lessons learned - something you wish you'd known back then...

If you’re not sure you love him enough—don’t marry him! Don’t burn bridges! Don’t take everything so seriously! Don’t not date someone because they don’t look physically like what you are usually attracted to. Give it a shot if he’s an amazing friend! Medication for mental illness can be miraculous!

Love yourself first! Not everyone deserves your kindness.

Pursue your mental health and your life goals even if you lose your significant other. They weren't going on the same direction as your anyways

I wish I had addressed mental health concerns a long time ago. I also wished I had taken more time to figure out a career that would bring me joy instead of jumping into something I didn’t like for years and had to quit for my own well-being. I wish I could go back in time with the knowledge I have today.

Well...........In my case I am alone and lookinfg for someone to come in my life......what you guys think of I am 40 male.....do you think i should go for having new life partner in this age or i should live my life as it is ??

Only YOU can truly LOVE you. Not because you’re not worthy of someone else’s love, or attention or energy but because ONLY YOU know YOU best. Only you can help yourself because no matter who loving or understanding or empathic your partner or someone else may be, YOU are the one feeling that hurt, thinking those thoughts, having those fears. You need to LOVE yourself because only YOU CAN! :) Bittersweet truth I found at the lowest of low. It is worth repeating, everyday.

I wish I could have waited a little to get married, go to feather my studies and get a job