35+ Community Check-in May 3-6, 2021

Happy Monday to all of you in the 35+ community. I hope you all enjoyed your weekend and you are all doing well 
Do you struggle with negative thoughts that just show up and pop in out of nowhere? 
Here are some things which can help to deal with those struggles.
🌻 Try to remember that thoughts are just thoughts, they do not define you.
🌻 Write them down in a journal and then write down a positive response
🌻 Make sure to surround yourself with positive people, whether it is irl or online
What else helps you to shift your mood into another emotional state?
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@amiablePeace77
Listening to music, reading, any type of enjoyable self care 

I find that if I actually own what I feel...acknowlege the good, the bad, and the ugly instead of trying to ignore it or run away I actally grow better. I love that I can have negative thoughts, see them for what they are...just thoughts, and can choose to listen or walk away!! Hip Hip Hooray for personal growth!!
Hi all. I normally try to focus my attention somewhere else and do something more positive to change my mood. Reading helps but listening to music is the best for me. Hope you are all well and keeping safe.
@amiablePeace77
Yes I struggle with negative thoughts all of the time. I'm worry about everything even if there's nothing to worry about.
I try to listen to music
Trying to go outside or do anything