20s life cricis or whatever
Does any in here in their 20s like pre 20 or in mid 20s have ever felt like dude now I'm gonna be a grown upppp.. I've to act like / be a grown up myself.... Where most of the time mind goes like- Wow that's idk terrible , awesome , what's even going on situation !! Like I wanna be a baby with Ive to handle this or that situation !! Many of friends/ strangers re getting their life together, marrying, earning... Nd there's others people like me.... Having their heart broken , finding out wht to do , what to wear , eat??? Like literally what to do??? Anyone have this feeling like now everything is ur own responsibility allll everything ... I'm gonna grow old.... I'm growing old... I'm already in 20
@anonyLychee6864 😂😂 yeah I'm 24 and supposed to be a grown up... But no way I ain't ever growing up😁💖 you know life isn't a race so try not to compare yourself to others lives so much 💖 happiness is key, as long as your happy being you then that's all that matters 💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗
@Tinywhisper11 I feel odd... Like uk really really odd
@anonyLychee6864 why?? Is it because of other people in your life??? Or just your own perceptions of where you should be in life by now??
@Tinywhisper11 like they're doing sooo much.. nd I what am I evn doing??? They're financially stable, have frnds , go whereever they like , buy what they want, go out and have fun.... Nd there I'm .... Having headaches, can't go whereever I want, not financially stable, no have frnds.... Nd uk while writing these I feel both angry nd sad .... Dude I can't even cross roads.... Literally if u wanna know what happened to day or wht special did u do... I would say I crossed roads some busy ones ... Nd whn I checked his social he's out with frnds.... Why I have this stupid social anxiety by I can't I talk properly... I don't like this... I feel agitated...
@Tinywhisper11 hey... Sry fr late... I dk actually I feel like I'm breaking little by little.... I feel irritated coz I can't evn keep a promise to myself
@anonyLychee6864 hi sweetie 💖 I know things seem hard, being a adult is not easy, changes are not easy🙁 I guess you just learn as you go. Are you getting help for anxiety? Like meds or anything? Sometimes it's hard to see how much you actually accomplish every day, but there is so much that you should be proud of💖 your very hard on yourself😕 I also wish I could do more, do better with my life. But when I stop and think I realise I'm trying my best, that's all we can do💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗
@Tinywhisper11 yep , have a therapist like she told it's more based on situation
@Tinywhisper11 nd sry fr responding so late..
Hope ur ok
Turning 20 in 5 days, dont feel good about not being a "teenager" anymore. Ive got a lot on my plate- work and studying full time. I feel 40, but dont want to be 40 any time soon.
Turning 20 in 5 days, dont feel good about not being a "teenager" anymore. Ive got a lot on my plate- work and studying full time. I feel 40, but dont want to be 40 any time soon.
@Existentialism101 happy birthday in advanced.... Best wishes to u☺️🎂....
@Existentialism101 nd uk I have this exact same thought I'm growing olddd... Nd other side I feel like I'm jst kid now
@anonyLychee6864 sits beside you and hugs you tightly 💖 you have social anxiety I'm guessing🙁 you know you can't help being ill it's not your fault 💖 crossing the busy roads I think is amazing, you did really well 💖 some people daily achievements are just getting out of bed, while others daily achievements are getting a raise in their jobs. I know it's hard but comparing yourself to others always leads to a downwards spiral🙁 I know because I've been there. I'm so glad your here at cups🙂 at least you can be yourself here, I don't have friends outside of cups so your not alone sweetie 💖 hugs you tightly 💖
@Tinywhisper11 thank u a lottttttt.... Really really thank u.... Im literally crying while reading ur msg( offcc tears of joy)... Ur words mean sooo much to me.... It really means a lottt to me rn.... Thank u 💛💛
Nd uk Im trying ... It's been hard... Like today I was... Thn I was the one's they're going out, having friends irl by their sides, having fun.... Nd I don't have anyone irl to share things....
@anonyLychee6864 I get your anxious about aging. But do your family do anything nice for your birthday??
@Tinywhisper11 uk last year was kinda special bd..fr me as I was turing 20 on 20... Nd due my family related issues I had to cry on that day to... Nd I was really excited abt my 20 bd... Now u guess
@anonyLychee6864 wipes away your tears 🥲 my first real birthday was when I was 20 😁 but not because of family or friends, but because I decided to celebrate and have fun on my own😁💖 you don't have to be alone because you have us here 💖💖 it's ok to be upset about wanting to be like others, I really do understand that. But you know what there's only one you and you are the most perfect version of you there could ever be 💖 I'm here for you friend 💖
@Tinywhisper11 u k always always have the feeling like if others may validate me thn only maybe I'm valueable.... I never looked on things whn they created pain for me... I thought maybe if I endure more be patience more thn will the things change.... Nd thn I got comfortable with the lows.... I still feel the things things would be different if I would change... Like yes I have some bad habits.... Bt thn whn I have this conversation with myself in my head.... I feel guilt like u don't evn know how much guilt do I feel... I become emerged.... Nd I don't know if I'm doing any work....
@anonyLychee6864 we are all just as valuable as each other, all just as important as each other 💖 and all our feelings matter💖 guilt is a hard one to get through🙁 bless you. Patients is very important, we learn the most by just going through life💖 I hope all your dreams I true for you, and your life turns into an amazing one💖 I believe one day that will become real for you, never give up on the hope of 'oneday' 💖
@Tinywhisper11 I don't feel good... I jst don't... Am I losing hope??? Maybe.
@anonyLychee6864 wraps you in a warm blanket and cuddles you up 💖 it's ok, everything is gonna be ok 💖 we will get you through this hard patch, you have all of 7 cups to lean on 💖 and until you get your hope back, I'll carry enough hope for the both of us 💖
@anonyLychee6864 hi how are you??? And happpyyyy birthday sweetie🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈 just thought I'd check in on you💖💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗
@Tinywhisper11 hey ... Hiii thank u... Uk fr checking.... Fr past days I tried to solve... It's been Messy 😅.... Sometimes sad... Sometimes ok.... I had ice cream today it was nice.... How's u??? Did u also eat anything tasty or did something niceee??? How re u doing??
I'm also turning 21 and im afraid af
I'm also turning 21 and im afraid af
@Nehapintululu999 me toooo... Nd tooo much... Wanna have ice cream??
@Tinywhisper11 uk my therapist told me like I've this situation based anxiety or smthng... Uk if there's a thing like until it's done I'll countinuosly think abt it.... Literally countinuosly... Like Ik it's being bad bt I can't help myself... Uk I'm self aware... Ik this things re bad fr me bt I can't get over tht... Maybe I get comfortable or idk... Oh btw I forgot to ask whn is ur birthday 😁
@anonyLychee6864 did you do anything nice for your birthday?? I loooovveee icecream😋 my birthday is in November😁 I already bought myself a present and wrapped it up ready 😁💖
You have a brain that won't stop thinking 🙁 that can be really exhausting 🙁 bless you. Hopefully venting and opening up here will really start helping you 💖 your a really sweet person, I hope your getting all the support and friendship you deserve here at cups💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 remember I'm here for you 💖
@Tinywhisper11 heyyy my birthday is in December 😅.... Soooo closeee😁.... Nd I didn't do anything nice... I haven't got out my last birthday experience yet uk it' was badd😢... Ive thinking I should do something.... As it was my 20 birthday, so still planning.....
Do u ever have this tht till u finish some works... Tht thing completely occupy ur mind... Nd it stays till days.. Like u only think of that.... I've trying to be mindful bt mst of the time it's not working.... Nd uk to desperately feel smthg I end up doom scrolling.... Wht do u do in these situations.... I'm really kinda tensed nd anxious rn.... Coz these thoughts re continuing in loop.....
Btw I love how u use emojis in ur writings... It's sooooo sooo superrr nd soooo thoughtful 💛🩷.....
@anonyLychee6864 you know we have 364 unbirthdays to celebrate every year too😁 so happy unbirthday to you🎈🎈😂
I do have thoughts that seem to loop and get stuck in my mind, but not quite like you do😕 mine are just bad thoughts. How I cope, well I constantly listen to music to help distract and drown out those thoughts. Art/poetry helps, and posting them in 7 cups helps to💖 I talk to God alot, and being here at cups really helps 💖 being mindful however is easier said than done😕
I'm so sorry for the late reply, I've been going through some mental health challenges and not been around to much. I hope your ok? Gives you a giant tiny hug 💗
@Tinywhisper11 chilll u helped me a lotttt uk..... Hey how u doing??? I may not be a great help... Bt I'm always here fr as ur frnd😁😁.... So never hesitate to msg ....
Uk rn I'm actually getting stuck in same pattern... Like a loop... Ik it's bad bt anyhow I still do .. maybe doom scrolling fr hours ... Like I'm self aware... Ik it's bad ... Nd all bt I can't really stop.... So uve any idea???
Nd I get to know a neww word thanks to u... Nd it's superrrr cutee🩷🩷.... So happy unbirthday to u also☺️
