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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Listeningsarinn
L Genius 11 4384
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7cups availability: no longer available for new support chats on 7cups, if we have talked before you are welcome to send me a text please use browse listeners page if you need support, there are many awesome listeners available 💙 ------------------------- To My teenie friends🥺 if you want to leave me a message you can reach me by tagging me on forums you are missed ------------------------- Hey, I'm Sarinn and I'm here for you, this chat page is a safe place, A place, where you won’t be judged  and you have nothing to be ashamed of, I'm already proud of you and sending you my love ------------------------- What are some reasons you can text me for? if you are a member you can text me to share about anything that is making you struggle,  busying your mind or feeling heavy on you, you aren't alone, we can talk and face it all together if you are a listener You can reach out to me for chat support (help handling a hard chat) or if you need help figuring anything out on cups As a trained mentor, I can help you with Chat situations, mock chats, figuring out sub-communities, leadership roles or finding resources and regardless of if you are a member or listener you can always text me for random hugs you can spam me with song recommendation which I'll love or to casually chat and get to know each other and have a fun time ------------------------- you can expect me to reply right away only ~if my status shows online/green ~if i was in a room and you are messaging after asking me if you could pm me ~if we have scheduled the date and time to chat together otherwise, please keep in mind that I'll take up to 72 hours to reply ------------------------- there are 3 things that I tend to do 1. I call my friends "love" both in real life and here 2. I am a hug person, I love hugs and I might send you virtual hugs 3. I might leave you random texts and check in sometimes if any of these, or anything else in the chat, makes you uncomfortable, or if there are triggers that I need to avoid, let me know and I'll be careful not to repeat ------------------------- ~lgbtq+ Ally~ ------------------------- some people i miss badly on cups *~* @kimmkimm (miss you awesomeness) @ruby2468 (I can’t think of a way to reach you rn, but I’m thinking of you, missing you and hoping you are doing okie) @brokentearss (miss you lampshade, and will never forget you) @ALeXaNdEr0712 (you are missed, and on my mind at random times) @tazzie (rest in peace taz) @tallwalker4850 @serenn @bluewalker8200 @exuberantplane4067 @swiftygirl13 @ri337 @jaja25 ------------------------- reminders~ your feelings are real, and you have every right to feel them, to speak them but just remember that you won't always feel the same way trying your best is enough and it's all you ever gotta do you are a human, and as a human, you have the right to make mistakes  your choices, thoughts, feeling and actions, make sense in the bigger picture of your life, and by a big chance anyone else, exactly in your shoes would do the same  and always remember; love yourself: speak yourself  'cause "life gets hard and it gets messed up when you give so much but it's not enough when the high's too high and the low's too low  ....  don't you let it kill you,  even when it hurts like hell oh whatever tears you apart,    don't let it break your heart"    sometimes, it can feel so heavy, to be a human to feel, to get thru daily life,  sometimes, it feels so lonely to be who you are, sometimes, mind gets cruel, too much thoughts and memories,  when you really just want it to stop, to go silent and to give you a rest sometimes, it's panic, other times, sadness anger, exhaustion, frustration sometimes, it is too much to process, other times, numbness and regardless of what it is, how big or small you don't have to face it alone by a big chance, i can't solve the problem, but hey, dark places are much less scary when not alone sharing, talking and feeling understood can help you feel much more ready to face, get thru and sometimes, solve the problems 
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Sventek
L Marvel 7 2462
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi *** I am not suitable for long-term care. If you need a Listener that is long term, please locate someone else on 7 Cups that can provide that service. I'm excellent for short-term, single chat sessions as my work schedule (the one I'm paid for) is unpredictable. Please Note: I *ONLY* handle relationship issues, marriage/boyfriend/girlfriend, including but not limited to alternative relationships (poly, sharing, etc.) and sexual issues of any type - men or women. I am VERY strict about it. If you have OTHER serious conditions for which you are also seeking support - I am not the Listener for you. My background includes extensive experience with handling situations of infidelity, relationship problems, sexual problems, and various open or closed relationships.All other issues - please find yourself another Listener. I do NOT accept Listener Chats. If you'd like to talk with me, must be a member account, no exceptions. I am also not the type of Listener to tell you what you only want to hear. There are plenty of other Listeners who do that. I'm more factual, to the point, sometimes blunt, but always reasonable and fair without ANY judgment whatsoever. Selecting me as your Listener is YOUR choice, not required to do so; no one forces you. There are MANY talented Listeners on 7 Cups to choose from, so if you are very sensitive and prefer someone to tell you pretty things without any substance or depth - please find another Listener to support you and your needs. Not that it matters, but I maintain an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy from a regionally accredited university - Summa Cum Laude (3.973 GPA), and I'm currently working on my Doctorate, which will be completed in Jan 2025.
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Tracey12345
L Guru 12 2228
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes it is good to talk to someone caring yet impartial.. I am here to listen and find a way through  whatever is troubling you 😊
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Lofty25
L Marvel 2 3629
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Many people have difficulty giving and receiving love because of hurt and fear. Often, we do not see an attitude or belief as the source of discomfort in our life instead blame other people. We need love, satisfaction, wealth, mental sanity, a decent job, sane coworkers, and most of all happiness but the list is endless. We all have been through trouble. That's why we all are here. You're stronger than you think. Hold on to it. I'll be here to talk If you feel any trouble. Be strong let time do his job. Myself Jay I'll be a friend of yours in trouble. Just like Coldplay songs ;)
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PM1965
L Virtuoso 10 4859
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi! My name is PM, I’m a verified Listener on Cups and looking forward to listening to you.  A little more about me I’m a husband of 33 years, father, brother and veteran! In my free time, I enjoy playing video games, listening to classic rock music and creative writing!  I have lived experience with the following topics:◾Alcohol Abuse ◾Drug Abuse ◾Bipolar Disorder ◾Childhood Sexual Abuse ◾Depression ◾LGBTQ+
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Dana13
L Maven 2102
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!
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electricbird
L Advanced 7 688
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Just a little bird trying to make things easier for you 🕊️ I'm 27 years old and I'm from MEXICO. I love cats 😻 I'm always looking to learn new things. I really enjoy cooking, baking and listening to music. I'm able to take chats in spanish and english. You can find me active between 6pm-1am Central Time (CT). *ABOUT MY STATUS* GREEN: I'm available and I'll reply right away. ORANGE: I might be able to reply with some delay. RED: Leave a message! I'll get in touch as soon as I'm able to. I'm really inspired by people and their stories. I like to pay attention and truly listen, I always try to relate to the story I'm being told and finding that empathy with emotions and the way you're feeling. It warms my heart to feel like I'm able to help. "No dudes de ti, por ningún motivo, por ningún instante. Eres lo mejor que te ha pasado y yo estaré feliz de recordártelo cada vez que lo necesites". Listener twin @onedirection1213 [https://www.7cups.com/@onedirection1213] - My girl Jacie! Who I've known for the longest time in here, she's one of the sweetest and coolest cows in the world. MOO!
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SafeHarbour
L Guru 12 2321
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I am open to listening for following topics (alphabetically listed): * Abuse * Alcohol / Drug / Substance abuse * ADD * Addiction * ADHD * Adjustment issues * Adverse childhood experiences * Aggression / anger * Anxiety, stress, worry * Attachment issues and styles * Assault * BPD * Breakups * Cancer * Career * Change and uncertainty * Childhood / childhood trauma * Children * Communication issues * Complex PTSD / Complex trauma * Cultural & Racial Identity * Dark thoughts * Dating * Decision making * Depression * Development trauma  * DID * Disabilities * Discrimination * Difficult emotions * Divorce and Separation * Eating Disorders * Emotional Intelligence * Emotional Control / Regulation * Family issues * Fear of abandonment * Female sexuality * Finding yourself * Friendships * Grief and loss * Healing from trauma, grief and loss * Identity * Intimacy * Life changes * Loneliness * Marriage, separation, divorce * Motherhood * Negative thoughts * Neglect * OCD * Parenting * Parents * Personality disorders * PTSD * Racial & Cultural Identity * Recovery * Relationships * Retirement * Self awareness * Self Compassion * Self Esteem * Self Harm * Separation and Divorce * Sexual assault  * Single life * Spirituality * Stress * Student life * Toxic / unhealthy behaviours and relationships * Violence * Women's issues * Work issues (Career, redundancies, work relationships, performance reviews, conflicts)
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ChillCharm
L Marvel 11 1705
4.5 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
   Hey there, beautiful souls!❤️ 🌟 Hey there! I'm chillcharm, your friendly companion for moments when you need someone to listen. I'm here to offer a caring ear, filled with empathy, compassion, and kindness. Feeling anxious or lonely? Just send me a message, and I'll be right here for you whenever I'm online. 💬✨ 🌈✨ Let's embark on a journey together, where we navigate through the rainbow of emotions and find solace in our shared experiences. 🌈✨ 🤗✉️ Whether you're seeking a shoulder to lean on, or simply a heartfelt conversation, I'm here to provide support and understanding. Together, we'll create a safe space where you can freely express yourself and find comfort in knowing that you're not alone. 🤝❤️ 🌟✨ In addition to being your empathetic confidant, I'm also a master of multitasking. I am a Calligraphy Connoisseur 🖋️🎨 Sketching Savant 🎨📚 Bookworm Extraordinaire 📖🤝 Social Butterfly 🦋🌍 Multilingual Enthusiast 🌐🎥 History and War Movie Buff 🎬🏊‍♂️ Swimaholic 🏊‍♀️ �✨ So, let's connect, share our stories, and embrace the beauty of human connection. You're not alone, my friend. I'm here for you every step of the way. 🌟✨ I am sending you hugs and cares just holds them right 
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Ninziesss
L Paragon 5 6072
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
*Currently on break but reads messages occasionally*  Hello and welcome to my profile! 😃💕 About Me: My name is Nina and I am a Verified Adult-Teen listener and mentor here on 7cups. My door will always be open for you, as I am incredibly willing to help others! I have personal experience with anxiety, depression, parenting, low self-esteem and eating disorders however, I feel comfortable discussing many topics. Right now I am a mother and would love to help other moms in the future. Telling your personal story to a stranger can be quite terrifying and hard, but I am proud of all of you and that you have joined this amazing community. I love videogames, movies, music and going out for walks as they really help me relax. My favorite animals are cats. Please don't hesitate to talk to me, I will do my absolute best to support you! Feel free to leave a message and I will try to reply asap.  ( I highly appreciate reviews (both postive and negative) so that I can learn from them and progress in my journey! ) Chats: As a flexible listener I usually take chats that are very flexible. I adapt to the members needs, that means we can talk for an hour or more, daily or just a one time chat, not fixed days or times. However, we can also set a day and time to talk regularly. Even if we didn't, I will do my best to check-up on you every now and then. I am a kind, professional, honest and helpful listener. I would like to make this a very safe and nice environment for everyone on 7Cups. Almost everyday I get many private messages, so it might take time for me to answer. (Definitely on the weekends.)  !! I DO NOT TAKE SEXUAL CHATS OR ROLEPLAY CHATS!! Available: Tue-Fri Status:  Online  V  I am willing and available to start a conversation, please don't hesitate to message me  Busy  ? I am online, but can't take any more members. I am most likely busy talking to other members or doing something else at the moment. You can always leave me a message and I will reply to you asap.  Offline  X  This is my usual state on 7 Cups. I am probably offline or have 7 Cups open on the background. Again, you can always leave me a message and I will reply to you asap. Please do take it into consideration that my most availabe days are tuesdays till fridays. My roles: Community Mentor Leader (General Support) Listener Coach Chatroom Moderator Peer supporter Chat Supporter Academy Mentor Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team member Anonymous Evaluations Team member
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Hope
L Epitome 14 4701
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hi! I am Laiba, also known as Hope! I oversee 7 Cups academy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/HsHaven_1970/StriveTowardsLeadershipProfessionalExcellencethe7CupsAcademy_232978/1/]. At the moment I am unable to provide listening support to members. I believe education should be practical and available to all. I have the honor of contributing to just that through 7 Cups academy. Explore your options and reasons to join the academy here [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/7-cups-academy/] All our programs are free and we provide a certificate and a badge upon completion. If you have feedback about an academy program or you wish to recommend a new program, please let us know using this form.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdQ6rJ-wZOzUVpI_FDpc4dkHRKgBiJQwq1NfoK_aL7F-RyP8g/viewform] Please read before PMing! ✦ My response time is within 2 working days. I am typically not available on weekends.  ✦ I am no longer taking member support requests/listening requests concerning personal issues. If you are looking for a supportive listener, please find one here! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] I have created a few growth paths (some in collaboration with the community) that I would love for you to explore! ✦ Preventing Burnout at 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/preventing-burnout-at-7-cups/] ✦ Managing Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/managing-anxiety/] ✦ Leadership Basics [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/leadership-101/] ✦ Watering Hope [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/watering-hope/] ✦ Study Motivation [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/study-motivation/]
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coolvibes
L Marvel 12 2376
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Welcome to my Igloo, Please, come sit by the fire and relax with me for a while.... Hello, thanks for finding me on 7cups. I promise to do my best to help you feel heard. I look forward to speaking with you so just leave a message.I have had an exciting adventure continuing to grow as a listener. I enjoy meeting new people and sharing moments of their day with them. I live with the philosophy that you're never too old to learn something new. Being open to learning is what keeps us young mentally, no matter how fragile our bodies get. I look forward to connecting with you. My Listener Twins @Jenna @Bobcatz @bouncyCandy4246
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