Hair in the Shower!!!!
I need to know if I'm being unfair real quick. So I live with someone. She frequently leaves globs of her hair on the edges of my shower. I've been asking her to stop for years. She refuses. The trash can is right next to the shower. She leaves slimy hair on the bathtub until I throw it away. Is it so wrong of me to want her to throw it away herself? I hate touching slimy hairballs. I throw my own loose hair away before it gets gross. Is it so hard to just do what I do?
@BusyBird
Your friend is being rude.. She needs to grow up and be a big girl 👧
You shouldn't have to put up with someone who is dirty and being lazy..🌲
@AsherTree I'm glad you said that because I keep thinking the same thing! It's funny because she is older than I am, and we are both grown so I always wonder if she is just... I don't know. Either not as smart or not as mature.
People who know her tell me not to be so hard on her, and they often remind me that she might not know there is a problem. I just can't believe them because I have asked her politely, multiple times for years, to stop leaving slimy hairballs. 😅
@BusyBird
I am sorry your having to clean up after a irresponsible adult.. it's sad..🌲
@AsherTree🫂
@BusyBird
Nothing wrong with wanting her to pick up after herself. It sounds like she knows that you find it gross and will throw it away for her. It's definitely disgusting to have to touch someone else's wet hair. When's the last time you tried telling her to stop leaving the hair in the tub and what was her response?
@Remina I think last time was a few months ago. I have lost the energy to stay persistent.
Today she was confronted again gently. She got very angry about it. Said that the only reason we think it was her is because her hair is longer than mine (it's not much longer than mine). Worth noticing that even after that conversation, she did not remove the hair.
@BusyBird
Oooh, that is so frustrating that she is getting angry when she's the one leaving her gross hair. Are you currently sharing a lease with her?
@Remina It's complicated but I am completely dependent on her unfortunately, so not quite.
That’s really frustrating I’m sorry.
