAIMER 📌: Please do not expect me to solve your issues nor don't you expect me to give you advice, as this is not what I am here for by any means. I will however help you reflect upon your own thoughts and brainstorm a few ideas that could help you to understand your chain of thoughts & get rid of all the confusion. Think of me as your personal thoughts organiser, rather than your adviser. ⌖⊶ ________________________________________________________________________                 «« What I DO provide support to & am experienced with »»              I provide support for the following categories ONLY, for the time being: Mood disorders (e.g. Bipolar, Depression), Personality Disorders (e.g. Borderline, Schizoid), Psychotic Disorders (e.g. Schizophrenia, Schizoaffective), Anxiety Disorders (e.g. Panic Disorders, GAD, Social Anxiety), Dissociative Disorders (DID, Depersonalization Disorder), Managing Emotions, Getting Unstuck & Confusion. ♡ ☼༄ ________________________________________________________________________             «« A bit about myself »»         My name is Ines. I am an artist and tour manager and I keep myself busy with travelling all around. I have dealt with quite a few mental disorders myself, including Bipolar, Borderline, GAD, and many others. I am into horse riding, song writing, ATVs, Psychology & Music in all of its forms and the idea of freedom is what keeps me afloat. ♫ ⇵ ➹ ________________________________________________________________________ ❛ I believe everyone deserves and needs 𝓈𝓊𝓅𝓅𝑜𝓇𝓉, so I am here and will try my best to help you guys deal with your darkest thoughts. Message me if you are down for a chat! ۵ ⚘ ❜ ________________________________________________________________________  «« IMPORTANT »» -> I’m uncomfortable talking about relationships, love and breakup.  -> I’m always up for authentic, philosophical talks. 
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Textingpals
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When you can't look on the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark.  - Hatter; Alice in Wonderland. ✨✨✨✨✨ Hello, this is Pals aka Tex, Rabbelion, Bun-bun, deformed Chihuahua, Paul, etc (feel free to give me a name, if you wish). Firstly, for the uninitiated, I am the "bunny" of 7 cups (on public demand) xD I am pretty chill and relaxed so, by all means, approach me regarding anything, a member 1-to-1 chat, a listener 1-to-1 chat, some queries you might have, etc. I love hanging out in rooms and meeting/talking to different people, so just drop me a PM (private message) anytime you want to have a non-serious, fun discussion, I won't mind.  My roles include: this para is kinda tedious, full of roles and monotonous stuff, hence skip it if you want to. 1. Verified Listener: you can find a 'Purple' tick mark beside my username and a 'Verified Listener' badge in my profile confirming it.   2. Safety Patrol member: you can check the same by the 'Safety Patrol' badge in my profile which lets me flag any inappropriate profiles. Please, do let me know if you spot anyone who you feel might hamper the safety and security of the site with an inappropriate profile/username or bio.  3. Sharing Circle buddy: as a former Sharing Circle host, I help new Sharing Circle hosts in conducting a smooth session as a 'Sharing Circle buddy'.  4. Listener Verifier: please confirm the same by finding a 'Listener Verifier Team' badge on my profile.  5. Safety Patrol Outreach Team member: I am part of this wonderfully constructed team of SPOT which allows me to conduct Safety Patrol training sessions.  6. Translator: 'Translator' badge on profile confirms the same.  7. Sharing Circle host: I am a Sharing Circle host as well; confirmed by the 'Sharing Circle' badge on my profile. However, currently, not hosting any Sharing Circle.  8. Safety Awareness team member: confirmed by the 'Safety Support' badge on my profile.  9. Adult Teen Listener Team: confirmed by the 'ATL' badge on my profile. 10. Team Lightship Member: also called Social Soldiers. My Achievements include: 1. 7 Cups Intern Graduate: I am proudly a 7 cups intern graduate with Honors.  2. Training guides completion: I have completed all the self-training guides, some of which are 'depression', 'Bipolar', 'Anxiety' etc, with sheer dedication.  3. Completion of Peer training guides: along with completing self-training guides, I am elevated to inform you that I have completed all the peer training guides, from one to twelve.  (Note: this doesn't make me a Peer Supporter) 4. Tulip badge: I am a 'Tulip badge' holder, if the one who recommended me for the same is reading this, then please know that I can never thank you enough.  5. Completion of AL tests: I am delighted to announce that I have all four AL completion badges, 'Graduate', 'Master', 'Scholar' and 'Rocket listener', which confirms that I have successfully completed all four Active Listening Tests, one, two, three, four, respectively.  6. Multiple Academy trainee: Currently, I am a trainee/soon-to-be-a-graduate for the following programs: (i) LDP (ii)GLDP (iii)CDM (iv)QL Before I proceed, let me tell you that I did not list the roles and achievements because I wanted to flaunt them or make myself feel important. That's not why they exist, at least not the roles. I am not a fan of listing them as well.  I did this simply because I have a poor memory so listing these in my bio will help me keep a track of it. Additionally, by listing them I wanted to let you know that anyone in search of information regarding any of the above-mentioned roles/achievements can PM me, I would be glad to help you solve your queries on the same or provide you with any information I have.  Which reminds me, I want to address a topic I have been meaning to speak about (I will try to keep it short, I promise): Your roles/achievements don't define your 'status', 'respect', or 'position' in this community. I request you to never ever sign up for a role if you aren't interested or just want to feel 'important' in this community. You are important. Every single person in this community matters and is equally significant. You don't need to sign up for roles to prove it to yourself or to someone else. We all, together, make this community a better place, and your roles/achievements/chats/cheers don't matter.          If you are really passionate about a team or want to join it because you are genuinely interested in it, then unquestionably join it. But please, please don't ever expose yourself to burnout/compromise your mental health or sign up for a larger number of roles than you can handle just to list it down in your profile or to seem more important.         I don't mean offense to anyone. I respect people who work passionately on different levels just to keep this site working, I really do respect and appreciate their efforts.  Again: you matter, you are a salient part of this site. Every single one of you.  Few lines I read somewhere which I absolutely love: "Even if you are not noticed, you are still valid.  Even if there is no one to read it, you should still write it.   Even if there is no one to hear it, you should still say it.   Even if there is no one to see it, you should still do it.   You are not measured by how people react to you." Lastly, a special mention of someone who has tagged me in their profile: @leafycup: thank you for mentioning me in your cute little bio, Leafyyy :p (P.S: for those who remember it, yes, my self-care has come to an end and I am back, to attack you guys with cookies and my nomming sessions xD)  
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kindLemonade
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I am not taking on any new member chat. Please find other listeners >here< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Due to commitments offline, I am unable to support you as much as I wish to. I am currently working full-time, so it's difficult to find time to give you the best of me, as a listener. Thank you for reading. Progress Not Perfection  When life gives you Lemonade, practice mindfulness ‣Free Mindfulness Exercises > [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]HERE [https://www.7cups.com/exercises/mindfulness/]< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] What are your favorite self-care activities?  TWINNIE ‣ 🐺 [https://emojipedia.org/emoji/%F0%9F%90%BA/] Wolfie Twinnie: @DigitalKnight ‣ 🎶 Events Twinnie: @Star996  ‣ ❤️ [https://emojipedia.org/red-heart/#:~:text=A%20classic%20red%20love%20heart,other%20for%20two%20consecutive%20weeks.] Room Supporter Twinnie: @MilaTheListener ‣ 👽 Alien Twinnie: @mentalspace7cup [https://www.7cups.com/@mentalspace7cup]   ‣ 🎨 Multipotentialite [http://www.ted.com/talks/emilie_wapnick_why_some_of_us_don_t_have_one_true_calling?language=en#t-181079] Twinnie:  @AriadneLove (she made my profile picture!) ‣ 👭🏼 Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/PeerSupport_397/UpcomingPeerSupportTrainingDiscussions_253073/]Twinnie: @unique73 ‣💅 Self-care & Higs Twinnie: @jovialButterfly6752 MY PAST ROLES  I am a verified listener, mentor, and global forum supporter on 7cups ACADEMY ‣Academy Mentor for CDM (Content Development & Marketing) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ContentVolunteerTeam_198/ContentDevelopmentandMarketingProgramCDM_2192/] & GLDD ‣Graduate for GLDD, LDP & Internship, QLP & CDM (with honors)  ‣Project agent for LDP SUB-COMMUNITY ‣Co-Support Team Leader for Healthy Living ‣Chatroom Moderator for Healthy Living, Positivity & Gratitude, Mindfulness Center OTHERS ‣Peer Supporter ‣Listener Chatroom Supporter ‣Doorkeeper ‣Discussion Host for Listener Discussion, Peer Support Discussion, ALE sessions, Pop-up events, Past: LCI, LSC, SC ‣Others: Team Lightship, Project Agent for Sharing Circle & Listener Sharing Circle 
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MindfulListener82
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I'm no therapist, but I promise you this: I will listen ✨ I will care 💟 I have personal experience in and can accept chats regarding adhd, anxiety, depression, managing emotions, panic attacks, parenting, alcohol/drug use, family stress, forgiveness, loneliness, ptsd/trauma, self esteem, mental health, work stress, breakups, and recovery. I LOVE reviews and feedback 💝 Please leave a review/feedback about our chat experience after we've chatted by clicking the ⭐️ in our chatroom. Reviews are such a gift and they really help other 7cups members, and myself, to see if I’m the right fit for certain topics. I do not accept chats regarding the following issues:  Bipolar, BPD, cancer, chronic pain, diabetes, disabilities, domestic violence, eating disorders, financial stress, Grief (depends on the situation) LGBTQ+ Issues, Infertility, Physical Health Diagnoses, Schizophrenia, self-harm, sexual assault, sexual health, religion/spirituality, and weight management. ✨”Anything that’s human is mentionable, and anything that is mentionable can be more manageable. When we can talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary.”  ~Fred Rogers ✨ ✨”If I can see pain in your eyes then share with me your tears. If I can see joy in your eyes then share with me your smile.” ~Santosh Kalwar ✨                       *Disclaimer* If you are looking for someone for casual chat or have issues that I do not take, I might not be the best Listener for you. Please browse Listeners here:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/    
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beck1
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PFP made by @FrenchMarbles [https://www.7cups.com/@FrenchMarbles] After much time and thought, I have decided to leave Cups. I am leaving my account live so that people have a chance to see my messages and then eventually will be putting my account on self care break, indefinitely.  I am thankful for my time here and have learned so much from so many amazing people. Thank you to those of you who have supported me in my Listener journey and thank you to the members who have courageously trusted me with their stories. This journey is one that I will never forget
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blissfulForest7074
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Hey beautiful people ! "Whoever you are and whatever you're dealing with, I'm sure you can overcome it. Cause you're brave, even if you don't see that in yourself. Being brave doesn't mean not being afraid. It means going forward, despite being afraid.  So whatever you're going through, you're safe here. Like all my other fellow listeners, I'm here for you.  So if you want to vent or talk or maybe just chat,  I'll here to listen."   I can't take live chats at the moment, so if you're fine with offline chats with responses ranging till 72 hours, we can talk :) If it is taking some time reach back to you, so you can browse for amazing listeners who can listen to you from here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] :   "Don't just watch the clock; Do what it does-  Keep going." I'm also a GLDD mentor. If you're interested in joining the GLDD program click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScLV42VgPTseoHMYbCM0fQvj4eSkuTvZ1DOKSDjoQBBfESoEg/viewform]. If you have any queries regarding the program, you can contact me or other GLDD mentors! Hope y'all have a great day today 😊 Cheers !
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29amy
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Hello there! I am so happy that you came upon my bio! A quick introduction, my name is Amy and I prefer the pronoun She/Her!  I would love to make your day as that makes my day as well! Important: Currently not taking 1-1 chat To both listeners and members: I am sorry if I don't reply to your message, this does not mean that you are not important! I really care about each and every one of us, this can be that it is buried by other messages, please gently nudge me in that case! Thank you for understanding! You can book a time to chat with me 1-1 HERE [https://29amy.youcanbook.me/] (All the links in blue are clickable, click on it to learn more!) ‧͙⁺˚*・༓☾ My Status ☽༓・*˚⁺‧͙ ✿ I am here for you, send me a personal request and I will be there! ✿ I am offline and not available to chat with you now, feel free to leave me a message and I will try to get back to you in 24-48 hours! If you need immediate help, browse for other listeners HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. Or if you would like, you can book an appointment to chat with me HERE [https://29amy.youcanbook.me/] ✿ I am in 7 Cups but am busy at the moment, sent a message and I will be with you after I am done!  ‧͙⁺˚*・༓☾ A little bit about me ☽༓・*˚⁺‧͙ I am a high school student in Canada and I am a passionate future psychology student. I love sweets, especially creamy goods like chocolate, cheesecake, bubble tea, caramel toffee, and coffee, but honestly, the list goes on and on! Eating always makes me happy, you won't be able to see me without food for long, a tiny snack here and there keeps me alive! I love listening to music, in particular, ancient Chinese instrumental music, Chinese songs, Kpop, and pop music! Feel free to give me song suggestions, I love it when people do! Not only that I love listening to music, but I also love playing instruments too! I play the flute and ukulele, I am currently learning how to play the guitar and the piano! I am also very into fashion, I love to have beautiful cute clothes and I am a huge fan of shoes! I love to bake and cook, the feeling of accomplishment when seeing the end result is no joke! ‧͙⁺˚*・༓☾ Why am I here ☽༓・*˚⁺‧͙ I have had many people around me that suffer from some sort of mental illness, I am so sad to see how much they are struggling, and I am here to make an impact in the community! I really want to become a more experienced listener so I can help others more effectively, currently working on that! ‧͙⁺˚*・༓☾ My involvements here in 7 Cups ☽༓・*˚⁺‧͙ ✿ I am a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/QualityProjectsVerifiedListeners_144/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/], which means that I have been approved by 7 Cups as a high-quality listener to better listen to you! ✿ I am a Project Agent [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HelpWanted_188/HelpWanted2021_2099/ProjectAgentRoleSubcommunityTeams_237459/] of the Student & Career Support Community! ✿ I am a Room Supporter [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/GroupSupportTeamCommunication_2139/RoomSupporterUpdatedRequirementsandApplication_247786/] in the Around The World Community & the Healthy Living Community! ✿ I am a part of the Peer Appreciation Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/1/] creating wonderful appreciation graphics [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PeerAppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/1/]! ✿ I am a 7 Cups Marketing Assistant [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ContentVolunteerTeam_198/MarketingAssistants_2345/MarketingAssistantsNewRoleAnnouncement_267473/], creating social media graphics to allow more people to benefit from 7 Cups! ✿ I am in the Safety Patrol Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/SafetyPatrolTeam_1685/CallingAllVerifiedListenersApplytoJointheProfilePatrolTeam_152025/1/], flagging accounts that can be potentially harmful or inappropriate. ✿ I am in the Care Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/TheCareTeam_2237/TheCareTeamisnowacceptingNEWAPPLICANTS_250315/] reaching out to people who need a friendly check-in! ✿ Aside from the roles mentioned above, I have graduated from the Group Leadership and Dynamics Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupLeadershipDevelopment_206/AnnouncementsandUpdates_2200/7CupsAcademyTheGroupLeadershipandDynamicsDevelopment_233187/1/]. I am also a host of many discussions and events, stop by and say hi! Member Sharing Circle Host [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HelpWanted_188/HelpWanted2021_2099/SharingCircleHelpWantedAVarietyofRolesAvailable_255111/] Every Sunday 10:00 pm - 11:00 pm ET in the Sharing Circle Room! Teen Discussion Host [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TeenOnlyZone_123/TeenDiscussionLeadersTeam_2152/TeenDiscussionLeadersNeeded_221480/] Every Saturday 11:00 am - 12:00 am ET in the Student Support Room Listener Learning Discussion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/ListenerLearningDiscussionsTeamRecruitment2021_222848/]  Every Sunday 11:00 pm - 12:00 pm ET in the Teen Listeners Chatroom! Listener Sharing Circle Host [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/HostsWantedForListenerSharingCircle_257571/] Every Sunday 8:00 pm - 9:00 pm ET in the Listener Sharing Circle Room! Listener Check-In Host [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/HostsWantedForListenerSharingCircle_257571/] Every Sunday 8:30 pm - 9:00 pm ET in the Teen Listeners Chatroom!
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LilyBlossom21
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*currently not accepting chats* I'm very open minded and patient. Twins: @Glue @Thedoctorno12
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