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I don't know if should be feeling happy or sad regarding be being alone right now. we can articulate this situation with me being lonely as well as me being alone but it all depends on one's perspective, which I believe is very crucial.
More than half of the world is out there counting das for new year where a few others are like its just a new day and in between them all are people like me. I am exited about new year, but i don't have people to celebrate it nor do i have people to end this year with. Here by people I mean friends or someone who knows you but not just family because it is not always that your family knows you. Obviously sharing a new year with your family is a boon no doubt but not having atleast one person to share this excitement is something that is causing a void to fill in us, and it is getting deeper and deeper everyday but taking us in inside of it!
@abbajabba583
If you think of new year as a beginning maybe to strive to start new and have friends for upcoming events maybe not this one...
i think there is far too much pressure or the idea that everyone else is doing x,Y, and Z on new years .......... many people don't and that is OK. the idea everyone must attend a party or event is advertising many who afraid to be alone or found out they did not "join In" hang out with literally anyone just to be out ... is pretending better....
@toughTiger6481i so get that, i mean its not the idea of new beginning to me but yeah thank you!!
@abbajabba583 estou sozinha também, uma solidão enorme, em pleno fim de 2023 estou acabada e destruída, céus, desejo tanto morrer, me sinto tão só
@nicollyqz maybe not, lets take this time to learn more about ourselves than others🫶
@abbajabba583
Hey, it's okay to have mixed emotions for being alone during the new year. Your feelings are completely valid. You're not alone in this. Just know that we're here for you. I wish this new year bring a lots of happiness in your life.
If you don't mind me asking, do you've personal goals to expanding your social circle or building connections this year?
@pandanfeI do, I intend to make new friends this year and lets just say so far not so good though.
Thank you for your support🫶
@abbajabba583
That's alright. Making friend isn't easy. Personally, i find it difficult to make friends as i'm picky with people who I want around me but also they've to pick me (so it's really hard). Making friends may take some time but once we find that one true friend who's sooooooooooo good for you, you'll feel that all these waits were worth the time. I hope your intend of making new friends be successful.
Hanging around in park, or joining some clubs or any hobby group that you enjoy might be helpful. Or social media like *** because it's easier when it comes to contacts.
oh sorry the word is banned but i was talking about social media with blue icon and f is written in it with white color
IDK if giving hits on banned words are allowed but yea...