Comparing myself
patientPlane1467
September 7th, 2025
How do I stop comparing myself to people? I'm 24. I constantly compare myself to other people. I want to learn different things, like drawing. But I always go online and see people the same age or even younger miles ahead of me, and it just ruins my motivation. I honestly gave up on trying to learn different things.
toughTiger6481
September 7th, 2025
@patientPlane1467
Comparison is a tool ......... it depends on how you use it.... In some settings I can spur us on and in other situations we think why bother there is no way to catch up..... the choice is ours.
i did this when young and believe me if i had a do over i would not be doing that. I am now much older catching up on things I could have done a long time ago.
