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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

WeEarth
L Sage 4 386
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I AM NOT TAKING NEW MEMBER CHATS. If I am not responding, please understand that I am not here! WILL BE BACK SOON. THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING. TAKE CARE! Greetings my friend, I am Earth. You can call me Earth, Sis, Earthling, WeE or any new nickname you can come up with - I am always open to embracing new ones.  I am a researcher, innovator, historian & archaeologist by heart. My hobbies are coding, writing, reading books, volunteering, planting trees, etc.  💗 Knowledge is my playground, and books are my loyal companions. 📖 Fun facts about me at the end of this bio 😜 My birthday is on 25 August. 😎😃 ------------------------- ROLES & RESPONSIBILITIES ON 7 CUPS Project Leader - Gratitude Rain Project   Academy Mentor - CDM (Extensions & Drop out), LDP (Course 1 - Processing) Quality Mentor Anonymous Evaluation Team Safety Patrol Team Smile Spreader - Peer Appreciation Team Forum Supporter  Chat Supporter Kindness Crusaders Project Team Listener Coaching Team (LCT) Outreach FORMER ROLES Project Agent- 7 Cups Crisis Resource Team Room Supporter - General Support Community ACADEMY PROGRAMS & COURSES Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors Internship Program - Student Track (with Honors) Content Development and Marketing Program (CDM) Quality Listening Program (QLP) with Honors Completed IDC, Time Management Course, Community building course, Peer training, etc. ------------------------- PIECE OF WISDOM FROM 🌍 Remember, every challenge is an opportunity to grow, and I'm here to support you on your unique path. 🌟 I believe that real success is based on our efforts and not just on worldly achievements. ------------------------- Inspirational Quotes That Fuel My Ambition and Drive * Take risks in your life. If you win you can lead! If you lose, you can guide!      * Dreams are not seen when you sleep, dreams are those that don't let you sleep.   * One individual may die for an idea, but that idea will, after his death incarnate itself in a thousand lives.   * No need to learn from our own fault. We can learn a lot from others' mistakes.    * Self-confidence provides strength & power imparts knowledge. Knowledge provides stability & stability leads to victory.     * Once we decide, we have to do something, We can go miles ahead.     * Everything can be sacrificed for truth. but truth cannot be sacrificed for anything.    * Apart from himself/herself & her/his family, one who thinks about her/his nation is a true citizen.    * Truth can be stated in a thousand different ways, yet each one can be true.     Time for Fun facts * I belong to a large family whether it's biological, 7 cups or anywhere. * I adhere to my own set of rules and values, while I respect others'. * My interests are diverse and I want to pursue a multidisciplinary path rather than a conventional one. * I love animations whether it's movies or series. * I love horse riding, archery, Indian martial arts, fencing, etc.  * I always wonder about the past and future and I love to explore! * I am not a regular drinker of tea or coffee, just a cup of water will be more than sufficient. But I do enjoy a cup of coffee from my sister. * I am not a foodie person but I love cooking and sometimes I create new recipes as part of my self-care plan.  * I am not an artistic person, but I love using colours.  * I love exploring but I don't like travelling.  * I love to solve problems, but I don't like to memorize math formulas. * I love hearing songs from my playlists (specific genres) Thank you my bestie for coming here!💓 Have some chocolates (with & without sugar) 🍫🍫🍫  
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Comfortablesmile
L Advanced 2 451
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Hi,  I'm Esther, a simple girl that wants to fulfill purpose by offering comfort to people who are going through mental health challenges. I'm so passionate about it because i have been there. I don't know how to share my problems to people and there are people like me out there and a good friend of mine helped me during the most difficult time of my life that would have led to a serious mental health issue. I am fine now and i want to offer help to another person. You can talk to me as your own buddy and i will give you the full attention that you need. Trust me, you will be fine..... You're not alone
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ReganL
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Hello my friends, you are looking at this currently, you are amazing for that 🌟 You are taking the first steps to make you feel better 💕 I know it is scary and your probably have many things going on in your wonderful mind 😶‍🌫️ That is okie my friend, you can share those thoughts with me without any judgment 🚫 We all have a story to tell 📖 and I am more then happy to hear yours 🤝 WishfulWillow6962 (Willow) - Willow you wonderful oldie! I thank you so much for your wonderful time, the four months of dedication and speaking to this teenie will never be forgot, let the memories live on my first! Best of luck on your next adventure  My listener Twin is MollySofia - Thank you for all you have taught me and helping me become the listener I am today I will miss you much.  I would like to thank the oldies who have helped me become the listener I am today! Each one of them who has stepped up to guide me has a very special place and is the reason why I am who I am today. Little note: If you expect a Listener with good spelling I may not be the listener for you  Talking to a random person is scary! Here are some things about me so it feels a little less scary. I am a 16 year old high school student, a sophomore. I go to college during the summer months. I have had many different battles myself, so please never fear that I will judge you for what you are going through, life can be mean, and things all affect us differently. I have some medical conditions, there may be times my response time is a little slower due to this, but you matter to me, and as soon as I can I will respond  I am so glad you are looking at getting in touch with a listener today 🤗 It takes so much strength and courage to reach out for help when you are struggling 💚 I am here for you and to help you 💛 I will not judge you for who you are or what you are feeling. I will listen to what you have and offer you a supportive area.  Green Circle: Means I am ready to chat Yellow Circle: Means I am busy, but you can send me a message and I will get to you when I can!! Red Circle: Means I am offline, but you can still send me a message and I will see it when I come back online!!   Thank you so much for looking at my profile, I hope to hear from you soon! 🌈  My roles here at 7 cups:  Verified listener 🍎 Peer support 📙 Teen Chatroom Star🍌 Mod - Student Support 🍀 Mod-  Positivity corner 🌱 Host Listener Discussion Team 💠 Project Agent ~ Listener Discussion 🌀 Chat Support 🗾 Anonymous Evaluation Team 🍇 Teen Quality Star🌷 Care Team Guide 💖 Door Keeper 🌸
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LetsCherishLife
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(Deutsch: Siehe unten) I only take chats within my topics.  ​Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like a panic attack, etc., please message me. There's no need to read the rest of the profile.  Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm a 27-year-old female from Germany, and glad you're reading this. I had and still have to struggle with some of the things I offer support with. I hope I can help you with some things based on my experience, professional university knowledge, and over six years of experience as a Listener here. I understand you well, and maybe I have suggestions, techniques, or skills to help you. For example, I'm familiar with living with chronic pain, self-harm (stopped a few years ago), and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures. I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime to possibly learn from each other in managing or getting them under control better. In the following, I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help, I will try my best to do so. If I had to describe myself as a Listener, I would say I'm primarily supportive, reassuring, and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding, I still tend to be somewhat challenging. I assure you that you have my greatest support if you choose to work with me, and I will be here for you through whatever struggle you may face. My favorite saying I took from the saw movies, which I enjoy (don't worry, I'm not a creep), is "CHERISH YOUR LIFE," and I hope I can help you do that too along the way. Send me a personal request by chatting with me or leaving me a message if: - you want to learn to live better with chronic (physical) pain/ disease, especially such that gets worse in flare-ups, or you want to know how to best support a person close to you who suffers from this (1) - you want to manage daily life better with a disability that affects you or a person close to you (autism and ad(h)d included) (2) - you want to quit self-harm (3) - you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4) - you want to talk about psychological, non-epileptic/ dissociative seizures (PNES) and possibly gain better control of them or talk about any other kind of dissociation or dissociative or psychosomatic disorder (5) - you want to chat about (C)PTSD and how it affects your life and find coping strategies that work for you (6) - you want to chat about parenting: I don't have any own kids and not so much practical experience yet, but I'll probably be doing counseling for parents, especially for children with disabilities, in my future job, so I would like to test my skills on this here and gain some first experience. (7)    - you want to chat about guilt or forgiveness. I am curious about what they involve and I'd be interested in discussing them. Depending on the situation, though, I might decide that I am not the right Listener for you at some point. (8)   - you want to chat about a personality disorder (any kind). I am curious to learn more about it, how it affects people's lives, and how they manage life with it. Yet, I am not very experienced with this topic, so it would be more active listening than suggestions. (9) - you want to learn to manage, accept, and understand your thoughts, emotions, and psychological needs. (I might decide that I am not the right person depending on what they are related to, and the chat would be more focused on the thoughts, emotions, and needs themselves and identifying them rather than what causes them.) (10) - you want to chat about faith, religion, spirituality, etc. If you wish, I might share my beliefs, but I will not force them upon you. We can try to find out what you believe or how you could solve a conflict that, for example, makes you question your faith. (11) - you have general questions about mental health, want to figure out what's going on for you, what the next steps could be, what you could do to improve your allover well-being, or if you want to find out which topic(s) the right Listener(s) for you should cover (12) - you want to discuss something related to communication or violence/abuse (any form, active and passive position) to reflect on yourself generally or regarding specific situations, or you want to discuss how communication and violence are related. Depending on the exact issue, I might not be the right Listener for you. (13) - you want to ethically or morally reflect on or position yourself in general or regarding a particular situation. (14) - you want to change a particular generally controllable (own) behavior by analyzing causing and motivational factors and looking for different ways to manage these. I have the most experience with this method regarding self-harming behavior, but I want to see if I can apply it to other topics and behaviors as well (15) If you send a personal request, please start the chat with (a) code number(s) from 1 to 15 (which you see on the list, next to the thing(s) you want to chat about) to show you have read this. I do provide long-term support as well! Let me know if you wish that, so I can see what I can offer. I offer chats related to other topics like work stress if the focus is on one of the topics listed above, e.g. work-induced PTSD, communication and/or violence, or behavioral issues at work - own behavior only.  Please note: While I have my own and professional experience with some of these topics, I am not a fully trained professional. I am in education for a job where I work with people and help them, for example, through counseling. Still, here I am only a Listener and not a Therapist. That means I can't advise you on the ultimate solution. Yet, I am glad to provide suggestions where I feel it's appropriate and consider your options together if you want to. If I am offline (red), you can still message me, and I will get in touch when I see it. If I don't take your request, feel free to message me because I might have forgotten to log out, but I will get back to you when I see it. ​ Ich spreche auch Deutsch. Themen:     - chronische Schmerzen oder Beeinträchtigung bei Betroffenen und Angehörigen, - selbstverletzendes Verhalten, - Panikattacken, - dissoziative Identitätsstörung und dissoziative Zustände/ Anfälle oder andere dissoziative Störung, - Trauma (PTBS), - Genesung/ Erholung/ Rehabililitation von einer Verletzung oder körperlichen oder psychischen Erkrankung, - Erziehung/ Elternberatung, - Schuld und Vergebung, - Persönlichkeitsstörungen, - Umgang mit Gedanken, Gefühlen und psychologischen Bedürfnissen, - Glaube und Religion, - allgemeine mentale Gesundheit, - Kommunikation und Gewalt, - ethisch-moralische Selbstreflexion und Positionierung, - Verhaltensanalyse und -änderung (eigenes Verhalten), - Andere Themen dürfen gerne beinhaltet sein, solange der Schwerpunkt auf den genannten Themen liegt, z. B. Arbeitsleben: berufsbedingte Traumatisierung, Kommunikation und Gewalt oder (eigenes) problematisches Verhalten im Beruf. Ausschließlich andere Themen auf Anfrage, wenn sonst niemand für einen Chat auf Deutsch verfügbar ist. 
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Archive0627
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▀▄▀▄ ʏᴏᴏ, ɪ'ᴍ ᴡʏᴀᴛᴛ ▄▀▄▀ o (🥍🏒 ⚾) o Pro sensory overload(r) o Keeping a golden state of mind o Was not made to be subtle o These are the days we live for so go to infinity, and beyond - YOLO ---------- ...........outta my mind, back in 5...........
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Sventek
L Marvel 7 2462
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“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi *** I am not suitable for long-term care. If you need a Listener that is long term, please locate someone else on 7 Cups that can provide that service. I'm excellent for short-term, single chat sessions as my work schedule (the one I'm paid for) is unpredictable. Please Note: I *ONLY* handle relationship issues, marriage/boyfriend/girlfriend, including but not limited to alternative relationships (poly, sharing, etc.) and sexual issues of any type - men or women. I am VERY strict about it. If you have OTHER serious conditions for which you are also seeking support - I am not the Listener for you. My background includes extensive experience with handling situations of infidelity, relationship problems, sexual problems, and various open or closed relationships.All other issues - please find yourself another Listener. I do NOT accept Listener Chats. If you'd like to talk with me, must be a member account, no exceptions. I am also not the type of Listener to tell you what you only want to hear. There are plenty of other Listeners who do that. I'm more factual, to the point, sometimes blunt, but always reasonable and fair without ANY judgment whatsoever. Selecting me as your Listener is YOUR choice, not required to do so; no one forces you. There are MANY talented Listeners on 7 Cups to choose from, so if you are very sensitive and prefer someone to tell you pretty things without any substance or depth - please find another Listener to support you and your needs. Not that it matters, but I maintain an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy from a regionally accredited university - Summa Cum Laude (3.973 GPA), and I'm currently working on my Doctorate, which will be completed in Jan 2025.
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bluelotus99
L Epitome 19 20272
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daPenguin
L Scholar 2 720
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Hi, I'm Penguin :P, a french gay listener, and I'll do my best to help those I can :) I'm no professional, however, so please forgive me if I seem useless ! Note on personal requests : Please before sending a personal request, make sure that your issues match with the ones that I am comfortable talking about :)
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kindheartedLily
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**I am unavailable to take on new member chat**  Please reach out to another listener if you need support by clicking here to browse listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. My response time may be slower on weekdays. I appreciate your patience and understanding 💙 Hi and welcome! I'm a trained active listener and am here to listen and offer support. As someone who has struggled with their own mental health, I understand the value of having someone to talk to during tough times. I use my education, along with my own lived experience, to support and guide others on their journey. I'm here to listen with zero judgment. You are not alone 💜  🔶 My roles on 7 Cups🔶 Lead Team Leader of the Listener Coaching Team Quality Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Coach Chat Support Safety Patrol Team Teen Transition Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Verified Listeners Team  Team Lightship **This is a great tool to convert GMT to your time zone: https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/ [https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/] ------------------------- Status Green: This means I am online and available to start a conversation. Please don't hesitate to reach out and message me.   Orange: This means I'm online but am busy talking with other members and am unable to take more chats. You are more than welcome to send me a message and I will respond as soon as I can. Red: This means I'm offline. Please don't hesitate to message me and I will respond when I am back online. 
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tommy
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hi, i'm tommy. •────────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•────────────• a little bit about me   i'm an early 20s career driven, lowercase obsessed and 7 cups enthusiast from england. i am most passionate about creating a safe and inclusive space for people to express themselves. unfortunately, i am not taking on member chat requests right now. please connect with another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] 🎈 •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────• my roles @ 7 cups ambassador as communities/forum ambassador, i oversee leadership applications [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SubcommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedSubcommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/], engagement and moderation across the forums. do you need an update on your application or have you got a question about using the forums? drop me a message! safety patrol team leader i help co-lead the safety patrol and safety patrol outreach teams. let me know if you see an inappropriate profile or would like info on joining the team! misc i am also involved in several other projects across the site, so please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions! •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────•
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PoliteOcean
L Paragon 1 2134
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I CURRENTLY DO NOT TAKE CHATS AT THIS TIME. HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO BROWSE FOR ANOTHER ONE OF OUR MANY WONDERFUL & AVAILABLE LISTENERS. "BROWSE LISTENERS HERE" [http://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]   (My Pm's are always open if you have a question or are in need of help or assistance "outside" of chats.)~  Hi and welcome to 7cups! I’m PoliteOcean~ (But, You can call me "OCEAN")~ I'm a Spouse, a Parent, & also Licensed in the Healthcare Field.  I’m also a Fitness Instructor with a passion for Dance & ZUMBA Fitness. I am here to listen, support and not judge. I cannot solve all problems but I've gone through many of my own personal experiences so perhaps I can help. If I'm away, please leave me a message. ⭐️LISTENING STRENGTHS⭐️ *Family Stress *Healthy Living  *Parenting ⭐️CURRENTLY ACTIVE ROLES⭐️ * COMMUNITY MENTOR LEADER * HEALTHY LIVING TEAM LEADER & SUPPORT ROOM MENTOR *ADULT CHATROOM MENTOR & CHAT SUPPORT  *FORUM MENTOR  *Group Moderator *Discussion Trainer *Verified Listening Team  *Door Keeper ⭐️👯‍♂️ MY LISTENING TWINS 👯‍♂️ ⭐️ @HopieRemi @Vivelespatates  @MusicalMagic (R.I.P.) 🙏🏼 
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Gaygirl90
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I am kind and caring. I will try to help you to the best of my abilities. I will not give out any personal information so please do not ask me for that. My available days are Wednesday, Thursday and Saturday. Please schedule a time for a 1-1 chat. Red circle means offline Amber circle means busy Green light means available Thank you for your cooperation.
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